Sometimes, love can make us feel a little confused and confused. You may not be able to understand what she really thinks inside, and you may not even know if she wants to be with you.
But keep in mind that sometimes thinking outside the box and thinking about a relationship from the perspective of a bystander may lead to new answers.
One of the things I want to say here is that if a girl treats you like this, she doesn't actually have deep feelings for you. Don't get caught up in it like an idiot and continue to be an idiot.
1. She will not directly refuse your kindness, but she will also not publicly admit your relationship.
In the emotional world, every girl longs for the sincere love of her lover. But if she only accepts your attention and help, but is unwilling to openly admit her relationship with you, then her attitude towards you is not very sincere, and she may treat you as someone closer than a friend, and there may be only one way.
The way you live your free life now and the feeling of not being responsible for each other may be more attractive to her. She can always ask for your help, and she can easily take a step back from the blurred line between you at any time.
Maybe she doesn't like you enough to fully commit to the relationship, or maybe she's not ready to give up her independent lifestyle for you. Therefore, she does not want to openly admit your relationship and chooses to be with you as a friend.
In general, she doesn't have uncontrollable feelings for you.
If you find yourself in this situation, it's best to let go of attachments to the future. Your relationship should be built on pure friendship. Maybe a good partner is a good friend who can talk about everything.
2.She's made it clear to you that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, but she still often invites you out for dinner or on dates.
If your partner tells you that they are not planning to date anytime soon, it may be because they feel that you haven't found the right partner yet and want to maintain the status quo.
However, even if she rejects you completely, she still often invites you to dinner and other activities. I want to cherish it as an important thing.
She worries that if you react too coldly, you will slowly drift apart. Therefore, in order not to make things awkward between you, she will choose to take the initiative to resolve the situation, and at the same time, she will try her best to create a friendly image.
So don't make the mistake of thinking that she still has feelings for you. She just wants to change the awkward situation between you.
After your girlfriend rejects you for the first time, you need to realize that although she may have expressed a lot of friendly feelings towards you afterwards, she has not actually formed a deep friendship with you. Because if she really likes you, she will nod in agreement when you tell her how you feel.
So, in the course of the next conversation, be clear about your position on the relationship and don't stick there like an idiot.
Well, I'm sure the world will soon know how you really feel!
3. She took the initiative to message you, but the reply was not very enthusiastic.
Truth be told, girls tend to respond positively to every message you send to the guy you like, and they will chat with you without any worries, no matter how late it is.
However, while a girl often takes the initiative to message you, if she doesn't reply after a brief conversation or walks away coldly while you wait, then it's likely that she's interested in something else. Possibly. Important things need to be addressed. And.
That being said, this situation also shows that she didn't want to chat with you in the first place. She just wants to find someone to talk to when she's lonely, to relieve her loneliness. So she thinks: move forward.
If you really want to get to know someone, shouldn't you just listen to her sweet words and pay more attention to her actual actions?
If you don't have sincere feelings for a woman in a relationship, it means that she doesn't have deep enough feelings for you.
She will not refuse your kindness and will not publicly acknowledge your relationship. She says she doesn't want to be in a relationship, but she often asks you out. On a date, you take the initiative to send a message, but she doesn't respond enthusiastically to ......Doesn't all these actions show that she doesn't really love you deeply?
People who don't know how to cherish you will just ignore you and leave you aside.
If you find yourself in such a situation, it is best to protect yourself first and avoid falling into deeper pain because of the actions of others.
Let go of the past, sweep away the obstacles in front of you, and bravely welcome the new light like a warrior.