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Su Xun said in "Heart Art".
"Mount Tai collapsed in front and the color remained unchanged, and the elk was on the left and not instantaneous, and then it could control the interests and treat the enemy. ”
To be truly strong, it must be strong inside.
However, the strength of the heart must rely on oneself to stabilize emotions, stabilize mentality, and stabilize the pattern to slowly improve and strengthen.
It can be said that only by stabilizing oneself can a person silently take root downward and grow quietly upward.
In this way, you can have the energy and wisdom to control everything, you can break through the clouds, break through the ground, and truly allow yourself to win.
Stabilize your emotions
If you are stable, you can be trusted.
Only when a person can stabilize his emotions can he not lose himself in an impetuous state of mind.
Too many people, because they can't control their emotions, end up letting their emotions vent and hurting others and themselves.
In fact, once people's emotions are out of balance, they are prone to cranky thoughts, and even like a flood of beasts, they destroy themselves and completely hurt others.
A mature person will definitely make himself emotionally stable no matter what he is facing.
Because only in this way can everyone be at peace with each other, and only then can we have a better state to treat the present.
Mr. Lin Yutang once said:
"The absence of superfluous emotions and delusions is a kind of vow. ”
Mature people will definitely return to rationality, and even slowly quit superfluous emotions and lose delusions.
In this way, stabilizing emotions and building a strong heart can also truly withstand the ups and downs outside.
People who are strong in their hearts will definitely show all kinds of mature performances and convincing wisdom, and then they can really achieve their own life.
Napoleon said:"A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city. ”
The years cannot always be quiet and beautiful, life will always experience ups and downs, and life may be full of all kinds of ups and downs.
Therefore, in the process of experiencing life, one of the most important things for a person is to be able to control his emotions.
Then, stabilize yourself, in order to stabilize your life and stabilize your life.
Hold your mindset
People with a good attitude are more lovely and more worthy of respect, trust, and appreciation from others.
Moreover, people with a good attitude are sober-minded in real life, and no matter what kind of things they encounter, they can calm down, peel off the cocoon, and come up with the best plan.
Then, you can really rely on yourself to respond to all changes, let yourself handle things more properly, and win more and more people's respect and recognition for yourself.
Only when a person has a good mentality, no matter what kind of challenges and difficulties he encounters, can he let himself be a little less down-looking and a little more open-minded.
Then, I can really do not drill the horns, but know how to let go anytime and anywhere, so that I can not be impetuous, not more serious, not entangled, and not blindly followed.
As Feng Zikai said: "Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy." Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since it didn't get its wish, it's better to be relieved. ”
Life is like this, instead of getting angry at every turn, or becoming angry easily, it is better to follow your own pace, return to your heart, and even let yourself learn to be down-to-earth enough to face difficulties.
In this way, you can really become calm and calm enough in reality.
Su Shi said in "On Staying in the Marquis": "When the husband sees humiliation, he draws his sword and stands up to fight, which is not enough to be brave." There are great brave people in the world, who come suddenly without being surprised, and without being angry for no reason. ”
Therefore, a person who is mature in heart and mature in mind must be stable in mentality.
In this way, rely on your daily self-improvement and self-reinforcement, so that you can get a certain amount of growth every day.
I like this passage very much:
The sign of a person's true maturity is that even if the heart is turbulent, the surface can be calm and windy, and he can adjust himself in adversity, and he can stick to his heart in good times. ”
Therefore, keep your inner calm and calm, stabilize your mentality, and slowly you will find that when you become more and more mature, your own wonderful life has just begun.
Stabilize the pattern
In fact, the significance of stabilizing the pattern lies in winning the recognition and support of more and more people by stabilizing their personality charm.
A person must learn to stabilize his own pattern, so that he can continue to improve himself and strengthen himself in real life.
In this way, I can also open my horizons, strengthen my strength, accumulate my own resources little by little, and strengthen my cognition again and again.
Let yourself keep a clear mind, look at the successes and failures in life, and also allow yourself to be stable and calm in the face of ups and downs in life.
Then you will slowly find that on the road of life, you have been able to stabilize yourself, not in a hurry, no longer melancholy, and finally be able to rely on yourself to get out of the good scenery of life.