The real world is cruel, and when you have no money, you are not even qualified to talk about filial piety.
When you are mixed up by yourself, arrange yourself first to understand, and then talk about filial piety to your parents.
Don't think of your parents as noble, they are always mortal and cannot be separated from the world.
At the same time, you are not entitled to ask your parents not to ask for anything from you, after all, they have given you life and given you infinite possibilities.
In their time, the purpose of having children was to prevent old age, which was their inherent thinking, and it was difficult for others to change.
Even if your parents understand your difficulties and don't ask you to provide for them, that doesn't mean you don't have any responsibilities at all.
If you don't have money, no matter how nice you say, no matter how good you can coax your parents to be happy and behave, it doesn't make much sense.
Parents are unlikely to look at you for a pleasing reason, in fact, the reason is simple, you are not capable, and they just don't say it.
And many outsiders are also staring at your home, they will talk in private, if you don't have the ability, you will affect your parents.
So you have to understand that as long as you don't mix well, your parents just can't hold their heads up, and they still care a lot in their hearts.
What is it in this world that gives you a real sense of security? Not any feelings, but material and money.
Of course, your parents know this, and they can only live well if you mix well and earn enough money.
If you can't give real money to your parents, how can they enjoy a safe and worry-free old age?
When your parents are sick, what do you do to treat them and provide them with relief, do you just rely on one mouth?
The most direct and fundamental way to be filial to one's parents is to do all the work of guaranteeing them and provide them with enough money.
Don't say that companionship is the most important, those are all false, they are just words to comfort yourself and deceive others.
Life has to return to reality in the end, it is impossible to only talk about feelings without talking about money, and it is difficult to even survive and talk about feelings.
Come on, boy, if you want your parents to live well, you have to work hard to make money.
You have experienced many years of ups and downs in society, and I believe you have realized the reality and cruelty of this society.
If you are nothing at all, in front of your parents, relatives, and friends, you have no dignity to talk about.
At this time, you need to put away your weakness, especially in front of your parents, so that they do not see your incompetence.
Even if you really don't have any skills, pretend to be confident, as if you will succeed tomorrow.
Try to let your parents worry about you as little as possible, they can't help you in any way, and reassuring them is also a sign of filial piety.
Then you need to work hard secretly, not relying on your parents, not relying on anyone, and mixing in to be what you want to be.
Until then, it doesn't matter if you leave the family relationship behind for the time being, as long as you can finally get along, the relationship can be repaired.
Remember, your filial piety is based on your own strength. Don't show weakness in front of your parents, and wait until you are strong before you are filial to them.