01 Love the person who mentally oppresses you
Parents, friends, lovers, partners, colleagues, ......If you always have to make".Ta is right and you are wrongand blame you for your "mistakes" and suppress you;
To occupy the position of "always right" and beat you to the position of "always wrong", then you have to be sober!
Mental suppression, also known as PUA, refers to people who constantly give psychological and spiritual blows, so that self-doubt, denial, and become a person with a very low sense of self-worth.
A person who continues to be denied is tantamount to being judged by the court at all times
Those who always see that you are not going well and want to hit you are consuming your emotions and energy.
This situation is more common in intimate relationships, between superiors and subordinates.
Rather than being consumed by it, it is better to keep them out in the first place.
02 Flim tongue
The first time we met, I greeted you with cold and warmth, so unkind.
Once he has all the information about you, he'll start his work.
Playing right and wrong everywhere, lest the world be chaotic, likes to create disputes, and plays peacemaker afterwards.
Good at abandoning responsibilities and achieving goals in a chaotic situation.
In order to achieve personal desires, he can deliberately say that you are not in front of the leader;
In order to set off his own excellence, he does not hesitate to scandalize his opponent;
or create rumors out of nothing, deliberately spread false rumors or damage your relationship with other people;
Even pretending to inadvertently ask you what you think of someone, or saying bad things about someone yourself, and then he sows discord with them.
If a person speaks ill of others in front of you and makes friends she doesn't like, she will definitely speak ill of you in turn and isolate you.
When someone tells you which friend is scolding you behind your backYou have to be wary, he's definitely an eventful person.
03 People who especially like to take advantage of small advantages
Money is like a mirror, often the best way to reflect a person's true appearance.
Money and character see character, a person with poor money and character will definitely not be better than **, and he will never be able to make deep friends.
This kind of person who loves to take advantage of small things has a small belly and chicken intestines, and his heart is very narrow-minded and very yin.
You've been nice to him 99 timesThe 100th time he feels bad, he can hate you for the rest of his life
In fact, good people will neither take advantage of others nor speak ill of them.
Those who love to take advantage of small advantages are poor.
As the old saying goes: ".People are poor and cold, and their hearts are poor and bitter
People with poor hearts have no long-term vision and are not worthy of deep friendship.
04 Honest on the surface and insidious on the inside
Many people look honest on the surface, but they are very insidious at heart.
Usually behave harmlessly to humans and animals, take your trust, but at critical moments, they will be ruthless to you.
In fact, the more introverted and honest people are, the less necessarily they are honest people, and many people have different hearts.
If you pay attention to observe,You will find that the real motives in the hearts of these people are often selfish and self-interested
In the face of interests, he only thinks about himself and only cares about his own interests.
Honesty is originally a virtue, it is to be down-to-earth, diligent and diligent to do one's own work, and to be a clean person.
But in some people, it is shown that they are honest on the surfaceAt heart, he is the ultimate egoist, and no one who associates with him will be taken to heart.
05 Good at taking advantage of the weaknesses of human nature to form gangs
The more capable people are, the more they like to exclude others.
Isolation is bullying, but it is very common both in the workplace and on campus.
They will only choose to call people who smell like them brothers, you should be glad that you are different from them, Muxiu Yulin, the wind will destroy it.
People who are good at dancing with long sleeves and are good at everyone, and people who can be co-opted in the past are people who have a lot of calculations in their hearts and are not firm enough to be trusted.
A pile of gathered together is a! Why join them!
Author: Yan Jiu, 99 years of Dachang naked resignation in the text, working life, healthy life, make money and save money, pay attention to me, grow together!
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