Miss Wen Buzheng.
Love, this eternal topic, has always fascinated and confused. Sometimes it's like a storm, sweeping in, making people lost in the clouds; Sometimes it is like a long stream of water, gentle and stable, nourishing our hearts. Today, let's work together to ** the two roads in this love labyrinth, which is the shortcut?
Crazy Love: Love's Journey to the Clouds
The first, ".Passionate loveA strong, energetic emotional state, passionate, romantic and idealistic. This love sends you to the sky.
Best friend Sissi talked to me for the first time about her boyfriend's demeanor, it was called an eyebrow flying color dance, she couldn't close her mouth, she described her boyfriend's handsomeness, I was particularly impressed, saying that it was something bad to encounter, as long as I saw his face, I could immediately be happy. Her radiant face as she spoke, so brightly moistened by love.
Even as a bystander, I feel that her love is full of excitement and freshness, and the sudden rise of dopamine in the body makes people feel the vitality and passion of life.
Love at first sight belongs to "passionate love", it feels like being electrocuted, sudden, making people feel as if they are in the clouds, excited, dizzy, forgetting the troubles of daily life, and even sometimes losing their minds.
However, because it is built on strong emotions and idealization, we may ignore the other person's shortcomings and give excessive tolerance and understanding to their behavior. As time goes by, when we find that the other person's true face is not as perfect as we imagined, the passion gradually weakens, and may even dissipate like a puff of smoke, and the passionate love does not last long.
Deep love: The long stream of love
The second,".Intimate loveAcquaintance with each other, long-term relationship, in-depth understanding, and slowly developed love.
When we talk about love and sex", Li Yinhe was asked about her love with Wang Xiaobo, she said: "The accidental factor is that there is a person named Wang Xiaobo in this world, he happens to be such a person, and I happened to meet him, from acquaintance to acquaintance to love, the inevitable factor is our respective preparation for this love, which includes the same three views, both of them like the book, the tacit understanding of thought and character, romantic temperament and inner attraction." The tacit understanding of the soul makes the outside insignificant. ”
Unlike crazy love, deep love is based on understanding, trust, and respect, and is a more mature, stable relationship. The two of them feel at ease together, not as exciting as in the first love, but a more relaxed and comfortable feeling.
This type of love relationship is more solid because it is built on a deep understanding and trust between both parties and will not be easily shaken by external factors.
On the basis of deep understanding and trust between the two sides, it will not be easily shaken by the influence of external factors.
Every love is the most beautiful scenery in life and has the potential to develop into a successful relationship. Passionate love can be the starting point of a relationship, while intimate love is the foundation for maintaining a long-term relationship.
Love needs to be managed, and no matter what kind of love you are experiencing, it takes time and energy to maintain it.
It's all about how the partners areCommunicationResolve conflicts, as wellGrow together。Ultimately, each person's experience of love is unique and importantFind the way of love that works for you