A "volcano" that could erupt at any time
Today, while reading the draft of my son's winter vacation diary, I stumbled upon his pen of me – a "volcano" that could erupt at any moment.
The "volcano" of my house
In my home, there is a unique"Volcanoes", this"Volcanoes", is my dear mother. Her emotions are like magma in the depths of a volcano, which can surge at any time and set off a torrent in her heart.
Whenever I make a mistake, Mom's"Volcanoes"It will vibrate slightly, and the latent energy seems to be ready to burst out of the shell at any moment. I was always cautious and terrified to watch her reactions, for fear of touching that terrible energy.
Once, I suddenly got stuck while reciting an ancient poem and forgot the next sentence. Mom's "volcano" reacted immediately, and anger erupted like a volcano, making me tremble. Another time, my mom asked me to do my winter vacation homework, but I put it off because I was playful. This undoubtedly touched the mother's "volcano", and the anger burned again. I fled back to my room in a panic and quickly started doing my homework to calm her anger. Another time, I was careless in my oral arithmetic and got some questions wrong. Mom's "volcano" let out another earth-shattering roar, and my legs went limp. When I was writing fast and scribbling, my mother's volcano erupted again. I was in too much of a hurry to write about honey harvesting, my handwriting was blurred, and the volcano erupted again. Every time my family's volcano erupts, it makes my heart palpitate.
How I wish my mom could turn into a hot spring, warm and peaceful. But I know that it will take time, and it will take me to calm her anger and let the magma in her heart slowly cool. I'm going to try harder to correct my mistakes and make Mom's"Volcanoes"No more eruptions.
I was shocked when I read my son's draft diary, I never thought that I was a "volcano" that could erupt at any time in his heart, which made me feel very sad. I've been trying to build a strong mother figure for him, but I didn't expect it to bring him so much fear and uneasiness.
When I saw my son describe in his diary how I was angry because of his mistakes, I felt deeply guilty. I realized that the way I managed my emotions could have had a negative impact on him, causing him to live with worry and fear all the time. I should face his mistakes more calmly and rationally, and guide him to correct them with a gentle tone and attitude.
I was deeply touched by my son's diary expression of his wish that I could become as warm and peaceful as a hot spring. I understood that as a mother, I should give him more love and support instead of treating his mistakes with anger and blame. I should learn to control my emotions and face his upbringing with a peaceful mind.
In order to change my image in my son's mind, I decided to put in more effort. I will pay more attention to his emotional needs, respect his personality and interests, and give him more encouragement and support. At the same time, I will also reflect on my own education style and find a more suitable way to guide his growth.
I hope that through my changes, my son can feel the warmth and love of the family. I believe that over time, I will gradually become that peaceful and warm hot spring in his heart, providing him with endless love and support.
Finally, I would like to say to my son, "Dear baby, Mommy will try to change yourself so that you feel more loved and supported. Mom wants you to grow up healthy and happy and become a confident, brave, and caring person. Mommy loves you forever! ”