Documentary: After the birth of fruitless, the population alarm sounded! The experts gave good advice, and the parents agreed
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Some time ago, I brushed up on the Korean news, and the wave of not having children they set off was very "successful", so it was really just a matter of doing it, and if it was said that if it was not born, it would not be born.
The reason, at the beginning, is because their preference for sons is too serious, and the status of women is extremely low, to what extent? The son can use his own mother as a slave, and this behavior is recognized by the elders.
Where there is oppression, there will be resistance, machismo? The women decided not to have a male baby, and when they found out that it was a boy, they **, and then they didn't know how to develop to the point that they didn't have male or female babies.
As a result, hundreds of elementary schools in South Korea now have fewer than 60 students, more teachers and staff than children, and the tuition fees collected are very small, which is simply not enough to maintain the basic survival of the schools.
There are even ** said that the population of their country will be halved by the end of this century, such a situation is indeed embarrassing, but don't look at other countries lively, don't talk about other countries now, look at our country's fertility rate is not optimistic.
So what is the reason for the decline in fertility? What's the best solution?
Housing prices continue to rise].
One of the main reasons is to buy a house, although he ranks third in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but this housing has always been the most expensive thing.
After giving birth to a child, all kinds of expenses are large, and generally speaking, it is reasonable for two adults to rent a house, but the child's life will be somewhat unstable.
Chinese are still obsessed with buying a house and settling down, and they can't still rent a house, and they generally feel sorry for their children.
Therefore, the Chinese idea is that they have not even bought a house to have children, and having a house is the guarantee of a stable life, so that they can have children and raise children with peace of mind.
Nowadays, the biggest pressure on young couples is to buy a house, and when they go to school, they generally don't have much money, and it is difficult to find a job with no work experience within two years of graduation, so don't mention the salary.
Even if you find a job with a good salary and work for two or three years, how much money can you save? After graduation, most of them are about the age of about 10, even if they work for five years until they are twenty-seven or eighteen, can they really buy a house?
Not to mention the first-tier cities in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, even the second-tier cities are now high in housing prices, and normal salaries are not proportional to housing prices at all.
Some houses with slightly better locations can reach about 7,000 per square meter, but the average local salary is less than 3,000. It's not to scare people, that's it near my house.
When renting a house, the monthly rent is enough for some people to have a headache, not to mention taking out hundreds of thousands of savings to buy a house and make a down payment.
After paying the down payment, you have to carry a mortgage that is overwhelming, and now many people can't even get a down payment, and some people don't even want to get married in order to avoid buying a house early.
Because in this way, it may be a problem to even feed yourself every month, let alone have another child, and it may be impossible to imagine what kind of pressure you will face.
The cost of raising a baby] nutritional supplements, examination costs, bed fees, and surgery fees during pregnancy are all not counted here, but from the time of giving birth, the cost of the child after birth.
After the child is born, you have to buy basic baby care items, and you can only buy expensive ones if you don't dare to use them.
A baby bottle can buy hundreds or thousands, and I'm not sure if it's really a good material, not to mention the consumables such as diapers and toilet paper, and the huge consumption is wholesale.
Other children's intimate clothing, toys, all kinds of body cream products, all expenses, plus milk powder, milk powder feeding is now very high, and exclusive breastfeeding is no longer common.
There are very few people who really have enough milk, and even if they have milk, they will choose to match it with milk powder in order to give children more adequate nutrition and easier absorption.
It's just that these expenses add up to more than 10,000 per month is easy, don't look at everything is inconspicuous, milk powder diapers can account for a large amount, and the other amounts look small and add up to be big.
This is still a newborn, just a few tens of centimeters of the little person, he can only cry and laugh, he can't speak, and he has already incurred such a big expense.
The child grows up fast, and he is afraid that the nutrition will not keep up, after all, now the children are all in a hurry, and they look the same as eating the phone bill, so they have to buy clothes, buy supplements, and all kinds of expenses are dazzling.
Raised like this, it's time to dismantle the house soon, then you have to send kindergarten, three or four years old after going to school to start looking for a kindergarten, the public is cheap but not easy to enter.
The private tuition fee is expensive and can reach tens of thousands of dollars per month, so I have to ask if there is a quota, and some people are persuaded to quit when they see this, not to mention that this is just the beginning.
The above is not to be alarmist for the purpose of writing this article, there is research data that shows that it costs more than half a million to raise a child until he graduates from college.
This is still a very conservative number, all kinds of expenditures are calculated according to the basic value, more than one million abound in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and their children have been exposed to it much more since childhood.
This is the essential difference, just like the children's palace in the book I haven't seen until now.
The cost of living and education are the biggest expenses, and now the pressure of competition is high, so that the next generation can not suffer the hardships they have suffered, it will speed up their learning pace.
The knowledge that our generation only learned in junior high school seems to have begun to come into contact with in elementary school, and English, which was the least serious since childhood, is now the language of enlightenment for children.
Some people of the older generation will say, "We have so many children back then, and they are still growing up, and they are not healthy", which is the greatness of the older generation.
They can save a bite from their mouths in that era when they can starve to death, and pull their children to grow up, which is not easy to really.
It is indeed healthy and healthy, much better than the physical fitness of young people now, but the times are different, at that time, just take care of a meal, no one cares about the patches of clothes, and the cost is not large.
Now it's not like before to control the children's eating, drinking, and Lazar, but also to manage the development of children in all aspects, pay attention to children's mental health, now the information is too wide, and they should be reminded to pay attention to identification.
There is no end to the various expenses of interest classes and tutorial classes, who will pay for them? **Why, it's impossible, who's baby will raise it.
Believe it or not, when the time comes, you really can't raise a child, hold the child and find **, he will also give you a sentence: "Why do you have to give birth if you can't afford it."
I used to save money by raising children, but how many of them were in college at that time, and the cubs of which family in the village didn't run around the village after eating, play in the mud and then go home.
I realized the importance of studying, and I didn't go to college to sell coolies to support myself, but now where is there a place to sell this coolie, and what will my children think of their parents when they grow up?
Social factors] Some time ago, I looked at the current requirements on the recruitment platform, and most of the companies either directly want to be married and have children, nothing else, this kind of stable and good bully who is old and young and dare not run.
Either you are worried that you will have to take marriage leave a few days after you join the company, and you will have to take maternity leave if you are pregnant two months after the marriage is over.
This is not very friendly to the company, and the unstable nature is taboo, so most HR on the market will ask you these two questions first before conducting the following conversation.
But anyone who says that he is unmarried and has no children and is about to get married will generally be turned away, this kind of general is young people, young and vigorous, and from time to time they want to rectify the workplace, and they can't stand the grievances and leave.
In order to find a job as soon as possible, most women will choose to delay marriage and childbirth, start their own business first, and then make future plans after having a certain economic foundation.
And women who have already participated in the work will try their best to "squeeze time" to have a child and return to the workplace as soon as possible, otherwise they will be replaced by newcomers at any time if they delay too long, this is a strong woman.
So it's good to have the idea of having a life under the blessing of this situation, not to mention having a second or third child, and contemporary working women say that they are complaining.
The most important point is that the workplace does not seem to be very friendly to mothers who have just given birth, which is also one of the reasons why women are worried now.
In addition, because of the introduction of certain policies, legitimate children have the same power as illegitimate children, and now the marriage rate has also been affected to a certain extent.
Some suggestions] The so-called policy of benefiting the people that has been launched now is not nothing, but people are not moved, why? Because that one is at best good-looking, and it is useless.
In fact, what people want now is very simple, the most real thing is real financial support, how can someone say, you give birth to your own family so many things, it's over.
So if there is no good economic conditions after giving birth to a child, and nothing can be given to her, is it that he was born to suffer, and he owes me to suffer this with me.
Ma Guangyuan, an independent economist, has a good view: reimbursement of the cost of giving birth, inclusion of pre-school education in the compulsory system, and extension of maternity leave.
Isn't this a good point, which takes into account the actual needs of women, and is also well in line with today's social situation.
The house price is too crazy, and it is recommended to reduce it appropriately, especially the so-called school district housing, which is even more like crazy, it is simply sky-high.
There is a place near our house, the school is still just a foundation, and the next real estate has been pre-sold in the name of the school district house, and it has been hyped.
The ** control of various supplies is also a part, and the profiteering of baby products is now a secret that is not a secret, and its product raw materials are really worth it?
Because the audience is how expensive the child is, parents will buy it, and unscrupulous merchants have grasped this point, and it has been tried and tested.
Conclusion] The current experts are finally not like the previous experts who put forward the advice of "renting out your own excess house and driving your own car to run a rental", and it is still recommended to adopt this advice.
I believe that if this development continues, the fertility rate and marriage rate may be significantly improved, so why not.
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