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Remember Bacon said:
"The evaluation of a person should not be based on his wealth and origin, let alone the level of his learning, but on his true character. ”
You will find that in life, those who have good character can often win the respect and trust of more people.
In the end, these people will also be able to rely on their character to win more and more opportunities, as well as more beauty and happiness for the rest of their lives.
It can be said that those people with good character often have these obvious characteristics and manifestations in reality.
Treat relationships, keep boundaries
Cultivated people not only have noble character inside, but also maintain a certain sense of boundary in the process of communicating with others in the ordinary days of every day.
This sense of boundary, in fact, is a sense of proportion between people.
There is no doubt that the reason why two people can come together and get along together must be due to certain character traits and life concepts.
However, no matter how compatible two people are, in fact, after getting along for a long time, they will have some deeper understanding, and even clearer views.
At this time, if each other does not know how to maintain boundaries and does not choose to do everything in moderation, then the two will get too close to each other, leading to friction, contradictions, and even rupture in the relationship.
There is such a sentence in Caigen Tan:
"It is good to do all things in moderation, but if you persist in seeking abundance, you will bring misfortune." ”
A person's greatest cultivation is actually that no matter how intimate the relationship between the two is, he will not trespass.
In this way, take out your real high-end quality, so that you feel comfortable character, so that everyone can get along in the process of getting along, not only can be safe, but also can be icing on the cake.
People are sophisticated and respectful
Between people, the whole rivers and lakes are constituted.
It can also be said that where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and rivers and lakes are actually sophisticated.
Then in the process of facing these people's sophistication, it will be easier for us to find such a truth, only people with good character, only people with good character, can make their life path more and more wide, even a flat road.
In fact, in the world of human feelings, if a person knows how to maintain a sense of proportion towards people and things, and can be respectful and tolerant enough at any time and place.
Then, you will be able to win the respect of others, and even favor and appreciation.
People who are willing to listen, understand, tolerate, and respect others will definitely make people feel that their character is trustworthy and can work.
Many times, we solve problems and deal with problems not by mouth, not by self-righteous ability, but by inner quality.
Those who like to explain, who like to prove, who like to debate, do not know how to respect others, and they do not know how to listen.
There are ten things that are unsatisfactory in life, so everyone will encounter some troubles, stress, pain and anxiety.
Only let yourself learn to listen, listen, and know how to respect and tolerate.
Then, we can rely on the convincing charm of character to win everyone's respect and kindness to us.
Writer Su Qin once said:
"Don't just be obsessed with love, character is more important than that. Love is temporary, character is eternal. When love slowly fades, the relationship between two people is maintained by kindness. ”
In the midst of human affairs, we must learn to listen, not rush to argue, and know how to respect, not control.
Because with the passage of time, you will find that whether it is a relationship or a life, in the end, it depends on personal character.
Treat everything and keep it responsible
A person with a sense of responsibility will be responsible not only for himself, but also for others.
Such a person, in fact, no matter how far he goes, will win more and more people's support and respect for him.
Similarly, it is precisely because I have a strong sense of responsibility that in real life, no matter what I do, I am calm and fulfilling enough.
In this way, while living out one's own value, it has also won the respect and trust of others.
In the end, treat everything with enough prudence, enough responsibility, and really rely on yourself, in real life, little by little to accumulate character and ability, and then you can really make yourself more and more independent and self-reliant.
Therefore, to build a character that has passed the test, strong strength, your life will definitely become more and more radiant.