The regret is that the fate is unfinished, and it has turned into a poem for eternity.
In the long river of time, each of us is a flat boat, drifting with the current, sometimes with the wind and sometimes against the current.
In the journey of life, there are always some unforeseen storms and rains, leaving a gap that is difficult to make up.
These gaps, although they do not directly say the word "regret", but silently, permeate the atmosphere of regret.
In ancient poems, there is no shortage of such subtle expressions, they are either tactful or deep, turning those inexhaustible and endless regrets into a whispering of words and sentences.
"When is the spring flower and autumn moon? How much do you know about the past? ”This is Li Yu's sigh in "Poppy Beauty".
Spring goes to autumn, flowers bloom and fall, and the moon is full and missing, all of which are natural laws and are not subject to human will.
And in a person's life, how many past events are like smoke, and how many memories can last forever? Li Yu did not express his regrets, but in this natural change, people felt helplessness and nostalgia for the past years.
Du Fu's "This body has no place to return after drinking, and it is independent and boundless to sing poetry." ”It seems that the regret is not explicitly expressed, but the loneliness and bitterness of a displaced person can be felt.
He drank to relieve his sorrows, but he had nowhere to go, so he could only sing poetry alone to express his heart. Isn't this homeless desolation the deepest regret?
Or Li Bai's "look up at the bright moon and bow your head to think of your hometown."
The "homesickness" here is a deep attachment to a distant homeland, but under this gentle moonlight, does it also contain the deep regret in the poet's heart?
He looked up at the stars, immersed in nostalgia, seemingly peaceful, but in fact, he may have regrets and loneliness in his heart. Regret is sometimes a kind of distant.
Regret is also an unfinished business.
For example, Su Shi's "The old man talks about juvenile madness, the left leads the yellow, and the right is Qingcang." ”
In his later years, Su Shi still had the pride and ambition of his youth, but he failed to realize his ambition after all.
His regret is not directly stated, but expressed through this spirit of disobedience, which makes people feel the ruthlessness of the years and the sadness of the twilight of the hero.
Regret is an irreparable time.
For example, Su Shi's "Ten years of life and death are boundless, without thinking, and unforgettable." ”
Su Shi did not directly mention regret here, but the sentence of "ten years of life and death" expresses his deep longing for his deceased wife and irreversible time.
This nostalgia for the deceased relatives and the powerlessness of the time that cannot be regained are the deepest regrets.
Regret is a lack of emotion.
As Xin abandoned the disease, "the crowd looked for him thousands, and suddenly looked back, but the man was in the lamplight." ”
In the process of finding his beloved, Xin Qiji went through a lot of hardships, but finally found that the person he was looking for was close at hand. This kind of almost ironic ending makes people feel a kind of regret that they can't get what they want, and they get back and lose.
Regret is a kind of impermanence of life.
For example, Li Bai's "white hair is 3,000 zhang, and the fate is like a long one." ”
Li Bai expressed his inner sorrow and helplessness in an exaggerated way. This sorrow and helplessness may be a kind of regret for the impermanence of life and the unpredictability of the world.
He didn't directly say his regrets, but he made people feel the heaviness and impermanence of life between this "white hair" and "sorrow".
Regret is the shattering of a dream.
Such as Wen Tingyun's "exquisite dice and red beans, I don't know if I am lovesick." ”
Wen Tingyun compared dice and red beans to express her deep lovesickness. Does this kind of lovesickness that goes deep into the bone marrow also reflect a regret that dreams cannot be realized? He didn't say it explicitly, but the unforgettable lovesickness already made people feel the pain of broken dreams.
Regret is a kind of passage of time.
Such as Wang Bo's "confidant in the sea, if the end of the world is next to each other." ”
Wang Bo expressed his longing for his distant confidant here. Does this emotion that transcends time and space also imply nostalgia and regret for the past? He didn't mention it directly, but the friendship that transcended the distance already made people feel the helplessness of the passage of time.
Regret is a kind of emotional sustenance.
For example, Liu Yong's "clothes and belts are gradually widened, and he will not regret it, and he will make people haggard for Yi." ”
Yoo Young expresses his dedication and no regrets to love here. Does this kind of undying love also reflect a kind of regret for not being able to stay together? He didn't say it explicitly, but the figure that was emaciated for love already made people feel the depth and regret of love.
Regret is an experience of life.
For example, Wang Anshi's "is not afraid of clouds to cover his eyes, only because he is at the top." ”
Wang Anshi expressed his vision and mind beyond the world here. Does this detached attitude also reflect a kind of regret for life experience? He didn't say it directly, but the loneliness of standing on a high place has already made people feel the complexity and regret of life.
In life, we will always encounter various setbacks and difficulties, and there will always be moments when things backfire. These moments, although they do not express regret, silently constitute regrets in our lives.
As the ancients said: "If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan." "If everything can remain the same as it was originally, how can there be sadness in the autumn wind and sorrow on the painting fan?
However, life doesn't stop because of our regrets, and time doesn't turn back because we keep it. We can only move forward in this regret, learn to accept, learn to let go, and learn to cherish.
As Wang Zhihuan said: "When you climb the stairs, you will be full of red." "We may not be able to change the past, but we can work hard in the present to make the future no longer regretful.
So, let's grow in regrets, be strong in regrets, and find the meaning of life in regrets. Let us be like the ancients, use poetry to express our emotions, words to record our experiences, and wisdom to fill our regrets. In this way, even if every sentence does not mention regrets, every sentence is regret.