Debtors must have this kind of voice: When will this hellish life end? Now is really the era of national debt, and there are 8 people in debt900 million, and more than half of them are overdue. In addition to the old, weak, sick and disabled, in a country with a population of 1.4 billion, almost all of the new generation of young people are in debt. The bread here contains mortgages, car loans, debtors who have failed to start their own businesses, etc., which is shocking to think about.
I used to have a debt of nearly 500,000 yuan, and now I think back to the old days, and I don't know the courage and perseverance I had. There are many Baozi who have come to find me, and their emotions are on the verge of collapse and despair. In fact, I want to tell you: when the sky falls, there is a high top, why do you just owe some money, not people's lives. Live your life however you want, putting aside your so-called self-esteem and face. When you give up these two things, you will find that life is still quite easy. A lot of the time, it's us who draw the ground ourselves. I encircled myself and was trapped in emotions and couldn't get out. Forget to think from the perspective of a bystander.
There are psychological studies that show that you are not as important as you think in the minds of others. So the face is all false, so why put the cart before the horse for the sake of fake.
The day before yesterday, a fan told me that because my father lost all his family property in gambling, the once wealthy family is now bankrupt. Because of her poor health, her mother was burdened with heavy debts at a young age. When I was studying, because I didn't have a life, I had to touch an online loan. Now he is overwhelmed by household debt and online loans. Because of debt, the credit report was black, and the girlfriend also broke up. Helpless in a big city. He also committed suicide, but fortunately he was found and rescued by a friend.
Listening to his experience to be honest, I was saddened. I once had this idea and even looked it up on the Internet. When a child dies, do parents still take on their debts? But come to think of it, decadence is only a few days. In the past, I was a little strong who couldn't be beaten again.
It's better to die than to live, and you have the courage to commit suicide, why can't you manage your life well and make money to turn over. My life, my life, is by no means something that can be bought for 500,000 yuan. Besides, after the deadline, the creditors and the collection actually didn't say what they wanted us to do. It is only natural to repay debts. We can also accept collection. But before the collection is too good, let's not scare ourselves.
After all, it is a society governed by the rule of law, and many behaviors they also have to weigh. In this life, no one is smooth sailing. It is better to suffer in youth than in old age. As long as people are alive, healthy, and positive, it is possible to turn over.
Regardless of overdue debts, the important thing is to live well. Compared with life, collection and prosecution are not a matter. Besides, it doesn't mean that if you overdue, the platform will blow up your address book and sue you. Most of the platforms are still very human. Negotiate with them after the deadline will not cause too much trouble to life.
The important thing you need to focus on is not the amount of debt, not collection, but how to make money. All other thoughts, fears, are internal exhaustion, self-torturing. There are many channels and information about negotiation on the Internet, and if you don't know, you can check it. If there is still something unclear, welcome to go ashore with you on the bits and pieces on the way.