The difference between a confidant and a lover is quite big, if you lose your lover, you will be sad and lost, and if you lose your confidant, you will be heartbroken, and Yu Boya will fall on the piano.
Confidants and lovers, both of which each play different roles and have different meanings in interpersonal relationships.
A confidant usually refers to a person who can understand himself intimately and has a common language, common interests, and common values with himself, they can be friends, colleagues, relatives, etc.
A lover, on the other hand, refers to a person who has a deep relationship with him, usually involving romance, love, physiology, etc.
First, a confidant is a relatively loose relationship, there are no certain rules, it can be a partner who confides in each other and understands each other, or it can be a partner who supports and trusts each other in his career.
Lovers are not, the relationship between lovers with a loose relationship, the kind of relationship that doesn't matter if they meet occasionally or every day, and the kind of relationship that doesn't mind or inquire about each other's whereabouts, can't be called at all"Lover"Relationship, this is another kind of relationship that everyone knows.
Second, confidant is a kind of long-term accumulation, and the deep relationship that is gradually built up is mutual appreciation and unconditional trust.
Lovers often start with love at first sight and are strongly attracted, and most lovers are anticlimactic, unlike confidant relationships such as the older the wine, the more fragrant it is.
Third, in terms of relationship maintenance, lovers with the nature of shelf life and shelf life need to invest more emotion and energy to maintain, need to ask for warmth, say hello in the morning and evening, need money gifts, and need to be taken seriously instead of relaxing and enjoying.
The reason why a confidant becomes a confidant is because the relationship that arises naturally because the relationship is never maintained. The communication between confidants is open and honest, no one is worried about being misunderstood or ridiculed, and they can share their ideas without reservation.
Although confidants and lovers are both important components of interpersonal relationships, there are obvious differences between them in terms of nature, formation, and maintenance.
In interpersonal relationships, we need to clearly distinguish the roles and positioning of confidants and lovers in order to better handle and maintain different types of relationships.
At the same time, it is also necessary to adopt different communication and getting along methods according to different types of relationships to achieve harmony and balance in interpersonal relationships.