In the journey of love, everyone longs to be the shining protagonist and enjoy every warmth and sweetness in the story. However, the reality is often more complicated than we think, and some people accidentally become supporting characters on the road of feelings, and even sometimes forget the importance of self-worth.
In some relationships, people tend to be too eager to be loved and neglect to maintain their self-worth. They do not hesitate to sacrifice their needs, interests and even dreams for the sake of each other's recognition and satisfaction.
Over time, this unequal giving can lead to a loss of self-worth, emotional dissatisfaction and exhaustion, until one day, you suddenly realize that you are only a supporting character in the relationship, not the main character.
It is not only the textbooks in the school that educate us, but also the life itself is an important classroom.
In this classroom of life, the first lesson that love teaches us is the importance of self-worth.
Everyone is a unique being and has the right to be respected and cherished in any relationship.
Learning to maintain oneself in love is not only responsible for oneself, but also respect for the other person.
How to keep yourself in love?
First and foremost, it's crucial to have clear boundaries. Boundaries are not barriers, but the building blocks of healthy relationships. It allows both parties to understand each other's bottom lines and respect each other's space, thus promoting mutual growth.
Second, communication is key to maintaining a relationship. Be honest about your feelings and needs, listen to each other, and find solutions that satisfy both parties.
Finally, don't forget about personal growth. Love is the meeting of two independent individuals, and maintaining personal interest and development will not only increase the sense of self-worth, but also make the relationship more colorful.
Everyone should be the protagonist of their own life story, especially in the chapter on love.
When we learn to value our self-worth, express ourselves bravely, and grow together with each other, we can not only become a better version of ourselves, but also weave a more beautiful love story with each other.
Let's learn to grow in love, learn to give, and more importantly, learn how to be the protagonist of our own story. This is the most precious education that love gives us.