How high is the cost of giving birth to a woman
When I saw a blog post, I was angry.
An obstetrician and gynecologist, a young woman under the age of 18, is concerned about the fact that the children of 08 years old are all mothers, and you who are older should hurry up.
If it is an old man who has not read a book, the pedantic mind will say this and look at it.
He's a doctor!
Or an obstetrician-gynecologist, whether based on basic ethics or a professional point of view, shouldn't he be discouraged or used as an example to popularize science?
The end turned out to be a birth???
There's been a lot of discussion these days about how expensive it is for women to have children, so let's talk about that briefly.
First, age anxiety
The average woman begins to be urged after the age of 25 to say, "If you don't give birth again, it's not good to have a baby when you're older," and "The sooner you give birth, the faster your body will recover."
Therefore, women between the ages of 25 and 30 are especially anxious about fertility, as if "older mothers" are a curse and cannot be avoided.
Second, workplace discrimination
The 25-30 years old is not only the so-called "best age for childbearing", but also the "best career advancement stage" for women.
If there are no other accidents, then during this period, women want to rise a few levels, which is undoubtedly a matter of their own ability.
But once a child is born, maternity leave and breastfeeding are not mentioned for the time being, how many companies still give "normal job treatment" after the mother returns to work?
Salary cuts, changing guards, and forcing mothers to leave are not new.
Third, physical damage
According to a data from the WEBMD (Professional Medical Advisory**) in the United States:of women with postpartum injury,There are mostly moderate sequelaeMost of them have severe sequelae.
Common postpartum problems include:pointsPostpartum bleeding, postpartum infection, pain, breast problems, stretch marks, urinary incontinence, postpartum depression
Even if the pregnancy and postpartum care are good, the damage caused by childbirth is always irreversible.
Previously, due to information blockage, few women learned about these injuries before childbirth, and most of them silently swallowed the pain.
With the Internet age and the awakening of women's consciousness, both men and women are qualified to know about reproductive damage in advance.
It's better to plan ahead than to regret it afterwards.
I really hope that more and more people will talk about female fertility topics.
Always believe that women who are really willing to have children will not give up because of these. They will take risks** and protect themselves and their children as much as possible.