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Love, simple and pure; Marriage, intricately intertwined.
There's a line in the movie that says:
Unexpectedly, the marriage is so complicatedI thought that one person's hard work would be enough, but I didn't know that two hearts danced together
It's not enough to give it your all. ”
The two of them spend their lives together, which is by no means just a makeshift and superposition of life
If you only rely on sharing a bed to maintain your marriage, it will eventually make the relationship like quicksand that you can't hold on, quietly disappearing with the passage of time.
Wonderful marriage,It is inseparable from the deep companionship of both sides
Genuine understanding and unwavering supportThese three elements.
Only when these are practiced can marriage cease to be compromised and accommodatingIt's the good rest of your life.
Some people sigh that it is a fortunate thing in the world.
Nothing more than the person you have your heart on, and the same person who is also devoted to you.
However, I think,It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to understand.
As the famous writer said: "In the journey of life, you encounter love
It's not uncommon to experience passion, and it's rare to meet true understanding. ”
In the realm of emotion, understanding is as important as loveSometimes they understand and even transcend the value of love.
Because only the one who understands you can penetrate your thick defensesSee through your strength, soothe your soul, and heal your inner wounds.
When you are lonely, he can provide you with a warm haven;
In ordinary days, he can understand your silent dedication;
When he's happy, he understands the meaning behind your smile.
Zhang Xiaoxian also wrote: "How I wish there was such a person
When I say, 'I'm fine,' I realize that I'm not really all right
When I force my face to laugh, I can see that I'm not really happy. ”
Getting love is like finding each other's lightning in the vast sea of people;
And gaining understanding is more like a little star in the starry sky at nightSoft and bright, enough to illuminate every corner of life
Bring peace of mind and peace of mind.
Between husband and wife, it is a wonderful fateWhether you meet love or understanding, you should cherish it.
Only true hearts are relative and understand each otherIn order to be able to walk through a hundred years of time together.
What is the ideal state for a couple?
The answer given by Xi Murong in "A Flowering Tree":
"Thou hast thy hard backbone like a rock, like a mountain, and like a lighthouse;
I have my full wings, like a heavy promise, like a burning passion. ”
Whether it is love or marriage, it is like a severe test.
A long and solid battle will inevitably require both sides to support each other and support each other.
The deviation of either side will lead to an early end to this journey.
If you want to grow old hand in hand with each other, you have to shoulder all the burdens of life together
You help me share the pressure, I solve the problem for you, and become the most solid support for the other party.
Only by supporting each other and achieving each other can we find comfort and warmth in hardship.
There's a good saying:"Marriage is like two streams converging
You gradually merge and together nourish the fruit of life. ”
A truly happy marriage is by no means a one-sided hard supportIt's a concerted effort on both sides.
Life is a long journey, and if you have a partner who can support each other, it is undoubtedly a great luck in life.
A sentence that I think is true:"In life, encounter is fate, and companionship is deep love. ”
Life is full of hardships, life is hard, but it is precisely because of companionship that I am no longer lonely.
Even if it's just a greeting, a look in the eye, a tight hug
Or silent companionship is the most powerful supporting force in the dark night.
In the reality show, he told the whole process of accompanying his wife to give birth.
It took a full ten hours of hardship to give birth to the child, and listening to her screams of pain, my heart was like a knife.
Although at that moment he couldn't bear the pain for her,
But he was always by his side and never left half a step.
For that period of paternity with clenched hands,She admits that she has never felt such a strong sense of courage and security.
Many times, it is these solid supports, warm companionship,Let us have the strength to weather the storm and see the dawn of hope.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "When the soul is in trouble, what he needs."It was you who held his hand tightly and gave him a solid shoulder
Or share the trivialities with him. This is true for parents, and it is also true for children. ”
A true partner, in addition to sweet words, is more important in love and companionship.
He was there when the need needed it; When helpless, he immediately appeared.
This kind of deep friendship is the warmest existence in marriage.
Marriage is a long learning process.
We have all been honed and experienced through ups and downs.
Only by increasing understanding, increasing support, and increasing companionship,In order to taste happiness in the ordinary, and achieve a complete life in the trivial.
As the internet buzzword says:
A third-rate marriage is a separationIt's just a simple partnership to get by;
A second-rate marriage lacks passionFor the sake of the child to barely maintain;
A first-class marriage is a happy relationshipRespect each other
Progress together, life is full of happiness.
I hope we can all restore the essence of love after the passion fades
After that, they walked side by side, enjoyed the fireworks in the world, and sought peace for a lifetime.
Pay attention to it and encourage you together.
Men can't resist new love, and women can't resist ......