On an ordinary and ordinary evening, I sat with a bank friend, Y and listened to him tell a touching story about a dishonest man. The protagonist of the story, Mr. Li, is a local, a worker who has silently dedicated half his life to a large state-owned enterprise. His life is simple and regular, with a monthly salary of several thousand yuan, and in another year or two he will be able to enjoy the pension he deserves. However, such a plain life took a dramatic turn a year ago.
Mr. Li, a man who has never really been in love, married, or even has few friends, suddenly made a surprising decision - mortgage his real estate and borrow 1.6 million yuan for large consumption. This decision not only shocked the people around him, but also worried the bank. After all, Mr. Li has a stable income and a frugal life, so why would he suddenly make such a risky decision?
As the head of the bank's lending department, Y decided to talk to Mr. Li personally to find out the truth behind it. During a conversation with Mr. Lee, Y learned an incredible story. It turned out that Mr. Li met a "Ms. Wang" who claimed to be the president of the construction bank of a town in the city on the Internet. Although the two have never met, not even on the phone, Mr. Li is deeply involved in this virtual relationship. Ms. Wang asked Mr. Li for money under various names, from investing in a shop to opening a hosiery store, Mr. Li did not hesitate to hand over his savings, loans, and loans from people around him to this virtual "girlfriend".
Y knew that this was likely to be a **, so he tried to verify it from all sides. As he expected, the CCB that Ms. Wang said did not exist, and she herself was not in the banking system in Nantong at all. And the so-called syndicate shop is even more illusory. In the face of these irrefutable evidence, Mr. Li has always been unwilling to believe that he would rather plunge himself into a deeper predicament than face this cruel reality.
Mr. Li's insistence made Y feel helpless. He understood that Mr. Li at this time had fallen into an emotional quagmire and could not extricate himself. He tried to persuade Mr. Li to call the police, but Mr. Li was worried that if he called the police, he might not only lose all his money, but also the "girlfriend" he loved so much. This kind of attachment and dependence on virtual romance makes Y feel distressed and helpless.
**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan As time went on, Mr. Li owed more and more money. He tried to pay off part of the arrears through the unit's bonus, but was eventually cut off by Ms. Wang for various reasons. Eventually, Mr. Li was penniless and in debt. His house was seized by the bank and his pension was in jeopardy. And the culprit of all this is the "Ms. Wang" who never appeared. This story shows us the fragility and complexity of human nature. Mr. Li is lonely all his life, longing for love and companionship, but is bewitched by a virtual romance and ends up paying a heavy price. This also reminds us that in real life, we must keep a clear head and a vigilant mind, and not be easily fooled by the superficial goodness. At the same time, we should also pay attention to and care for the lonely people around us, give them more care and help, and let them feel the warmth and true feelings of the world.