The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a sensitive and complex issue.
The quality of a marriage depends not only on the relationship between the husband and wife, but also on the way the elders and juniors get along.
Especially in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, what kind of things should be done and what kind of words should be said determine the quality of this family relationship.
But no matter how the relationship is, it is best not to say some things to your daughter-in-law easily, maybe the speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional.
In fact, the following three sentences, a smart mother-in-law, never say it to her daughter-in-law, which is easy to cause conflicts between husband and wife.
After the daughter-in-law marries her son, it means that she has joined the family, and has cut off contact with her own family and formed a new family with her mother-in-law.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is necessary to pay attention to maintaining the stability and harmony of the family, otherwise it will affect the relationship of the whole family.
The mother-in-law deliberately said bad things about her in-laws in front of her daughter-in-law, and when the daughter-in-law heard this kind of words, she must be unhappy, and some people even hate her mother-in-law because of this.
A smart mother-in-law, even if she is dissatisfied with her in-laws, will choose to communicate with her son in private, rather than talking nonsense in front of her daughter-in-law.
Today's young people have their own ideas and opinions. Especially when it comes to educating children, they have their own set of methods and concepts.
But some mothers-in-law always like to use their own experience to educate their daughters-in-law on how to behave.
This attitude will be hated by the daughter-in-law, and even reduce the contact with the in-law's family.
Educating children is a complex process that needs to be explored and understood by parents themselves. The mother-in-law should respect the daughter-in-law's education method and not interfere too much.
Therefore, a smart mother-in-law, even if she has any dissatisfaction and opinions about her daughter-in-law's parenting style, can listen to her daughter-in-law's parenting views and try to understand the reasons behind their decisions, and can also choose to communicate with her son privately.
In the eyes of some mothers-in-law, their sons are the hardest working people in the world, and they go out early and return late for the family every day, so they always deliberately emphasize the hard work and hardship of their sons;
In this way, if she often says it in front of her daughter-in-law, it will make her feel guilty. Because she will feel that she has not made any contribution in this family, but has made her husband work so hard.
In fact, in the family, everyone's contribution should be seen, and the son's contribution needs to be seen. As a daughter-in-law who is not related by blood, her dedication should be seen even more.
A really smart mother-in-law with high emotional intelligence will only say to her daughter-in-law, often saying "I've worked hard for you", which is to recognize her daughter-in-law's words and deeds, and also make her daughter-in-law feel that this family is really inseparable from herself.
Therefore, a smart mother-in-law never blindly praises her son, even if she really thinks that her son is very hard, she will choose to express her care and love in other ways, rather than deliberately emphasizing it in front of her daughter-in-law.
Therefore, for the sake of family harmony and the happy marriage of her son and daughter-in-law, as a mother-in-law, she should try to avoid saying these three sentences, so as not to cause unnecessary family conflicts. Daily posting and punching in plan