Writer Mizumuraan once said:
"We are entering an era where character is everything. ”
If you think about it, a person's character is often reflected in his daily life.
Those who have good conduct tend to be sincere and honest;
Those who are morally virtuous also tend to be upright and have good intentions.
You must know that people cannot forget their roots in the world, and the foundation of being a person is character.
In this way, a person with a bad character will only be unable to move an inch, and if he has a good character, he will be famous for thousands of miles.
The more honest a person is, the wider the road
In daily life, in addition to our credit scores for bank transactions, we also need credit values for our interactions with people at all times.
As Márquez said:
"Trustworthiness is a treasure that should not be thrown away. ”
Indeed, when we don't need to use the integrity value, we often have a fluke mentality; But when it's time to use the integrity value, I regret it when I look at my score.
In other words, if your bank deposits are real, then your creditworthiness score is virtual.
After getting rid of the reminder of the mobile phone's value, the only person who can remind you at all times is yourself.
Especially in the current era of information exchange, when you consume your integrity value, you are undoubtedly voluntarily wearing the hat of dishonesty and losing the foundation of the world.
I agree with Lin Dasheng's words:
"The slightest bit is related to discipline, a small thing, an inadvertent dishonesty, may ruin our reputation for a lifetime. ”
I once saw an incident where a netizen was rejected for a job everywhere.
At first, she thought that it was because of her own incompetence, or that she had failed to satisfy HR with some of the details she had answered during the interview.
She never understood why she was rejected every time she was interviewed, and even if she succeeded, she would be politely dismissed by the company soon after.
Later, in an inquiry, I learned that the reason why I was rejected every time was because I had borrowed a sum of money on a loan software and never paid it off, so I was blacklisted for dishonesty without my knowledge.
It can be seen that the so-called roads leading to Rome are based on integrity.
When your integrity score is full, as long as you work hard, every road in front of you will work;
And after you are on the list of dishonesty, no matter how strong your ability is, you will become nowhere to go.
Similarly, when a person is doing things, he must also take a long-term view, and don't let dishonesty become an eternal stumbling block on his life because of a momentary fluke.
The bigger the pattern, the kinder the person
In fact, the bigger the pattern, the more strict they are with themselves and treat others well.
Their kindness is like a light, warming themselves and illuminating others.
As the ancients said:
"A good heart is immortal. A hundred lights are shining, and thousands of miles are bright. ”
Although kindness is a choice, people who are dedicated to kindness can often let kindness accompany them throughout their lives.
Recently, Zong Qinghou, the founder of Wahaha, passed away due to illness, and her daughter Zong Fuli said bluntly at the memorial service
My father was a kind man full of great love. ”
It can be said that even though his business has long been bigger and stronger, he still maintains the habit of frugality.
Regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, Zong Qinghou wears cloth shoes, and is also affectionately known as "the richest man in cloth shoes".
Someone said: "The consciousness of working more, giving more, and enjoying less is in his bones." ”
In fact, in addition to caring for employees on a daily basis, the Spring Breeze Action he initiated has also silently helped many people in the past 23 years.
I thought, only "sneak into the night with the wind, moisturize things silently." In order to describe the great love of Mr. Zong Qinghou.
Even if the kindness is silent, for those who are helped, it is like feeling the power of a thousand pounds.
Albert Einstein said
"The meaning of life is to put yourself in the shoes of others, to worry about the worries of others, and to enjoy the pleasures of others. ”
I think so. People with a big pattern still choose selfless dedication, shoulder suffering, and pass on kindness after seeing sentient beings and enjoying wealth.
A good character will accompany you for a lifetime
Hugo said:"Conscience is a little knowledge that exists in our hearts, and we are born with it. ”
In fact, character is the conscience that lies deep in our hearts, and it is also the bottom line of our conduct in the world.
It doesn't matter how much ability or wealth we have, even if we live a simple life, we can establish the correct three views and cultivate a healthy character.
You must know that no matter which field we enter, our own ability can get us started, but only character can make us stand firm.
For the rest of our lives, I hope we can all keep our character, keep our original intentions, and let good character accompany us throughout our lives.