There is a glass-hearted princess at home, the youngest in the ranking, my sister has gone to work, the little princess is still in school, and when the little princess cries, the whole family is in a rut.
My husband and I are almost retirement age, and it was an accident to have a second child. Since it has come, then it will be raised. We are dual-income workers and have to go to work, so after giving birth to the second child, the child will be brought to the grandmother, and it will be brought to the body when it grows up, and now we are all in high school, and I find that the child is still very sticky to me.
Every week, she always asked me to go and see her, or take her home for a day or two. Helplessly, I agreed with her to visit her once a week on Wednesday and bring her favorite food. Recently, he proposed to me that in the third year of high school, should I arrange a day school? Or rent a house attached to the school, cook there every day for her, and let her sleep there. When I said it, I couldn't stand it anymore with tears in my eyes, so I could only say, "Let me think about it, how to arrange it more appropriately." ”
I forgot what she was going to buy, and she got very excited, saying that I didn't love her anymore, and didn't take her things to heart, and then she started crying again. I explained to her that I either did it on purpose or that I was busy forgetting. She still didn't give up, saying that what she wanted didn't arrive in time, and she was very sad.
I found that her emotions are particularly susceptible to external influences, other schools sometimes because of other grade exams, borrowing classrooms, on temporary arrangements for holidays, her school does not, normal classes, she began to be psychologically unbalanced, do not eat or drink, said that her school did not have a holiday, I have no way to take her.
In the past, when I was in a hurry, the more reasonable I was, the more I couldn't explain clearly, and the more I cried so much, but now I only change my way, so I am comforted.
Facing the princess with a glass heart, our two in-laws were really heartbroken, and we went to school every week so that the house could be quiet for a while. I haven't seen you for a week, and I really want to see you, but often when I go home, it's unpredictable, I'm shocked and scared.
When the child is so old and doesn't change his face, it's very good, it's this glass heart, it always says that it will be broken, and there is no warning at all.
When it came time for the children to choose subjects, they picked all the ones they were not good at, and the nine cows couldn't pull them back. Now I choose to go to tutoring, and when I come back from tutoring, I start to complain that I don't understand, it's too difficult, it's hard to understand what the teacher says, and I even want to start messing around.
She began to consider giving up the college entrance examination, telling me how good the current vocational high school is, just learn a skill. A person who didn't have much idea about beauty recently started to buy a lot of cosmetics and learn makeup. And I asked for two cameras, one to take pictures of people and one to take pictures of things, and to separate, she drew a dream in her heart and wanted to open an art photo studio.
How should I respond to this little princess with a glass heart?
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