Whenever I miss you, the corners of my mouth quietly rise; Every time I think of you, my heart is surging and tormenting.
If you really love someone, the soul may still be hesitant, but the body has already felt it first, and it is clear in the heart.
Looking back suddenly, Fang realized: true love can indeed trigger physiological resonance and response.
When I think of you, the corners of my mouth can't help but curvature, which is a mark of love. In Wang Xiaobo's world of love letters, when he mentioned his thoughts about Li Yinhe, the face that he himself joked as an "ugly face" would naturally show a smile, and he couldn't help but sigh: "Quietly miss you, the world seems to have become incomparably beautiful, and I have never experienced the beauty of love so beautifully, and the beauty that goes deep into the bone marrow." ”
In Wu Qishi's "Silent Confession", the expression of love is also likened to a smile: "Smile means: I like you, you make me happy, and my heart rejoices when I meet you." "Happiness and smiles, which may seem easy, are not easy to obtain, but because of love, they become so easy.
Let's think of a reader named Chen Ping, who met her husband at a blind date. At first, Chen Ping did not fall in love with her husband at first sight, she claimed to be a loyal member of the "Appearance Association", and her husband's appearance could only be described as ordinary in her eyes.
However, it is such an ordinary-looking man who has brought Chen Ping pleasure that she has never experienced in her past relationships. During their dates, her husband's humor always made Chen Ping let go of her reserve and laugh heartily.
After six months of getting along, they chose a "flash marriage". On the day of receiving the certificate, Chen Ping shared such a passage in the circle of friends: "You said that when you met me for the first time, you smiled unconsciously, and at that moment you knew that I was the person you didn't want to let go of no matter what." But I want to say that the happiness you bring me is far more than what I give you, and it is not that you are lucky to meet you, to know and love each other, but that I am extremely lucky. ”
Love is mutual, and happiness can infect each other. The physiological response of love is: when he laughs, you smile with it.
As far as the eye can see, only the gentleman is alone, and the love is all in the eyes to say: "The world I see in my eyes is gradually shrinking, once the sun is shining, and then the stars are shining, and now, I can only accommodate the petite and special you in my sight." However, it is this little you who warms my heart like the sun, illuminates my way like a starlight, and bathes my short life in countless glorious moments. It turns out that love is greater than we think.
On the occasion of the Dragon Boat Festival, the movie "When a Man is in Love" appeared on the screen, which aroused strong resonance among many audiences. Many people's first reaction after watching the movie is that there are not enough tissues, and the second reaction is to marvel at the fact that love at first sight really exists. The so-called love at first sight is when you have not met you, and you regard love as a thousand scenes; After meeting you, love is reduced to your shadow in my eyes.
In the movie, Ah Cheng, the "debt collector" played by Qiu Ze, wears a floral shirt and a big gold chain around his neck, and seems to be unruly, but after meeting the heroine Wu Haoting played by Xu Weining, he fell in love and couldn't extricate himself. In order to capture Wu Haoting's heart, the man who was involved in love for the first time became "stupid": he made a love contract, and every time he dated Wu Haoting, he reduced his debt; At Wu Haoting's father's funeral, he led a group of brothers to lend a helping hand to help the isolated Wu Haoting take care of the funeral; He also did not hesitate to sing popular songs in front of everyone and dance exaggerated dance steps, just to express his affectionate ...... to Wu Haoting
It is often said that love makes people stupid and lose their minds. However, true love does not make a person stupid, but leaves only the loved one in one's eyes and heart. With such innocent love, why care about those who can't get into sight?
Tracing the classic lines of "No Longer Let You Be Lonely": "I came here with many stories to tell you, and what I love the most is the way you talk nonsense, and the laughter always intoxicates me." ”
Once, my heart was as empty and lonely as a wilderness, but fortunately, in that moment a long, long time ago, you cast that glimpse at me. I don't remember the exact time, but I will always remember that look. That glance seemed to span thousands of years and made an eternal memory.
When emotions are strong, kisses convey deep affection. No matter how warm the words are, they can't compare to the real temperature brought by a kiss. From the touch of the lips, it spreads to the whole body, and goes to the depths of the soul. Just like the half-liter secret contained in an empty bottle leaning in the corner of spring, we can cross the river of time through a kiss to interpret each other's inner world. The delicate gap between lovers is perfectly matched by kissing.
Not long ago, a reader shared her feelings about her ten-year marriage: "Brother Bei, do you know that my husband and I have been married for ten years, and I firmly believe that we love each other more now than when we were in love, and every night he will kiss me and say 'I love you'. ”
I love you" is easy to export, but difficult to practice, especially in the act of kissing. Whether a man truly loves you can often be judged by whether he is willing to kiss you and whether he longs to kiss you every day. Every kiss is a symbol of intimacy, and frequent kisses are enough to prove the tacit understanding and affection between the two.
In contrast, another reader, Tingfang, has a very different marital status. On the surface, she and her husband have been married for seven years, but in reality, they have only been really intimate for three years. Once upon a time, hugging, kissing, and sharing intimate moments were natural emotions for them. However, at some point, the husband became more and more cold and detached, and kissing seemed to be no longer an expression of emotion, but more like a routine. As time passed, even this "task" gradually stopped being done by him. Although the two slept together, their bodies were close at hand, but their hearts seemed to be separated by thousands of miles of the Milky Way.
Originally, a simple kiss could shorten the distance between the two. It is a pity that one party is stingy in giving, and the other side no longer takes it. As a result, they gradually became the most familiar strangers, sharing different dreams in the same bed, and looking like each other. In the eyes of outsiders, their marriage may be like each other, but they themselves know that they once loved each other, but now even a kiss has become extravagant.
We love each other like two flowers dancing in the wind, we talk, we kiss, and when the tide goes out, the star-studded island comes into view, where we meet again. ”
When one partner no longer craves a kiss and is no longer willing to be attached to the other, over time, the relationship between the two may be separated. The two who are reluctant to kiss may only choose to drift apart in the end.
The love of a person is often unable to suppress the body's natural reaction, and the corners of the mouth will unconsciously turn up when thinking of you; When I meet you, my heart will spring up with endless expectations and desires; When I kiss you, my heart beats faster and I can't control myself.
However, we know that the essence of true love lies in running for each other, just like Li Ziwei's classic line in "I Want to See You": "Only when you look forward to meeting me, our encounter is meaningful." ”
The unilateral physiological response can be said to be the embryonic state of love; True love, on the other hand, gradually grows and ferments in the physiological response stimulated by both parties.