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Question: Ximen Qing and Jia Lian, who is better for women? Modern men are not as good as these prodigals
Text: Jiang Zi said the story.
In the story of "Golden Vase Plum", Ximen Qing was almost implicated by his in-law Chen Hong, and was almost thrown into the desolate descendants to be punished with the royal dragon, or put him as a pawn, and finally sent the servants of the family to protect the silver to ask Li Bangyan, who was the right minister of the court, a scholar of the senior administration hall and a scholar of the Ministry of Rites, and changed the three words of Ximenqing to Jia Lian, and Li Zhuang of the Tao Dynasty. From Jia Lian in "Golden Vase Plum" to Jia Lian in "Dream of Red Mansions", they are the same prodigal children.
It reads: "Dong Sheng, the secretary under the name of Wang Hao, Wang Lian, the head of the team, Huang Yu, the secretary of the bad things under the name of Yang Jian, Lu Hu, the cadre Yang Sheng, Han Zongren, Zhao Hongdao, the head of the team, Liu Cheng, the pro-party Chen Hong, Ximen Qing, Hu Si, etc., are all disciples of eagles and dogs, foxes and fake tigers. Bangyan saw five hundred taels of gold and silver, and only bought one name, how could he not do it? Immediately ordered the left and right to carry the bookcase over, took the pen and changed the name of Ximenqing on the scroll to Jia Lian, and received the gift at the same time.In a "Golden Vase Plum", the author wrote about the tragic fate of women helplessly, but also wrote about the tragedy of Ximenqing, who was a bureaucrat, a bully, and a wealthy businessman. That's right, Lanling Xiaoxiaosheng's Ximen Qing has a hateful side, but there is also a sad and lamentable side to him.
Why does the speaker say that this is the reason for the wine-colored wealth? It's just that there was a family at that time, who was rich and noble before, but later it was very desolate, and they didn't need any power and wisdom, and they couldn't rely on any of their relatives and friends, and they couldn't enjoy the glory of a few years, but they did a lot of words. There are a few pets in the inside, who are fierce and treacherous, at first they are not enchanting and charming, but later they will inevitably have corpses and shadows, and blood stains the empty house.In the story of "Golden Vase Plum", although Ximen Qing is a man who is in the twilight of the day, in the mouth of Wu Yueniang, who fills the house, he is also a man who "stands up to the sky and the earth, and suffers hardships". Not to mention, Ximenqing is still responsible for some men. How to see.
That. 1. Ximenqing's family has six wives and concubines, dozens of maids, small servants, and countless men and servants, all of whom are supported by Ximenqing. Even if the servants of the family marry wives, it is all the money that Simon Qing paid. Ximenqing hooked up with Wang Liuer and also bought her a house.
This woman got Ximen Qing's words, and when she went to the back, she couldn't help but reveal her words to the maids and daughters-in-law, Meng Yulou already knew, and turned to tell Pan Jinlian that his father would let Wang'er come out sooner or later and marry another one for him; Why do you want to buy the house of Qiao's family, hang your daughter-in-law there, live with him in three rooms, and buy a girl to serve him; Braided silver silk (髟di) bun with him, and hit the head. 1510 said again: "It's just like you and my generation, what Zhang Zhi!" Big sister doesn't care!
My wife told Ximenqing about hooking up with him like this, "The big officials saw that it was inconvenient, so they promised to buy a house on every street for me and told us to move there." Han Daoguo said: "I said that he didn't receive this silver in his head, and asked me to take it back and spend it, so these are the words." The woman said, "It's not that he has fifty taels of silver, but he will add a few more taels of silver with us tomorrow to see the good house." It was also me who lost a game, and left him with some good supplies to wear. ”That.
Second, Ximenqing is rich, and he is very generous to the women who follow her, and he does not treat any woman badly, even if it is the dew in the courtyard. After Sister Li Gui was combed by Ximenqing, she secretly dressed up to accompany people countless times behind her back, and was finally bumped into by Ximenqing in person. In this way, in the end, Ximenqing still spent money on Sister Li Gui as usual.
When drinking, you might as well Ximenqing go back to change clothes. It's also appropriate, and I suddenly heard someone laughing in the east ear room. Ximen Qing finished his clothes, walked to the window to peek, and saw Sister Li Gui drinking with a barbarian wearing a square scarf in the room.In the story of "Golden Vase Plum", Sister Li Gui had an accident, and Ximenqing took the trouble to get her, first asked the scholar to find the county to talk about favors, and then saved it to go to Tokyo to intercede for Sister Gui, which really gave enough affection.
Ximen Qing said: "Since you are good, you will stay with me for two days." I'll send someone to the county to say it for you. The scholar said: "Daddy Li said: 'Praise your father more, and you will receive orders for other things, but this is the approval of the boss in Tokyo, and the county is entrusted to take people, and the county only detains people. Since your father is divided, I will give him two days of mercy here. If you want to go hands-free, I will go to my boss in Tokyo. ’”That.
3. When Ximenqing pursued Pan Jinlian and Meng Yulou, he was all low, giving enough emotional value, and "Pan Donkey Deng Xiaoxian", who has been pleasing women throughout the ages, has all five things. After Li Bei'er died, Ximenqing couldn't help crying for her several times; Before Ximenqing died, he was still thinking that Pan Jinlian, who had followed him for so many years, would be able to live a good life in the future. Can you say that Ximenqing has no responsibility and no affection.
When Ximenqing heard this, he choked up and couldn't cry, and said: "I feel that my family is not having a good life, and I have two last words to say to you: After I die, if you give birth to a boy and half a girl, your sister will stay well, live together, and don't be separated, making people laugh." Pointing to Jin Lian, he said, "Liu'er's past, you should wait for him." ”After talking about the *** Ximen Qing in "Golden Vase Plum", let's look at Jia Lian, the prodigal son of the Red Mansion world, how does he treat the woman who has a skin-to-skin relationship with him?
That. 1. Many girls are extremely frivolous, Jia Lian not only promised each other with gold silk, but also swore an alliance with others, and kept a lock of green silk as a treasure, and did not use the double standard of machismo to morally kidnap each other, nor did he dislike each other.
That. Second, the daughter-in-law of Bao's second family was at a loss, Jia Lian saw Wang Xifeng beating others, and she was so distressed that she was angry and ashamed, just because she couldn't live with her wife in this matter, and it was not easy to say Sister Feng, but she had the heart to favor Xiaosan, and later heard that Bao's second daughter-in-law hanged herself for this matter, Jia Lian could have bullied others, but she still gave compensation to the maximum.
Jia Lian came out and discussed with Lin Zhixiao, and asked someone to do good things, and promised to send two hundred taels. Jia Lian was afraid that something would change, so he ordered someone to talk to Wang Ziteng, and called a few servants to help with the funeral. Jia Lian also ordered Lin Zhixiao to put the 200 silver into the annual account to supplement the expenses in the past. He also gave Bao Er some silver taels, comforted him and said, "I will pick a good daughter-in-law for you another day." ”That.
Third, Second Sister You said that although she was Peugeot, she had no character, but Jia Lian said that the gentleman did not miss the old evils, and tried every means to solve the lifelong major events of Third Sister You for Second Sister You, first matched Third Sister You to Jia Zhen as a second room, and later found Liu Xianglian for Third Sister You.
Jia Lian listened and said with a smile: "Don't worry, I'm not a jealous person." I know all about it, so don't be alarmed. Because your brother-in-law is a brother, you are naturally embarrassed, so I might as well break this case. ”In the story of "Dream of Red Mansions", although Jia Lian is affectionate, she is really sincere to Second Sister You, otherwise she would not do everything herself after death, bothering to ask for silver to treat the funeral of the group, and couldn't help crying again and again, and she was still thinking about giving her the best possible, and even thinking about avenging her.
and opened the cabinet, there was not a drop left, only some hairpins and a few half-new silk clothes, all of which were worn by Second Sister You, and she couldn't help crying sadly. I wrapped it all together with a burden, and I didn't order the little maid to take it, so I carried it and burned it myself. Jia Lian rode a horse to take a look, and in the evening Guo came in with a good board, priced at five hundred taels of silver, and rushed to make it overnight. On the one hand, they assigned the population to wear filial piety and keep the spirit, and they did not go in at night, but only stayed here.The magistrate heard that the so-called scumbags like Ximenqing and Jia Lian are not willing to take the initiative to contribute money and emotions to their women.
Looking at those men who are poor in calculations and calculations today, it really makes people laugh and cry. There are good men who are affectionate, righteous and responsible, and there are really fewer and fewer of them. Have all the traditional virtues of men standing up to the sky have been lost?
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Golden Vase Plum", "Dream of Red Mansions" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Complete Commentary on the Stone Record".