In 1987, when Xiao Hua was washing Zhang Yimou's clothes, he accidentally pulled out a confession letter written by Gong Li from his clothes.
You're gone, you've taken my heart away, I want to get married, I want to get you back.
Xiao Hua was mad when he saw the letter, but he still endured it and carefully managed this marriage.
didn't expect that no matter how much she begged for everything, she couldn't save her husband, and Zhang Yimou only said lightly when evaluating the marriage between the two: ".The marriage between the two of us was the mistake of cutting in line.
How did Xiao Hua, who was betrayed and refused to divorce, get divorced with Zhang Yimou? Now that the two are divorced, 34-year-old Zhang Yimou did not choose Gong Li, but turned his head to marry Chen Ting and have children, and what kind of life does Xiao Hua, who has been hurt by marriage, have?
Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua's relationship began in junior high school.
When he was young, Zhang Yimou's family background was actually not bad, at that time his grandfather was not only a college student, but also a local rich man, but unfortunately later the family fell into a bad era, and he also became a poor boy who was disgusted by people from a young master.
In the second year of junior high school, Xiao Hua's parents' work was transferred, and she also wanted to go to school, so these two parallel lines began to intersect.
When she first arrived at school, Xiao Hua didn't adapt to the surrounding environment, and it was difficult to integrate in, but fortunately, Zhang Yimou was always by her side and helped her integrate into the collective.
Under the relationship between the two, they gradually came together, but unfortunately the good luck of the two did not last long, Zhang Yimou lived in that era, and soon waited for changes, and he could only go to the countryside to cut the line.
But he was reluctant to have a relationship with Xiao Hua, so he specially left a letter for Xiao Hua when he left, saying that he hoped that the other party could accompany him.
Xiao Hua was very happy when he found out, and came to the countryside to accompany Zhang Yimou with great interest, not caring about his parents' opposition at all.
She spent three years with Zhang Yimou here, and this long time also made their relationship deeper and deeper, and finally determined their relationship.
When Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou were together, it was almost the most depressed time for each other, at that time, the two of them lived together in a cave, and although they lived a hard life, they were also happy.
Zhang Yimou treats her very well, and sometimes when he hears someone pointing at her outside, he will try his best to defend Xiao Hua.
After the end of the queue, the two came to work in the factory together, the factory where the two were located was not close to each other, but they would still meet as long as they had time, and the distance did not separate their hearts.
Once Zhang Yimou was hospitalized with a high fever, Xiao Hua took care of him sleeplessly, which also moved him very much and strengthened his heart to be with the other party.
However, Xiao Hua's family didn't look down on Zhang Yimou's identity, and refused to agree to their daughter being with this man at all, so they introduced Xiao Hua to the object in order to break them up.
The girl he liked suddenly had two more dedicated people around him, which made Zhang Yimou's heart very uncomfortable, and a sour feeling surged in his heart.
He was worried that Xiao Hua would really be snatched away by others, so he deliberately wrote a love letter of more than 40 pages to express his admiration.
This also made Xiao Hua more and more moved, so she worked hard to persuade her parents, and finally married Zhang Yimou as her wife in 1978, and gave birth to a daughter named Zhang Mo after marriage.
At this time, she thought that she would be the happiest woman in the world, but she didn't expect that her future self would be heartbroken by this man.
When they first got together, the two lived very happily, Xiao Hua knew that Zhang Yimou liked photography, so he saved money for a long time before buying the camera back and giving it to Zhang Yimou as a gift.
The daughter has already determined the relationship with Zhang Yimou, and Xiao Hua's parents don't have much to say, but in order to create better conditions for their daughter, they found a place for their daughter to go to college.
It stands to reason that this is a happy thing, but Zhang Yimou was not happy when he learned that his wife was going to college, and he was worried that his wife would leave him.
Seeing Zhang Yimou so sad, Xiao Hua had no choice but to give up this rare opportunity and concentrate on staying by Zhang Yimou's side.
But after the resumption of the college entrance examination, Zhang Yimou was directly admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and started his career as a director.
During his career in the entertainment industry, he first won the photographer's award through "One and Eight", and then won the actor through "Old Well".
But as his career became more and more successful, Zhang Yimou spent less and less on his family.
Acting and directing, seeing that he was at the end of his acting, Zhang Yimou decided to shoot a movie by himself, so "Red Sorghum" was born.
It is said that when filming this drama at that time, Zhang Yimou actually booked Shi Ke, but later Gong Li played the role.
During the filming process, Zhang Yimou gradually developed feelings for Gong Li, and a wonderful atmosphere began to surge between the two.
At first, Xiao Hua didn't know what her husband thought, until once she went to see Zhang Yimou at the filming place, but heard him say politely: "Thank you." ”
At that time, Xiao Hua felt that something was not quite right, was it necessary for them to be so polite as a husband and wife? But she didn't know where the politeness between the two came from.
At this time, when she was washing Zhang Yimou's clothes, she suddenly found the feelings that Gong Li handed him to write, and everything was clear, the husband who had been in love with her for many years was actually moved by other women.
At that time, she was heartbroken and wanted to question Zhang Yimou, but was blocked by the other party.
But Xiao Hua still remembers that when she went to the countryside, she was always by her side to protect her man, and she was unwilling to let this relationship end hastily so she had to endure it.
It's just that what Xiao Hua didn't expect was that she didn't take the initiative to puncture the relationship between Gong Li and Zhang Yimou, but Gong Li took the lead in finding Zhang Yimou.
At that time, she had another object by her side, and the other party would often beat her, and this time her boyfriend didn't know where to learn about the relationship between her and Zhang Yimou, and beat her again.
Gong Li was very sad, so she had to tell Zhang Yimou all this. After hearing these words, Zhang Yimou's heart instantly remembered Xiao Hua.
He angrily found Xiao Hua and asked if she had done all this, Xiao Hua was also very aggrieved, she didn't know the other party's boyfriend at all, and she didn't know what was going on.
But did she really like Zhang Yimou, she still endured it, and insisted on not separating when the other party filed for divorce.
But Zhang Yimou was determined to give up this relationship, and no matter how much Xiao Hua kept it, it was useless, and finally their marriage went strange in 1988.
But although Zhang Yimou broke up with Xiao Hua, he still loves his daughter Zhang Mo very much in his heart, and his attitude towards his daughter is also very good, and sometimes he takes his daughter with him to take care of him.
At this time, he was already accompanied by Gong Li, but for Zhang Mo, this woman was the one who destroyed her family, and she had a very bad attitude towards her, and the two often had various conflicts.
This made Zhang Yimou very tired, and he began to doubt whether his original choice was right, and finally he ended his relationship with Gong Li after filming "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge".
Since then, no one else has appeared around Zhang Yimou, until he met Chen Ting, who was 31 years younger than him, in 1999.
This year, Chen Ting was only 18 years old, and it was the best time for a girl, but she fell in love with the talented Zhang Yimou and fell into it.
At that time, many people were not optimistic about their relationship, but Chen Ting not only married Zhang Yimou, but also gave birth to three children for him in five years, but it was not until 2011 that the relationship between the two was officially confirmed.
After marriage, the two lived very happily, Chen Ting took the initiative to give up her career, educate her children at home, take care of her parents, and became the woman behind Zhang Yimou.
Her three children have also developed well, the eldest son follows his father to make movies, the second son studies seriously, and the younger daughter likes to dance.
And Zhang Yimou was also very touched by his wife's dedication, so he was also very filial when he got along with his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and took the other party to Beijing to take care of him.
When Zhang Yimou confirmed her love, Zhang Mo also ushered in her marriage, she went to study abroad when she was 16 years old, and met an American named Tony in **.
Under the fierce pursuit of the other party, Zhang Mo quickly fell, but at that time, her parents were not optimistic about this marriage and did not want their daughter to marry this man.
Zhang Mo has always wanted to find someone who loves him because of his incomplete family since he was a child, so he did not hesitate to marry each other.
The fact is as his parents thought, this man is indeed unreliable, and the cultural differences and personality differences between the two are very different, and various conflicts often occur after marriage, which makes Zhang Mo very tired.
She longed for that kind of happy and harmonious marriage, not this kind of noisy marriage, and in the end, driven by various contradictions, the marriage between the two of them soon came to an end.
After the loss, she returned to China to shoot movies with her father, while looking for new love, and finally met Meng Danqing in 2013.
After getting to know each other, the two found that they were very compatible, so they soon held a wedding, and Zhang Mo's career has been developing well after marriage, and he came into everyone's sight with "28-year-old minor".
Her husband and daughter are happy, but Xiao Hua is a lot more miserable, and she and Zhang Yimou refused everything related to each other, including the financial help in it.
Over the years, she has not met any new people around her, and it seems that only her daughter is left in her world.
Zhang Mo also understands his mother's loneliness, so he often goes home to accompany his mother, and sometimes sends money to his mother to make her life more comfortable.
Xiao Hua's life has been spent almost entirely on Zhang Yimou, she went to the countryside for Zhang Yimou, and gave up the opportunity to go to college for the other party but failed to get the same return, which is actually a kind of sadness.
Fortunately, her daughter appeared in that period of her life that was not smooth, and her daughter became all her beliefs that she supported, and her daughter's company also allowed her to successfully get out of the pain brought by that failed relationship.
Although Xiao Hua is now without anyone by her side, she looks a little lonely in her later years, but for her who has been completely disappointed in her relationship, being alone may be the best choice, not to mention that she has her daughter by her side, which is enough.
In fact, a large part of the tragedy of Xiao Hua's life is also related to her decision, if she hadn't given up the opportunity to go to college back then, maybe the ending would have been different.