Ma Dehua, a well-known actor in the entertainment industry, became famous in 1985 with the costume mythological drama "Journey to the West" "Zhu Bajie", wearing a black monk's hat, wearing a black monk's robe, carrying a big nail rake, shaking big ears, and holding a big belly to make the audience love and hate.
Ma Dehua, who has superb acting skills, is also a national first-class actor, and has participated in film and television works such as "Journey to the West", "The Story of the Old Man", "Look, This Burden", "Wu Chengen and Journey to the West", "Fake Chairman", "Happy Events and Leftover Men's Blind Date" and other film and television works, which are deeply loved by the audience.
In front of the screen, "Zhu Bajie" failed to marry "Chang'e" as he wished, but in life, Ma Dehua got his wish, and the marriage process between him and his wife Hou Yumin is also interesting, such as meeting by coincidence, spending hardships together, and complementing each other's personalities. Their marriage is like a flower fragrance all the way, exuding the bottom of their hearts and reverberating in their hearts.
Ma Dehua, also known as Ma Rui, was born in Beijing in 1945 into a family of self-employed businessmen, both of whom were from Shandong, and ran a small restaurant in Beijing to sell mutton for a living.
Ma Dehua has four brothers in the family, and he is the third. When his father was young, he loved martial arts and taught the children in the family, Ma Dehua liked it immediately, on the one hand, he could strengthen his body, and on the other hand, he could be cool.
Seeing Ma Dehua practicing seriously, this made his father very pleased, and even took him around to apprentice and join the martial arts team to let him learn hard, but he didn't expect that Ma Dehua did not embark on the road of martial arts, but embarked on the road of Peking Opera art.
At the age of 14, Ma Dehua was admitted to the Peking Opera Company of China and got professional and systematic performance learning. Later, Ma Dehua went to work at the Northern Kunqu Opera Theater, and when he reached the age of getting married, the marriage was also concerned by his family.
Especially his parents, they arranged a blind date for him, but in the process of this blind date, Ma Dehua has his own set of standards. In the process of blind date, Ma Dehua also experienced a lot of stories.
Some beautiful girls, after asking to get married, have to draw a line with their parents; There are also girls who think that Ma Dehua is not fashionable and dislike him very much. So he took a bunch of girls, and he didn't like them.
At that time, Ma Dehua was quite popular, his job was stable and decent, and he still had a salary of thirty-eight yuan and five cents a month. After paying his salary every month, Ma Dehua only kept two yuan for pocket money, and handed over the rest to his parents, living his single life without heart and lungs.
In 1972, under the introduction of a neighbor, he met Hou Yumin, a female worker who was 3 years younger. The first time they met, Ma Dehua was deeply impressed.
At that time, Hou Yumin was handsome and very particular about dressing. After meeting Ma Dehua, Hou Yumin was very polite and stretched out his hand to shake hands, Ma Dehua was a little reluctant, thinking: This is not looking for a job, what are you shaking hands with me.
After a period of greetings, both of them were noncommittal, and after seeing each other once, there was no follow-up to each other. In fact, Hou Yumin's heart is also very bottomless, because the actors at that time were all old-fashioned.
And Ma Dehua is not a proactive person, the other party is not enthusiastic, and he is too lazy to be courteous. After Hou Yumin, he went on a blind date twice, but it didn't work out.
Not long after, his friend said that he wanted to introduce him to him, and as soon as the two met, Ma Dehua suddenly smiled, and the girl was Hou Yumin. This should have been a TV series or a ** plot, but it happened in real life.
The two who were pulled together again began to understand each other properly, after all, it is rare to go on a blind date twice, and this fate is indeed nothing to say.
For his future daughter-in-law, Ma Dehua has three requirements: to be filial, to be able to live, and to be eye-catching.
Based on these three points, when trying to get along with the girl, Ma Dehua will often carefully design and inspect each other, even Hou Yumin, who has met twice.
On a date, Hou Yumin dressed fashionably and looked very beautiful, especially a pair of gloves, one black and one white, and a small red flower, which could be seen from afar. When Ma Dehua came to him, he said humorously: Look at your gloves, they are beautiful, but they are too eye-catching, and from time to time you can cut all five fingers, and the remaining thread is changed to two pairs of socks?
Hou Yumin couldn't cry or laugh at Ma Dehua's words, and she was smart enough to hear Ma Dehua's words. When they met for the second time, Hou Yumin changed into a pair of black leather gloves, which made Ma Dehua look at it and feel happy: This girl is good and can listen to other people's opinions.
The second expedition was even more interesting. On a date, Ma Dehua deliberately wore a pair of pants with patches, and when chatting in his spare time, Ma Dehua deliberately exposed the patches to test Hou Yumin's reaction.
When he saw the patch on Ma Dehua's clothes, Hou Yumin was very surprised, and immediately asked a question that made Ma Dehua happy: Who made up this patch?
Ma Dehua responded that his mother made it up, which made Hou Yumin praise and said: The old lady's needlework is really good, and she makes up so neatly.
As soon as he said this, Ma Dehua was very happy, and thought: The old people in the past all said that if you laugh at the poor, you don't make up for it, this girl has a spectrum, and she must not let it go.
Ma Dehua used these tricks on previous blind dates, and those girls either disliked his background, or thought he was very dirty. However, only Ma Dehua knows the most in his heart, and he thinks that the daughter-in-law he is looking for is to pass the designed levels before he can step into the door of the Ma family, and the daughter-in-law of the Ma family who can live a good life.
Ma Dehua, who got his wish, really sang and sang with his wife after marriage, and the piano was harmonious. Even after many years, Ma Dehua still said with a smile: Only the daughter-in-law who has passed the screening and assessment and finally reached the standard is still very high-quality.
Soon after marriage, Hou Yumin gave birth to a son for Ma Dehua, and life became happier. Because Ma Dehua's family background is ordinary, when Hou Yumin passed the door, he also carefully helped his parents.
What moved Ma Dehua even more was that his father would pick up some cloth heads, and after accumulating a pile, he would take them to the scrap yard to sell them for money, Hou Yumin, who had just arrived at Ma's house, would help his father-in-law every time he saw it, and Hou Yumin, who was open-minded about everything, made the neighbors praise that the Ma family married a good daughter-in-law.
In 1980, "Journey to the West" was preparing for filming, and director Yang Jie took a fancy to Ma Dehua at a glance and asked him to play the role of "Zhu Bajie". Although the role is a little "ugly", the role is very sufficient, Hou Yumin feels that this opportunity is rare and supports her husband very much.
In order to play Zhu Bajie well, Ma Dehua carefully read the famous novel "Journey to the West", and consulted all kinds of information, and took every scene of his own seriously.
During the filming of "Journey to the West", Ma Dehua followed the crew to travel all over the country, and it was rare to return home several times a year, Hou Yumin did not have any complaints, and still controlled the housework and took care of the children while going to work, so that her husband could devote himself to filming.
In 1984, Hou Yumin suddenly suffered a car accident due to an accident, Ma Dehua was filming in Yangzhou at that time, and when he received a letter from his father, Hou Yumin was already the fourth day after the accident, and the letter said that Hou Yumin might be paralyzed, which made Ma Dehua very anxious and wanted to go home to take care of his wife.
But Hou Yumin was empathetic and asked Ma Dehua to film well, don't worry. In this way, the two communicated by writing letters, and during that time, they wrote more than 300 letters to their families, tying the husband and wife tightly together.
When "Journey to the West" was broadcast, it also caused tens of thousands of empty alleys, and the audience loved and hated the characters "Zhu Bajie" for molesting Fairy Chang'e, and couldn't walk when they saw a beautiful woman on the way to learn the scriptures.
After becoming famous overnight, Ma Dehua also has a lot of fans, especially some female fans, who not only wrote letters to Ma Dehua to express their love, but also hoped to meet and hug, these things also made Ma Dehua very troubled, because he was afraid that his wife would have ideas.
For this reason, Ma Dehua deliberately put down his time and accompanied his wife carefully, and under the care of the cold and warmth, Hou Yumin was also relieved and would not drill the horns.
Ma Dehua and Hou Yumin are very filial and are also famous in the entertainment industry. When they got married, the two had a good sum of each other's 80 yuan salary, and the parents on both sides gave 20 yuan each, which was the rule they set, and how the family lived, then carefully calculated from the remaining 40 yuan.
For such a practice, many years later, Ma Dehua said: Now this practice is called virtue, but back then, this was the responsibility to be fulfilled, and if you don't do this, you will be poked in the back.
Because the old house was demolished, Ma Dehua's parents also moved to live in Dongsi, Beijing, and the old man was idle at home, so he said that he would go to the cinema to sell popsicles.
Although they felt a little unbearable on their faces, the couple had no choice but to cooperate. Whenever my father cooked a meal, he would go and help my mother look after the stall. Hou Yumin couldn't pull his face a little, but there was no way, filial piety and filial piety, where did the filial piety come from, and Hou Yumin, who was helpless, had to go to the street to watch the stall.
Hou Yumin just helped to watch, embarrassed to shout, but Ma Dehua was not afraid of anything, when he helped his mother look at the stall, he shouted even more vigorously, people came and went, and he could meet one or two acquaintances from time to time.
Once, when friends from the China Children's Art Theater went shopping, they saw Ma Dehua selling popsicles, and they were very surprised. After Ma Dehua's explanation, everyone was very moved and immediately wrapped the popsicle round.
Hou Yumin's virtuousness, which made Ma Dehua's parents also praise, they loved this daughter-in-law very much. When eating at home, as long as Hou Yumin is not present, her mother-in-law will always pick the best and put it aside and keep it for Hou Yumin.
Since Hou Yumin gave birth to a son, her mother-in-law's clothes and shoes will be ready when the child grows up. I know that my son and daughter-in-law are busy with work, and almost all the housework at home is done by my parents-in-law.
The family has each other's hearts and receives each other's love, and over the years, the relationship between Hou Yumin and her mother-in-law has also been very harmonious, just like a mother and daughter. Ma Dehua has been filming outside all the year round, and his son rarely has time to accompany him during his formative years, and whenever he has time, he will carefully accompany his children.
In life, Ma Dehua and his wife Hou Yumin left sincerity and kindness to their parents, and the children were exposed to it, and when they grew up, they also took over the baton and passed on such virtues, and they believed that they would have a happy old age in the future.
Ma Dehua in reality, he is serious when he should be serious, he thinks that he is sublimating himself, and when he should be confused, he is letting himself go. In line with this principle, for decades, no matter who came to Ma Dehua for commercial performances, they only had to discuss how the show would improve, and never had to consider the cost bargaining.
Maybe it's because people have reached a certain height and have the mentality of not being bad for money to treat everything, and naturally the world is broad. Ma Dehua, who has a good attitude, is also good at having fun in life. He said: Humor is all around you, whether you can find it or not, it's all up to you.
In 2017, Ma Dehua took his wife Hou Yumin to the United States, flying from Beijing to Los Angeles for 12 hours. But as soon as he got off the plane, Ma Dehua received a **, invited to perform.
For this reason, Ma Dehua was stunned and did not leave the airport in Los Angeles, but directly bought a return ticket and returned to Beijing, and after arriving in Beijing, he went to Xinjiang. For Ma Dehua's behavior, the organizers were also very moved.
When performing in Xinjiang, the stage was open-air, and Ma Dehua, who had never been nervous before the performance, was a little apprehensive for the first time, after all, he flew back and forth on the Pacific Ocean, and then sang and danced on the stage, can this body stand up?
Zhu Lin, who once played the king of the daughter country in "Journey to the West", reminded: Be careful on stage, don't be too perfectionist.
But Ma Dehua, who has pursued perfection all his life, how can he not be strict with himself. On the stage, Ma Dehua sang two songs and completed 5 big jumps in the ballet, which attracted applause from the audience.
Regarding Ma Dehua's performance, Zhu Lin also joked: Yes, yes, my Bajie brother can still fly.
Hearing Zhu Lin's praise, Ma Dehua was still very relieved, after all, this is a body that he has exercised over the years.
What few people know is that Ma Dehua's son is also an excellent talent, although he did not follow his father Ma Dehua into the showbiz, but he is the president of a company, and his net worth has already exceeded 100 million by hard work.
Today, Ma Dehua lives with his wife and son and daughter-in-law, and their lives are prosperous, and the family of four is happy. Ma Dehua and his wife Hou Yumin have been together for 50 years, and they are still in love.
In Ma Dehua's eyes, Hou Yumin is gentle and virtuous, and she is the "sister Chang'e" in his life...