The source of your unhappiness is your insatiable desires. On this long journey of claiming, you have to face harsh conditions and spend countless hours and energy just for a short period of gratification.
This path makes it easy for you to be controlled by others, who can easily force you to act with things you hold dear, to influence your emotions, and even to turn your life upside down. The more you desire, the easier it is to fall into the trap.
However, learn to let go and tell yourself, "I don't need all this anymore." ”
refuse to dwell on bad people and things;
The connections that made me feel painful, I gave up completely. People should interact with each other with pleasure and comfort, not interfering in the lives of others without boundaries because of the formation of a relationship.
When encountering people and things that do not agree, cut them off in a timely manner, without in-depth investigation, there is no hope. There is no need to change oneself for anyone's sake, and no one is responsible for the lives of others.
Everyone is an independent being, respecting differences and building a colorful world. When you get together, you are happy, and if you don't get along, you go your own way and retain your dignity, after all, the encounter comes from the deep affection of the past.
The pursuit is not something you are tired of, and you can choose the lifestyle you yearn for, which is comfortable and comfortable.
Reconcile with oneself and do not go against oneself;
Advise all women: do not torture yourself and be brave enough to fight for what is due. Don't lose confidence because of worry, you will find the answer in action. If it backfires, don't blame yourself, because it's not easy to succeed, and persistence is even more valuable.
Don't just look up to others and forget that you have tenacity, too. Although the results have not been shown at this stage, perseverance will eventually be rewarded. Don't seek perfection, only progress, even if you fall behind, you must move forward steadily and enjoy the scenery.
Don't overindulge in anticipation;
No more empty waiting, long and lonely days of solitude. From now on, find yourself, get used to being independent, learn to grow, embrace loneliness, and not rely on others.
I have my own life and all expectations can be put down. Love yourself, treat yourself as a work of art, carve with your heart, and cherish the beauty of yourself.
Life does not need to depend on others, refuse unwarranted expectations, and every encounter will be a surprise.
Don't do things to please others and wronged yourself;
Just go your own way, do what you like, no matter what others say, self-identity is the most important. Beliefs are diverse, and they are showing their individuality. Be true to yourself and don't prove it to others.
Self-esteem stems from self-confidence, and there is no need to declare one's worth to the outside world. Go at your own pace and without outside interference.
Self-regulation does not produce more negative energy;
Life is meant to be happy. If you can't live happily, life loses its meaning. Reject the forced life and choose hope and pleasure.
Don't let flattery become a constraint, and keep your mood free and relaxed. Facing the sun, no longer attached to others, and becoming a source of warmth alone.
Now, if you feel lost, you can let go, and "I don't want it" is a signal to start again. Despite the detours, the future is still vast. Since every choice can bring regrets, go with the flow. After all, the meaning of life is to be happy.