In love, some couples think that their love has reached its peak and think of going one step further.
However, those particularly conservative girls don't actually want to sleep with their boyfriends before marriage, and they are afraid that their boyfriend's enthusiasm will disappear because of her refusal.
Nowadays, this problem is obviously quite normalBut it's best for girls not to sleep with their boyfriends before marriage.
There are many girls who are struggling with this issue, when to give it and when to be together.
In fact, as for when to give, there is no fixed period, as long as you love deeply, it will happen naturally.
1. The uncertainty of marriage.
If a boyfriend and girlfriend have a relationship before marriage, it will make the guy think that the girl is too easy to get.
And what is too easy to get is often not cherished.
Before getting engaged, whether the boyfriend and girlfriend can get married, the two of them, no one knows.
Even if the relationship between two people is very good temporarily, but over time, their respective shortcomings will definitely be exposed one by one, and when the time comes, it is really difficult to say whether they can tolerate it.
Once there is a conflict between boyfriend and girlfriend, they will face quarrels.
At this time, the boy will feel that he has got a girlfriend, and he will also think that his girlfriend will not leave him.
The boy is blindly arrogant, so he relaxes his concern for his girlfriend, and in the end, in the face of his girlfriend's temper, he has an expression of indifference, which makes his girlfriend completely chilled.
A good relationship can't help but have some small contradictions, and what is even more disappointing is that the man's easy access finally makes the marriage a little more secure.
Therefore, sleeping together before marriage increases the uncertainty of marriage, and the easy access of boys will eventually bury the relationship.
Second, after the breakup, the girl suffers too much.
If a girl sleeps with a boy before marriage, the girl may lose her first time, and in the future, if the man and woman can't be together, the girl will welcome her next love with a psychological burden.
Some boys attach great importance to the first time of a girl, as long as the girl is not the first time, whether he loves it or not, he will mind very much.
Even if it's not the first time for a girl to give herself to a boy before marriage, after the breakup, she feels quite a loss, because a girl can only be so in love with someone deeply.
Before marriage, boyfriend and girlfriend sleep together, and it is the girl who suffers, whether it is the first time for her or not, once she is broken up, she will become very passive.
3. It increases the risk of pregnancy and affects the conditions of marriage.
There are many young people who, at a passionate age, have no sense of family and marital responsibility at all, and they only covet momentary happiness without taking measures in advance.
In this way, it is easy for girls to get pregnant.
In the unlikely event that a girl becomes pregnant, she will lose the initiative in the marriage.
Boys can deliberately lower the terms of marriage that they have promised because of the girl's pregnancy.
For example, if a girl asks for a bride price before, a boy can give less or no bride price.
When the time comes, girls and boys will not have so much confidence to negotiate conditions.
If the marriage conditions are not suitable, the girl will face a breakup, and then the child will become a big problem.
Whether to stay or not, it is a kind of harm to girls.
Therefore, if a girl has a relationship before marriage, it will increase the risk of pregnancy, which will affect her marital conditions.
Fourth, it is easy to be minded by conservative parents.
In real life, there are also a lot of parents who are particularly conservative.
As long as the girl lives together before marriage, the man's parents will think that such a girl is a bit inappropriate.
So, they are not very optimistic about such girls.
After marriage, due to the prejudice of the man's parents, it is easy to improve the status of his in-laws, thus constantly suppressing the family status of his daughter-in-law.
If a girl's personality is cowardly, it is easy to be bullied by her mother-in-law after marriage, and if a girl's personality is strong, either her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible, or her mother-in-law swallows her anger.
In short, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage will not be harmonious, which directly affects the family status of girls after marriage.
Therefore, girls must protect themselves before marriage, and sleeping with their boyfriends is actually not any good.
If a girl is smart enough, she should not have sex before marriage, unless she recognizes the boy, and the boy is worthy of her trust.