Blind date is indeed a kind of fate arrangement, just like the saying "turnip greens have their own love". Everyone has their own unique tastes and preferences, so in the process of blind date, we should not only pay attention to the external conditions, but also understand the internal qualities and values of the other party. Sometimes, we may meet someone who doesn't seem to be so outstanding, but through communication and getting along, we find that we have a lot in common and tacit understanding with each other. Therefore, no matter what the outcome of the blind date is, we should keep an open mind and trust that fate will lead us to find the one who is truly suitable for us.
It's just that he has average conditions, but he has a low eye and a low level of vision, and he has unrealistic ideas about the other half.
Since we have come to the blind date, it means that everyone is coming for the conditions, the door is right, the appearance is comparable, and there is a topic to talk about, which is enough.
The story takes place in a village in Anhui Province, which was told by a blind date man.
He said: Recently, relatives and friends at home have always introduced him to objects, and he is full of confidence every time, but in the end, no one has taken a fancy to him, so he doesn't want to go on a blind date anymore, and he sees through the red dust.
But watching his parents grow old slowly, he is also anxious, people who are the same age as his parents, everyone has hugged their grandchildren, and even their grandchildren are in elementary school, in order to fulfill his parents' wishes, he still goes on a blind date sincerely.
Why, every blind date ends in failure?
When I saw the man's appearance, I understood everything, he himself was not good-looking, not tall, and fat, because he was too honest and unpleasant to girls.
The matchmaker introduced a person who was similar to himself according to the man's appearance, and the matchmaker told the man that the woman's situation was similar to his own, and when the two met, they were rejected by the woman, what is the reason?
The matchmaker was very puzzled and walked into the girl's house, where the girl was standing at the door, staring blankly into the distance, a little overwhelmed, and didn't know what to do next.
The man was stunned when he saw the woman, and thought to himself, "You don't look good, do you?" is still picky, you don't dislike you, you dislike me, I think it's a good match."
The girl is a little fat, not tall, dressed up in a bad way, combing her hair, without makeup, looking a little sloppy, and she can't tell her actual age from her appearance.
But the two people are really a perfect match in terms of appearance and body temperament, but the woman didn't take a fancy to the man, she didn't have an eye for it, and she didn't want to give the man the next step in the relationship.
In a woman's heart, she may think that she is a peerless beauty, but her appearance is not worthy of her at all, and she deserves a better and better person.
The man once again witnessed how difficult it is to go on a blind date, no matter how tall or short you are, or ugly or handsome, you can't look down on others if you're good, and others who are excellent don't look down on yourself, you're picking, it's really too difficult, you pick others at the same time people are picking you. It's really hard to find a partner right now......
Nana said
It is very important for us to recognize our own self-knowledge. Self-knowledge means having a clear understanding of yourself, including your strengths, weaknesses, interests, values, and more. When we are self-aware, we can better understand our needs and goals, so we can make more informed decisions.
In fact, when it comes to choosing, this is not good, that is not good, all kinds of problems come one after another, these people are not without requirements, but lack of correct judgment and cognition of themselves, and do not know what kind of partner they want to find. Blind date