Many boys can't catch up with girls because he does too many repetitive things. For example, I talked with a girl for three months, and I always talked about the short and painless topics of my parents; Or I have been dating girls many times, and each date is a meal and a movie. During the period, it was just a flat chat. In the eyes of these brothers, as long as the girl is willing to talk to me and talk for a long time, it is interested in me; As long as the girl is willing to date me, eat, watch a movie, and do nothing, it is also to promote the relationship.
Please, it's 2024, so let's stop using 2G networks. Whether it's a chat or a date, it's the quality, not the times, that counts. You won't break through the relationship, you'll be stuck in the relationship. The most common thing is that women treat you as a friend, send you a good person card, and even use you as a spare tire. If you want to catch up with a girl, remember six words: effectively promote the relationship, and if you want to effectively promote the relationship, you have to do this. 1. First do the construction of the circle of friends and the value systemThis is the foundation, and you have to do it before you know the girl. With these, you don't have to say anything, girls can take the initiative to discover your value through the circle of friends. The role of the circle of friends is actually the product manual. Remember, when your value is recognized by a woman, your resistance to chatting will be much less. Because a woman will always see what kind of person you are first. You are a dick, so naturally you can't be interested, and even speak ill of each other; If you are handsome and rich, then look at it differently.
Don't talk about the reality of women, why don't you yourself?
2, the woman who has just been added, to give her a sense of security
The so-called sense of security means that you are positive, harmless, and beneficial to her. How do you provide a sense of security? Basic Information Value.
Basic information will make the other party understand you better, and the more you know, the stronger your sense of security; Value is an important weight, and the more valuable the person, the more he can provide benefits to the other party. Therefore, at this stage, in addition to normal communication, it is best to let the other party figure out your basic situation and value. 3. Enhance the sense of connection through topic sharing
The role of topics is to let each other find more common ground. It's called having something to talk about. In addition to this, there is also a function, that is, you can learn about the personality characteristics of the other party.
Through different expressions and different opinions, you can predict the character of the other party. For example, she likes to have pets and may have a soft and kind personality; likes to play with motorcycles, and is independent in his bones; I like to stay at home, which may be introverted and sensitive, etc.
With personality traits, relationships can go further. 4. Through personality characteristics, talk about values and love concepts
The personality traits mentioned above are closely related to values and the concept of love. Now that you know the personality traits of girls, you can naturally transition to values and love.
When it comes to values and love, you're already very connected. 5. Invitation
At this point, it's actually quite simple. Because the foreshadowing has already been laid. It is precisely because you have a topic with the girl and you have a good conversation that it is necessary to meet.
Brothers can do the same.
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