"A bottle of water, silent; Half a bottle of water, clang. ”
Many people are very poor, but these people pretend that they have money, for example, some people don't have much money in the first place. There's only a little bit of money, so I take these things out and show them off. However, some people have a lot of money in their homes, but this person is unwilling to expose it and is just making a fortune in the shadows.
There are some people who are very poor, but these people are willing to talk to others. You have put a lot of effort into your financial and physical strength, and in the end, others just think that you are a very poor person. Even if you are generous, you will look down on you.
A middle-aged woman is "poor and generous" in these three things, and the more generous she is, the more people will look down on her.
Treats
There are some women who don't understand a truth when they reach middle age: if you have money in your family, even if you don't treat others, others will look up to you and think that your family is rich. If you don't have any money in your family, even if you invite others to eat at home every day, they will look down on them.
Some middle-aged women are even more outrageous, for example, this woman often shows off how rich she is in front of her sisters, making others feel that her family is very rich, and in order to show that her family is rich, she often invites her friends to eat.
When you invite your friends to dinner, your friends will definitely show their gratitude to you for the time being, and some of them will even blow you to the sky. You sometimes mistakenly think that these people are saying things that are true, and these people may still be laughing at you behind your back.
I have a friend who once attended a dinner party that was invited by a good friend of mine. A total of eight people were invited, so this friend ordered 12 dishes. When I first started eating, everyone was giggling and laughing, thinking that it was just right to have something to eat. But after eating, everyone was complaining, feeling that there was too little almost, and that the other party was poor and sour.
When a person has money, he would rather eat a big meal by himself than invite others to eat the money. Because people may not think you're in a treat yet, and think you should.
Gift-giving
After middle age, you may want to do some gift-giving activities, because people need to communicate with each other, but if the item you give is not good when you give a gift, or others think that your item is of a lower grade, then others will look down on you after a long time.
There are some middle-aged women who don't know how to do things, because these women always want to give things to others often when they do things, but they never think about giving others a better thing at one time, in fact, instead of giving these things to others often, you might as well save this money to buy a particularly good thing to give to others.
For example, if you buy a particularly good thing to give to others at one time, then others think that you are a very tasteful person, and they think that this thing is also very good, so at this time they feel that you are a generous and decent person.
But some people send something to someone every time, but each time they send something very cheaply, and this thing may not be used at all. When you send this thing over, others will not be in a good mood, and even think that what you send is waste, and you are so poor and generous, it will only make others think that you are more cheap.
Therefore, when a smart woman sends something, she often observes some of the other party's preferences. When you observe some of the things that the other person likes, then you buy these things for the other party, and after you buy them, the other party will feel that you know yourself very well, and you will only be useful after you give this thing away.
Do a small volt low
When you're not that strong yet, don't do anything that hurts your dignity. A less powerful person often has to learn to love himself, especially a woman, let alone a middle-aged woman.
But some women don't understand this truth, always want to be a little low for others, when you do this, in fact, others will think that you don't cherish yourself, and recently people often look down on you, just unhappy in the mouth.
Let's say this woman is with a man who has a family for money. When a person is with this man, then the woman must flatter the man because you have to take money from the other person's pocket.
In this case, you are a relationship that you will not see, because you are not right, and you are also involved in the destruction of other people's families.
So sometimes, you don't think that the third party you do is very glorious, on the contrary, when you do these things, you should think of it: your female face.
When a person reaches middle age, he must live with dignity. When a woman reaches middle age, she should pay attention to some things. Sometimes you do something that will not only make others look down on you, but also make others look down on your parents.