Hello, my name is Zhu Dabao!
In fact, I really regret getting married, and there is no way to make up for it. ”
Ma Dong asked Hu Ke, if he chose again, would he still marry Sha Yi? Hu Ke replied categorically, no.
Why not? Because she said that love can never beat family affection. Xie Yilin asked rhetorically, what if the relationship with her husband has become a family relationship? Hu Ke replied that such a family relationship can never defeat the bloodline. Do you agree with Hu Ke's statement? If you agree with the comment area, please deduct one, and if you disagree, please deduct two.
Back then, Hu Ke and Sha Yi were in love for more than a year, and when Sha Yi saw that Hu Ke was devoted to his career and had no idea of getting married at all, Sha Yi said with a very serious attitude, either marry me or break up.
Although he was not ready to get married, he was reluctant to break up, so Hu Ke chose to get married. After marriage, Hu Ke gave up his career, became a full-time wife, and concentrated on taking care of his children.
When the child was older, Hu Ke said that he loved acting very much and wanted to return to work, but he was blocked by Sha Yi, who felt that the filming time was too long, and it was not good for the two children, and he also said that the family was not short of money, so Hu Ke did not have to work so himself.
Hu Ke said aggrievedly that this matter is not hard at all, the hardest thing is your attitude. Hu Ke still insisted on filming "The Legend of Ruyi", and saw that Sha Yi was unwilling to help take care of the family, so he asked his mother to help him take care of the children with housework.
So I can understand why Hu Ke cried that she regretted getting married, and she didn't shy away from it. Because marriage brought her endless family chores, a compromise of love into family affection, and maternal punishment.
She advises the girls in the show that if you want to marry him, you must accept his family, otherwise the conflicts between the families will consume all the love between you.
Why is this happening? It is related to the way marriage is viewed in this era, everyone inherently believes that women should pay more for the family, and children should be brought by women, regardless of whether you are better than your husband in your career.
I think this is also the reason why modern women are getting more and more annoyed with marriage, all kinds of expert advice, suggesting a few more days of maternity leave, etc., in fact, can not solve the essential problem. When women can be treated relatively equally with men in marriage, and when men can realize that marriage requires them to assume their due responsibilities and obligations, women will not be so reluctant to get married.
After receiving so many grievances, Hu Ke regretted getting married, and what he rejected was not love, but the way the world looked at marriage. Love and giving are mutual, women should not be the one who sacrifices, if you also approve, please give it a thumbs up!
Sha Yi Hu Ke