I got married far away, and my mother in law told me to drink cold water during confinement, and my

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-03-02

I got married far away, and my mother-in-law told me to drink cold water during confinement, and my 80-year-old grandmother made a move, and I burst into tears

After I got married, I married far away to my husband's hometown, a small village with beautiful mountains and rivers. It wasn't easy at first, and I was a little restrained here as I adapted to city life. However, everything changed on the day of confinement.

The ups and downs of confinement.

Confinement is a new experience for me. My mother-in-law told me all kinds of taboos, but what bothered me the most was that she insisted that I drink more cold water. Every time she handed me a glass of cold water, I couldn't help but frown. However, respecting my elders, I always took it silently and drank it slowly.

Although my mother-in-law's care is a bit old, it can be regarded as heartfelt, and I understand her painstaking efforts. However, it wasn't easy to get used to, and every day seemed like a barely sustaining day.

The kindness of an 80-year-old grandmother.

Until one day, my 80-year-old grandmother quietly walked up to my bed. She held a bowl of hot ginger soup in her hand, smiled and said to me, "Girl, don't drink so much cold water, it's not good for your health." Come, try my ginger soup and warm your body. ”

Looking at my grandmother's kind eyes, I seemed to see my mother's shadow. I can't help but feel emotional, the cycle of life seems so real at this moment.

From that day on, my grandmother would prepare a bowl of warm ginger soup for me every day, believing that it would be better for my body. With her company, I gradually experienced the joy of confinement.

Grandma's story.

Gradually, I developed a deep bond with my grandmother. Every day, we would sit in a small pavilion at the edge of the village, and my grandmother would start telling stories about her youth. She talked about love, about family, about her ups and downs and laughter.

She told me that when she was young, she was also far away from her homeland because of her marriage, and her heart was full of anxiety about the unknown life. But in the end, she started a family here and lived happily. Her eyes are full of love for life and give me confidence in the future.

The moment of tears.

As the days passed, I gradually got used to everything here. In this small village, I no longer feel lonely because of the care of my mother-in-law and the company of my grandmother.

One day, I was sitting in the yard and enjoying the sun. My mother-in-law came over, looked at my satisfied smile, and suddenly took my hand, and her tone was full of apologies: "I'm sorry, I made you suffer a lot at first. I always thought that cold water was good for confinement, but I didn't expect you to prefer ginger soup. ”

I smiled and shook my head in understanding. At this time, the grandmother slowly walked over and said to the mother-in-law with a smile: "Good boy, you see, how good she is now, young people still have to respect their choice." ”

This scene made me burst into tears instantly, because I felt the warmth of my family, and I felt the tolerance and understanding between three generations. They may have different ideas, but they can reach a tacit understanding at a critical moment and give me the care I need most.

The temperature of happiness.

As a result, I began to understand that family is not only a blood relationship, but also because of mutual understanding and respect. Everyone has their own way of life, and the family is a warm harbor that can accommodate different voices.

In this small village, I not only got the company of my lover, but also felt the deep friendship between my mother-in-law and grandmother. In this warmth, I found that happiness does not depend on the hardships of life, but on whether we are willing to treat the people around us sincerely, know how to be grateful and tolerate each other's differences.

When night falls, I sit in the small pavilion in the village and feel the quiet of the years. My mother-in-law and grandmother were beside me, we were telling each other's stories, and laughter conveyed the warmth of happiness. All this made me understand the true meaning of family, and also taught me how to love this home, to love this once strange but now full of warmth in this small village.

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