In the seventh episode of "A Dream of Red Mansions", Aunt Xue asked Zhou Rui's family to give the fresh palace flowers made in the palace to the girls, and Aunt Xue instructed like this: "The three girls of your family, each with two branches, and the remaining six branches, give Miss Lin two branches, and give the four branches to Brother Feng." ”
Aunt Xue of the Merchant's House has a set of things to do, and her arrangement is undoubtedly very appropriate, and there is no problem with the order and quantity. It's just that Zhou Rui's family changed the order without authorization during the execution process, and put Daiyu at the end before sending it, which made Daiyu unhappy. So why did Zhou Rui's family make their own decisions and give flowers to Daiyu in the end?
Is it because the three girls in Jiafu and Sister Feng live relatively close, is it more convenient to send them according to such a route, in fact, it is not. Zhou Rui's family sent it like this, and she did it on purpose, and the reasons are probably as follows.
We know that Zhou Rui's family is Mrs. Wang's roommate. The Wang family is rich and powerful, and the talisman said that "the East China Sea lacks a white jade bed, and the Dragon King came to invite the King of Jinling", and Sister Feng also said to Jia Lian, "Sweep the cracks in our Wang family, enough for your Jia family to live a lifetime." Sister Feng said angry words, but it can also be seen that the Wang family's money is not less than that of Jiafu. Moreover, Wang Ziteng is the inspection point of the nine provinces and the house of power.
Such a girl from the mansion will not have bad knowledge, not to mention that Zhou Rui's family has followed Mrs. Wang for many years, and she understands the various relationships and open and secret battles in the house better than ordinary maids.
Although Daiyu is the granddaughter of Jia's mother, it is not wrong that Jia's mother loves her the most, but after all, Daiyu's parents died, and she was fostered in Jiafu alone, with no power, no power and no brothers and sisters to take care of. With Daiyu's background, in the eyes of Zhou Rui's family, she only has a false name in Jiafu and has no actual power. In this way, the Zhou Rui family, who is accustomed to meeting people and acting like others, will certainly not take Daiyu in their eyes, let alone please Daiyu.
Zhou Rui's family has lived in Jiafu for many years, and she has already become like a human spirit, which should be flattered and which should be flattered, she is the most proficient, so she will observe words and make acts of favoritism.
Zhou Rui's family is looking at whose words and whose colors? Naturally, it was her master, Mrs. Wang. But why didn't she send palace flowers to Sister Feng first, but sent the three girls in the house first, which is where her shrewdness lies.
Zhou Rui's family is Mrs. Wang's dowry maid, the Wang family, and Sister Feng is also the Wang family. Can the people who came out of the Wang family still not understand this, the gift must be given to the host's family first, this is the basic etiquette, and the girls in Jiafu are coquettish, and Mrs. Wang does not dare to offend them easily, so Aunt Xue must give palace flowers to the girls in Jiafu first, which Aunt Xue has also explained. Zhou Rui's family is no longer an ordinary girl, what else is unclear about a slave of her level?
Send the three girls in Jiafu first, she will never send the wrong one, no matter how far the road is, it will not be wrong.
From the first day Daiyu entered Jiafu, Mrs. Wang didn't like her, but of course she didn't show it in front of people. In the back, Mrs. Wang's patience slowly decreased, and looking at her attitude towards Qingwen, you can see that she doesn't like Daiyu.
She said to Qingwen: "Last time we went into the garden with the old lady, there was a water snake waist, shaved shoulders, and eyebrows and eyes were a little like your sister Lin's ......I'm not used to that frivolous look."
Saying Qingwen is saying that Qingwen is good, why does Mrs. Wang want to get involved with Sister Lin, people's habits dictate that when she doesn't like a person, and when she is mentioned, she will subconsciously find someone she doesn't like very much to compare. It's like Baochai overheard Xiaohong's conversation, and when she asked the golden cicada to get out of her shell, the first thing she thought of wasting was to take Daiyu to exonerate herself. When Mrs. Wang talked about Qingwen, she couldn't help but mention Daiyu, and it was the same reason, Daiyu was the person they didn't want to see in their hearts.
Mrs. Wang doesn't like Daiyu, and she can also see the clues from her talking about Jia Min: "Your sisters are also very pitiful, and they don't need to be far compared, just say that now your sister Lin's mother, when she is not out of the cabinet, is so pampered, how precious she is, and how she is like a young lady." ”
Does Mrs. Wang's words sound sour? How many years have passed, Mrs. Wang still looks sour when she mentions Jia Min, she must have been extremely jealous when she faced Jia Min, right? Of course, it is also possible that Mrs. Wang has been wronged by Jia's mother or husband because of Jia Min, so she has a grudge against Jia Min. It's just that Jia Min is married, and now that she is gone, she can only transfer this resentment to her daughter Daiyu.
Zhou Rui's family, as Mrs. Wang's companion, has always taken care of Mrs. Wang, and she is naturally very clear about Mrs. Wang's preferences and psychology. Because Mrs. Wang didn't like Daiyu, she followed to snub Daiyu and show her loyalty to Mrs. Wang.
Summary:Zhou Rui's family is just a slave in Jiafu, and they dare to look down on Daiyu so much, no wonder Daiyu is angry, saying, "I know, if I don't pick the leftover, I won't give it to me." Daiyu's sentence "I know" also shows that she knows what Zhou Ruijia has in her heart.
If Daiyu doesn't say it, others will think that she is a good bully, and in the future, they will even bully the soft and afraid of the hard. Only by showing the courage to be the master like Tanchun can survive in the environment of "360 days a year, the wind, frost and swords are strictly pressing", otherwise it will be like Yingchun, let others take care of it, and the maid and wife will bully her.