On February 25, Zong Qinghou, the founder of Wahaha, passed away due to illness. Previously, Zong Qinghou quickly completed all the work handover in the 3 days after entering the ICU for rescue. Wahaha underwent industrial and commercial changes, and he stepped down as the legal representative, executive director, and manager, and was replaced by his daughter Zong Fuli.
Ma Yun wrote an elegiac couplet, and Lei Jun and Zhou Hongyi praised Zong Qinghou's marketing strategy and entrepreneurial spirit. Former Wahaha employees appeared on various social platforms to thank their former employers for their care, from salary and benefits to ultra-long paid leave when their family members were sick. In Hangzhou, many citizens spontaneously went to the gate of Wahaha Group's headquarters to offer flowers and Wahaha.
But in the sincere and heavy mourning, many men have set their sights on Zong Fuli, or the position of the former richest son-in-law in China.
They are crazy about showing their love on various social platforms. From the officially verified Weibo to Xiaohongshu, which is difficult to distinguish between true and fake, almost all of the comment areas of social accounts with the username Zong Fuli have been attacked. They recommended pillow mats and said that they wanted to give the woman a home.
They seized on the fact that Zong Fuli was single and unmarried in her 40s, and decided that she was unhappy in life as a woman. Completely disregarded, this is almost the happiest second-generation entrepreneur in the country.
She is the only daughter of Zong Qinghou, she does not need to mix in the entertainment industry, she does not need to marry, and she has been firmly cultivated as an heir from beginning to end. The vast world, the huge enterprise, let her show her strength.
But in the public eye, everything about her has always been forced to be bound to men.
The show of love for Zong Fuli on the whole network can be traced back to 2017.
Under Zong Fuli's Weibo, a "courtship" message appeared for the first time.
Anyway, I don't have the money to ask my wife to marry me. In Zhejiang, I am poor. You are rich, and you are just leveling out wealth. It solved my difficult household again. ”
42 words of message, 4 typos, put me poor and I reasoned, directly on the table. Netizens found out that this is an eye-catching Internet celebrity, in addition to Zong Fuli, he also chases Guan Xiaotong every day to send his own address.
Soon, a marketing account came up with the title of "Princess Wahaha's 35-year-old Zong Fuli is worth hundreds of billions and no one marries her father and is anxious to ask for marriage again", which emphasizes that Zong Lao is worried that his daughter will not be able to marry, so the latest criteria for choosing a son-in-law are no standard.
In 2011, Zong Qinghou answered the request to his son-in-law in "Behind the Story" In fact, Zong Qinghou's answer to his daughter's marriage and love questions came from "Behind the Story" in 2011. Unlike the online rumors, Zong Qinghou is not impatient and uses ** to take the initiative to recruit a son-in-law. He was just answering the host's question at the time, and he never thought that he would be transferred by the unscrupulous ** many years later and used to exaggerate his daughter's marriage crisis.
Zong Fuli's Weibo message area gradually fell. Some people show love and propose marriage, wanting the daughter of a wealthy family to marry; Someone has a bad career, comments on the world here, and tries to be flopped.
Since 2019, Zong Fuli has not updated Weibo. Even if there is only Weibo's birthday news every year, the comment area is still exciting.
An even bigger wave of marriage proposals began two years ago.
In 2022, Yang Zhan, the self-proclaimed No. 1 Internet celebrity in Yiwu, pulled up a red banner at the gate of the company and wrote: "Zong Fuli, marry me!" I will give you happiness". Yang Zhan called it a warm-up for the proposal, and soon after, he took a 10-carat diamond ring and drove a Rolls-Royce to initiate a marriage proposal.
Yang Zhan, who proposed offline marriage to Yiwu Internet celebrities, was 32 years old, and Zong Fuli was 40 years old, according to public information, Yang Zhan was a native of Bozhou, Anhui Province, and started a business in 2012. 8 years ago, he proposed to a girl at the broken bridge of West Lake, and the proposal was successful, and there were many followers at that time.
Eight years later, this farce full of marketing implications for marriage proposal has naturally not received any response from Zong Fuli and Wahaha Group. But it brings more wild bees and butterflies. More and more people are joining the whimsical proposals.
Offline, they imitated Yiwu Internet celebrities, holding small bouquets that could be held with one hand and rings in the other, with a red banner with Zong Fuli's name written on them. Others put up roll-up banners, or didn't even bother to prepare flowers, proposed with the buckles on the cans, or hung banners directly on their bodies to publicize them all over the Internet.
Looking carefully at the content of the proposal on the banner, the man claimed that he was "superior in wisdom" and "can take the business to the next level". If you look closely, you haven't graduated from junior high school.
He has not graduated from junior high school, and he claims that his social responsibility is greater than that of Ma Yun, and he can take the company to the next level, and there are people with gray hair and almost baldness, who claim to be good for nothing, but Zong Fuli is already his fiancée; Some people can't wait to join the army of marriage proposals after they have been released from prison.
They released Zong Fuli's chat history, double photos and even wedding photos to coax him. It is happily released on major social and short** platforms, hoping to get the flop of the proposed partner who has nothing to do with them.
Nothing has been accomplished, but someone who wants to marry Zong Fuli is ashamed: "Old man Zong, as long as you open Chrysostom, I am willing to come to the door to be a son-in-law." In the tone and wording, it seems that he has been a son-in-law for Zong Fuli, who has a net worth of 100 billion, or he has endured a great grievance.
When it was the most exaggerated, the comment area of Wahaha's chairman's daughter rushed to the hot search list.
After the death of Zong Qinghou, the men who were vying to be sons-in-law once again rushed into the public eye as quickly as possible.
Sign up, send ** number, issue bank card number on the public platform, let Zong Fuli make money, and give each other a chance.
It can be simply summarized as: Zong Fuli, some netizens recalled: "The last time I met a driver in a taxi, I kept scolding and complaining to me that the last passenger had been asking the driver to take him to Zong Fuli, saying that he came from other places and wanted to marry her as his wife." ”
A normal person who didn't join the proposal let out a sincere sigh.
I didn't expect that I would have a day of sympathy for the female president. ”
Zong Fuli can be regarded as a well-deserved proud daughter of the sky.
In 1987, after 42-year-old Zong Qinghou stepped on three wheels to deliver goods all over the country for 10 years, he finally waited for the opportunity to change his life and reform and opening up. He rode out on a bicycle and used the borrowed 140,000 yuan to contract a school-run factory that had been losing money year after year.
Zong Qinghou stepped on a tricycle to deliver the back of the school book. Source: Zheshang Magazine simply painted the walls, a few desks and chairs, and the wooden sign of "Hangzhou Shangcheng District School-run Enterprise Distribution Department" was hung, and the company was opened.
In May 1988, the net assets of the distribution department of this school-run enterprise established with a loan of 140,000 yuan exceeded 8 million yuan, and the number of employees expanded from 4 to more than 130. In October of the same year, Wahaha children's nutrition solution was launched, and advertisements were advertised on major TV stations, and orders poured in.
At the end of the 80s, when there were not many means of transportation, in order to queue up to pick up Wahaha nutrient solution, trucks and vans from all over the country caused traffic jams on the north side of the Hangzhou Qingtai overpass where the doll company was located.
This year, Zong Fuli was 6 years old.
Zong Qinghou and Zong Fuli Zong Fuli is not wrong to call Wahaha her sister.
The turbulent and rushing times roll forward. In the 10 years she has gone from kindergarten to primary school and junior high school, the school-run factory that used to lose money has become Hangzhou Wahaha Nutrition Food Factory, Wahaha Eight Treasure Porridge, AD Calcium Milk, Mineral Water, and Nutrition Express have come out successively.
During this period, Zong Qinghou and his wife had little time to take care of their only daughter, so they simply raised them. Zong Fuli studied in Hangzhou Jianguo No. 1 Primary School and Hangzhou Shengli Primary School, and after school, she often went directly to the company canteen with her schoolbag to eat, and shuttled through several college students' collective dormitories. At that time, my father was cooperating with colleges and universities to develop various products of nutrient solution and Wahaha.
In 1996, Wahaha Pure Water was launched, and Jinggangshan, a popular idol singer across the country, was invited to appear in the advertisement. "There is only you in my eyes" has become a familiar Wahaha advertising song for a generation in addition to the representative song of singer Jinggangshan.
In the same year, 14-year-old Zong Fuli was sent by her parents to study at San Marino High School in the United States, and she could only go home during the winter and summer vacations every year, and her parents and children were busy with their own work. It is reported that Zong Qinghou also invested in a canning factory in California, USA, for this purpose. Even so, it is still a fact that there is less gathering and more separation.
Interestingly, two years later, Zong Qinghou overrode public opinion and signed Wang Leehom, a young singer who became popular in the United States but was unknown in the mainland. This is also an endorsement signed by Wang Leehom in China.
During the contract termination turmoil in 2018, Wang Leehom fans overwhelmingly accused Wahaha of relying on Wang Leehom to have different popularity. But back then, Wang Leehom relied on Wahaha's two advertisements and the song "Loving You Equals Loving Yourself", which was also used as a brand advertising song, to open up popularity in China.
Back then, the newcomers who partnered with Wang Leehom to shoot Wahaha advertisements were Liu Tao and Yuan Quan.
Wahaha's advertisements are all over the first files of major TV stations, and Wahaha's channels are all over the country. Leehom Wang's friend once saw a Wahaha water bottle printed with Leehom Wang's portrait on the sparsely populated plateau, and marveled at Leehom Wang's influence in the mainland.
According to Wahaha's financial director, he recalled: "Wahaha was a big customer of CCTV at that time, and Wang Leehom used the power of Wahaha to go to the Spring Festival Gala, hold concerts, and shoot MVs. At that time, Wahaha's offline layout was very dense, and pure water could sell 2 billion bottles a year, and each bottle had Wang Leehom's avatar. ”
It's just that later the role changed, the domestic brand was no longer popular, and Wang Leehom became a high-quality idol. Wang Leehom did not choose to solve with the brand, but has been renewing the endorsement advertisement with Wahaha with cheap **.
As Zong Qinghou commented: "We have contributed to his growth, and he has also contributed to our sales." ”
In the early years, Leehom Wang's endorsement of Wahaha** time was set back to 1998, after Zong Qing in Hangzhou, China, how did he notice Leehom Wang, who became popular in the United States? In addition to the businessman's keen sense of smell, perhaps the only objective fact that can be examined is that Zong Fuli studied in the United States and may first come into contact with the newly rising idols.
This also led to many years after that, and it was rumored that Zong Qinghou signed Wang Leehom for his daughter.
In the 20 years since, Wahaha has moved forward, and Zong Qinghou has no divorce, no scandals, and no other children. As an only daughter, Zong Fuli successfully completed high school in the United States and entered Pepperdine University in Los Angeles, majoring in international business, in preparation for returning to China to enter the family business.
Zong Fuli This is a school that is not well-known in China, so much so that many people conclude that Zong Fuli has average IQ ability and can only enter Pheasant University Gilded. Indeed, it is an ideal school for the children of many Hollywood stars and wealthy dignitaries in the United States. Schwarzenegger's son, Wal-Mart's president's son, and many European aristocratic Arab princes studied here.
It is known as the Guizhou school in Southern California, and has a great influence in politics, business, law and even the entertainment industry. Zong Fuli's School of Business and Management is one of the most powerful business schools in the United States. But there is one point, the tuition fee is not low, so it is prohibitive for many students from below the middle class.
During her college years, Zong Fuli observed drinks on the shelves of California supermarkets, and few Chinese drinks. At that time, she was thinking that we should make our drinks more visible.
In 2004, Zong Fuli graduated from university, did not consider a second choice, and decisively returned to China to stand with her father.
When I went out, I had a clear purpose, I was going to study, and I came back after reading. ”
Zong Fuli's starting point is Wahaha's No. 2 production base in Xiaoshan.
It is one of the most complex production lines in the Wahaha Group, with several different product lines, covering six different sectors, such as instant noodles, purified water, capping, and hot filling.
In fact, her first job in the workshop was the assistant director of the management committee of the No. 2 base, and after learning and understanding the entire production line, she went from the assistant step by step to the deputy director of the management committee and other higher management positions.
After Zong Fuli Zong Qinghou threw her daughter into the workshop, she also gave her a start-up capital of 10 million US dollars, and since then, she has not asked about her daughter's management, investment, and factory construction.
Zong Qinghou was busy finding land, building factories, and expanding all over the country, and so was Zong Fuli. The father and daughter did not discuss and went their separate ways.
In 2007, Zong Fuli took the helm of Hongsheng Beverage Group independently. Hongsheng started with only one beverage bottling line, mainly processing beverages for Wahaha, and from 2009 to 2012, Zong's Hongsheng Group's annual revenue growth rate exceeded 30%. In 2012, the total annual revenue of Hongsheng's national branches accounted for one-fifth of Wahaha Group's total revenue.
Today, Hongsheng has 20 production bases and more than 100 modern production lines in the country, and has been listed in the top 500 private enterprises in China and the top 500 manufacturing enterprises in China for five times. Even Zong Qinghou sincerely praised her daughter: "The profit margin of her company (Hongsheng Beverage Group) is higher than that of me (Wahaha). ”
Zong Qinghou and Zong Fuli father and daughter In April 2018, she took the initiative to ask her father to serve as the head of the brand public relations department of Wahaha Group.
Since then, Wahaha has begun to appear in League of Legends and Douluo Continent, cooperating with Station B, Bubble Mart, and Zhong Xuegao; Do makeup, do co-branding, and give a makeover to the nutrition express that hasn't changed its packaging for 10 years.
Wahaha's product placement advertisements no longer only appear in local TV dramas in the sinking market, but also in popular hit dramas such as "Little Huanxi" and "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an".
In the discussion about the rich second generation, people often ask: What achievements has Zong Fuli made?
At least, she brought back the original sales of the Wahaha series of products, which had declining sales, and reminded many young people of this brand that has been with them for many years.
For example, Wahaha purified water 596ml, it could have been written 600ml. Although it can't beat other brands, Wahaha pure water has always been the designated water for many university laboratories in China, because it is indeed "pure". AD calcium milk is a box of 24 bottles, without foam partitions, and is firmly stuffed. There is also this year's New Year, when Liu Qian performed magic tricks, one left and one right AD calcium milk lady.
After 28 years, AD calcium milk still maintains double-digit annual sales growth.
In 2021, Zong Fuli became the Vice Chairman and General Manager of the Group, responsible for the day-to-day work. At the company's first internal cadre debriefing meeting, the first paragraph she said at the beginning of the meeting was, "Although this is a routine evaluation of the company, I actually expect us to have a very frank chat." Today is not about judging everyone's work, I look forward to hearing your sincere thoughts on how to do better things in the future. ”
In terms of management, Zong Fuli and her father Zong Qinghou are completely different styles. Zong Qinghou is a god-like existence of the group, directly managing everything, and everyone waits for his instructions every day, and then executes. Zong Fuli is result-oriented, and after explaining the demands, she will not give specific guidance, but force her subordinates to consider the problem with a systematic way of thinking. Zong Qinghou relied on the old people of the group, while Zong Fuli boldly used young people, the person in charge of Wahaha's new brand kellyone in 2016, and was a newcomer born in the 90s who had not been in the group for a few years.
Zong Fuli is stricter and more refined than her father. But in many cases, Zong Fuli still has the figure of Zong Qinghou.
Zong Qinghou is as efficient and "desperate" as Zong Fuli's father and daughter.
Zong Qinghou is on the front line of the market 200 days a year, and meets all first-level dealers in person at least once a year. Zong Fuli is also a workaholic and will seize all the time to work. When she went abroad for a meeting, she would go to the local supermarket to conduct market research, in order to investigate the taste of a drink, she went to Zhejiang University to find international students for research, the sample was insufficient, and she went abroad to find buyers in major supermarkets.
When she worked at the second base of Wahaha Xiaoshan, she was often the first to arrive at the base and the last to leave.
Zong Qinghou traveled around the country for more than 200 days every year, at least once in person to meet all the first-level dealers, every night to the hotel there will be a large stack of reports to sign and confirm, and the documents will be sent to the general manager's office to break down the instructions. Everyone waited for the instructions of the sect elder.
Zong Fuli is also the most efficient among the executives of Hongsheng Group. Hongsheng once made a BPM work efficiency ranking, and she saw that the email request was usually answered in seconds, and the earliest was at six or seven o'clock in the morning. She processed 502 cases in a quarter, and it took an average of 4 hours to complete an official document, while the average approval time for other executives was 14More than 1 hour. She once asked a subordinate who had been following her for more than 10 years to change a plan 32 drafts.
Zong Fuli talks about the difference between her and her father, and sometimes, like her father, she picks out the details in every detail. Zong Qinghou will ask visitors how to send a car, and Zong Fuli will also ask the reason for the different colors of the dormitory building, and pay attention to the quality of the food in the canteen.
In Zong Fuli's view, these efforts are really nothing special. "Now is the Internet era, you can start working in the bed, isn't it all like this to start a business, do it yourself. ”
In the years she has been in the Wahaha Group, there has not been much negative news. One is that the acquisition of Chinese candy failed, but the actual monetary loss was very small. The other is the change of spokesperson turmoil.
In 2018, not long after Zong Fuli took office, she ended her 20-year cooperation with Wang Leehom and changed her contract to Xu Guanghan. It was also a quick question and answer in "At least an hour" not long after, contributing a classic speech.
Do you like the packaging and spokesperson now? ”
I don't like it. ”
Why didn't you sign up? ”
Can I say that? It's too hurtful to say. Because he's old. Do you think it's fun to look at a spokesperson all day long, from youth to middle age, from middle age to old age? ”
That time, in Zong Fuli's message area, in addition to the man's show of love, there were also many fans' abuse.
Without Wang Leehom, who knows you Wahaha? ”
In 2018, when Wang Leehom endorsed the turmoil, Zong Fuli had been in the group for 14 years.
In the past 14 years, she has single-handedly become one of the top 500 private enterprises, and has been selected into the Forbes China Outstanding Business Women List for many times, becoming a qualified group heir. She set up a first-class association and invested hundreds of millions of yuan in colleges and universities to promote the improvement of domestic food safety problems, rather than cultivating talents for her own enterprises.
Zong Fuli didn't let her be seen and paid attention to. The reason why she was rushed to the hot search was, in the final analysis, because of a normal commercial termination with a male artist.
It was the most lively few years since **, from *** Baijia to short ** and live broadcasts, many marketing accounts began to comment on Wahaha endorsement events for traffic.
The fact that Zong Fuli is single and unmarried in her 30s is always mentioned in her opinions, and often attacks on the emotions and looks of "Zong Fuli is old and ugly and no one wants her" and "She hates Wang Leehom because of love".
But all speculation will eventually return to the matter of a woman getting married. "Will she lower the criteria for choosing a mate, will she choose a second-married man? Will you choose an ordinary man? ”
The comments on various social software about Zong Fuli are also the beginning of the fake news of "Zong Fuli's public marriage" on the Internet.
It wasn't until 3 years later that Leehom Wang and his ex-wife Li Lianglei wrote small essays to each other on the Internet for a long time, and netizens turned against each other, saying that Zong Fuli was prescient and that the whole network owed her an apology.
In 2023, Zong Qinghou will pass away, and the discussion about Zong Fuli will be even more explicit. Normal people pay attention to how she is at the helm of a huge group and continues the glory of her father. But there are always some people who have to bind a woman to a group of men.
On **, the headline of the front-row report about Zong Fuli reads "41-year-old Zong Fuli became fat and looked old, and after refusing to marry Wang Sicong, she was madly pursued by three men".
On the webpage, similar reports abound, and the comment area is the same as ever.
One, personal attacks, fat and ugly. Second, ability questioning, except for being a rich second generation, there is no ability at all. 3. Using marriage and love as an excuse to criticize people who do not have marriage and offspring are failures, and no matter how many assets there are, it is useless.
There are also those who "complain" for Wang Sicong. "She is old and ugly, how can Wang Sicong of our family take a fancy to her? Wang Sicong is not short of money. ”
They didn't even bother to find out the truth. The news of Wang Sicong and Zong Fuli's blind date, Wang Jianlin said, "Zong Fuli is my favorite daughter-in-law, but unfortunately the circle is not angry", and all kinds of Zong Fuli's decent replies are all made up by the marketing account, and Zong Fuli has never responded.
Wang Sicong and Zong Fuli's Japanese blind date was also taken by netizens taking pictures of unknown women and Wang Sicong's road, and after guessing wildly, it was widely spread by various marketing accounts.
No one has ever asked if Zong Fuli is willing to be bound to men? Does Zong Fuli, who has a family property of tens of billions, need a man to really have happiness?
Zong Fuli. Perhaps in her previous interviews, the answer has already been written.
In the circle of the rich second generation, she seems a little lonely. Those high-class parties, in her opinion, were just "getting together in disguise and talking about what projects could be pitched in lately". So she "never goes".
Many of the young entrepreneurs she met were "not many to talk to". "Maybe everyone's consensus is different, because maybe the company he works in is big or small, and he may try his best to solve the problem of food and clothing of the enterprise first, but I may now consider the problem more from the perspective of industry and society. ”
At the age of 31, she faced ** ill-intentioned questions and answered them calmly.
How to balance the beginning of entrepreneurship with falling in love, talking about the balance of the object, and family problems? ”
In my eyes, there is only a career, not a relationship, so your questions should be asked to others. ”
I am Zong Fuli, born in the 80s, walking on the road. I have been in love with Wahaha all my life. Never have I ever had a boyfriend. ”
Never? ”
Never? ”
But the January issue of "Jia Ren" wrote: Zong Fuli's family is too rich, and one of the consequences is that it is difficult to distinguish the motives of the suitors, and it seems that everyone who approaches her wants to talk to her about business.
Later, Zong Fuli gave a more direct answer.
Do you think it's a false proposition for female entrepreneurs to balance career and family? ”
That's not a ...... for meI want to reiterate that I have never hated getting married. ”
Unlike most second-generation heiresses, Zong Fuli was firmly chosen from the beginning.
Country Garden was succeeded by Yang Guoqiang's second daughter, Yang Huiyan, for the reason that Yang Guoqiang's only son died early and the eldest daughter's intelligence was impaired. The son of Huiyuan Group worked in the family business for a year and chose to play golf, and the business was forced to be taken over by his daughter. The chairman of New Hope Group and Zongshen Group, his son is too young to have to train his daughter Liu Chang.
And from Yang Huiyan, Liu Qing to Meng Wanzhou, most of the heiresses have chosen to marry or find a core cadre within the group to marry. Only Zong Qinghou cultivates his daughter as the first heir, and it doesn't matter when his daughter gets married. "She has to make her own decisions about her daughter's affairs, and she can't be forced. ”
Zong Qinghou and Zong Fuli's father and daughter Zong Fuli grew up in the respect and love of their parents, and has the title of the sole heir of China's former richest man. She is capable, confident enough to know exactly what she wants. The meaning of life, for her, is not to prove her ability, but to change the rules of the game and create more value for the industry, society and the times.
The funny thing is that many people are looking for "misfortune" in her. Unmarried and childless, it is unfortunate, and even said it on the Internet, "My friend is in Wahaha, he said that the biggest regret of the elder before his death was that his daughter did not have a family." ”
In 2019, Zong Fuli was invited to participate in Sina Finance's "At least One Hour" talk show. The host was condescending throughout the whole process, looking at Zong Fuli with his hands on his chest, squinting his eyes, and every rhetorical question was full of scrutiny, not believing in her achievements and her ability.
The self-satisfied host once again took the issue of marriage and love as the finale. In every interview Zong Fuli has had in the past, it seems to be the same.
What kind of person do you think your other half should be? ”
I don't know. "Do you have a favorite actor, or do you like the image in that kind of plot? ”
I wouldn't think that way because these are illusory characters. ”
Your dad didn't rush you to solve your personal problems? ”
Now it's not an arranged marriage. ”
That was the last time Zong Fuli publicly answered the question of marriage and love. After answering, she raised the corner of her mouth: "I don't think this show seems to be very high-end." ”
Many excellent women are facing the same situation.
After the scientist Yan Ning was on the hot search, he was asked "why don't you get married" and "it's a pity". Quan Hongchan and Gu Ailing were openly discussed on TV shows "Who is more popular with male audiences"?
The end of the article on the inventory of the "second generation" female billionaires is: There are still a few young and beautiful "second generation" female billionaires waiting to be in the boudoir, and everyone still has a chance!
Caijing** interviewed Dong Mingzhu, president of Gree, and opened with a series of articles: "What are your criteria for choosing a mate? What kind of man do you like? What kind of romance do you want? ”
Dong Mingzhu responded decently: "I have a crush on others, and they don't look down on me, they don't look down on me, and I don't look down on others."
Interview with Dong Mingzhu, the opening three questions, all around marriage and men After she was widowed at the age of 36, she went south to Zhuhai and eventually became the leader of Gree, and was re-elected to the Forbes Business Women's Power List many times.
She once confessed that the turning point in her life was the death of her husband. Today, she has never remarried.
But all the light, in the end, condensed by the public and many ** questions: What kind of man do you like? What are your criteria for choosing a mate? Are you in a hurry to get married and remarry?
Do they really want to know the answer? I still covered my ears and had a definite answer: they were not happy.
As a netizen commented: "I don't know how to cherish love, and I miss the childbearing period....I don't know what's important, waste my youth, have a bad outlook on life, and my life is bleak. ”
Whose youth is wasted? Whose life is bleak? What is the most important thing in life?
In fact, the truth does not need to be talked about for a long time, and it can be summed up by an old stalk: let go of the plot of helping others and respect the fate of others. Of course, we also respect your fate.