From Yang Qinji selling his kidney to support his daughter chasing stars, to Yang Lijuan for more than ten years just to see Andy Lau.
Although her family is surrounded by walls and debts are high, she is still fully committed to Andy Lau, does not talk about feelings, and does not get married. So, where does Yang Lijuan's obsession with Andy Lau come from?
More than 40 years have passed, where is Yang Lijuan, who once guarded Andy Lau, now?
In order to satisfy his daughter Yang Lijuan's deep obsession with Andy Lau, Yang Qinji sold his kidney and spent all the money he got, but he finally chose to commit suicide by jumping into the river. Yang Lijuan was deeply distressed and thought that her father's last wish was for her to meet Andy Lau alone, but Andy Lau suspended his work and no longer appeared in public, leaving Yang Lijuan disappointed and angry.
She began to turn from love to hate for Andy Lau, thinking that he was responsible for all this tragedy. However, she did not reflect on her obsession with Andy Lau and her irresponsible behavior towards her father.
Andy Lau is no longer just an idol for Yang Lijuan, but a person who makes her deeply hurt.
Yang Lijuan has been chasing Andy Lau for many years, and she has no regrets. After her father's death, she believed that Andy Lau and the indifferent ** caused her father's death, and filed a lawsuit against them for this.
Although the results ended in defeat, she still did not give up and filed a lawsuit against **. Faced with the pressure of the outside world and the troubles of life, Yang Lijuan finally chose to let go of the obsession of meeting Andy Lau, took her mother away from right and wrong, and started a new life.
Life is impermanent, things are irreparable, I knew why I had to do it today. Now, does Yang Lijuan have some remorse? Why do you always think it's someone else's fault?
What is the connection between her and Andy Lau?
Yang Lijuan, born in Lanzhou, Gansu Province in 1978, was born in a family of a responsible mother and an excellent teacher. Although the family conditions were above average at that time, Yang Qinji was full of great expectations and joy for this old daughter.
He couldn't hide his excitement, he always felt overwhelmed by the new member of the family, but he was full of love.
Yang Qinji's love for his daughter Yang Lijuan is incomparable, he regards his daughter's happiness as the focus of the family, and he will do his best to satisfy his daughter. Whether it is grade counseling or trivial matters in life, Yang Qinji will do his best to assist his daughter.
Looking at his daughter's well-behaved face, he was extremely relieved. However, as her daughter grows up, her willfulness and greed begin to manifest, and anything she likes must be obtained, no matter what the cost.
In this regard, Yang Qinji chose to remain silent, and he used his own way to cheer for his daughter, hoping that she could become a better person.
Yang Lijuan fell in love with a toy, so she directly told Yang Qinji to buy it. Yang Qinji looked at the ** on the label and went to buy it without saying a word. Looking at his daughter's happy look, Yang Qinji was also very satisfied.
As a people's teacher, he was unaware of the inadequacy of this type of education and the impact it could have on children's futures. Due to Yang Qinji's doting, the living conditions of the family are not well-off, but he still wants to meet his daughter's needs as much as possible, whether he can afford it or not, he will do his best to buy it, and even if he can't afford it, he will try his best to steal it to satisfy his daughter.
Growing up in such an educational environment, Yang Lijuan's willful character gradually formed. This personality leads to her having no friends at school, and she always spends each day alone, lacking talk and companionship.
All of this laid the groundwork for her later suffering.
At home, Yang Lijuan is pampered, and her parents always try to meet all her needs. This environment contrasted with the strict discipline of the school, which made her tired of school.
So, she expressed her intention to drop out of school to her father. Yang Qinji noticed his daughter's unhappiness, and when he heard her request to drop out of school, he agreed without hesitation. Although some people say that parents should make long-term plans for their children, Yang Qinji at this moment only hopes to make his daughter happy, completely ignoring his daughter's unreasonable request.
Yang Lijuan, who dropped out of school and stayed at home, did not go out all day, and all her wishes would be told to her father Yang Qinji. She lives with only her mother, who is the housekeeper and a television, and countless times she wants to leave this familiar place and go to a completely unfamiliar place to find meaning in life.
However, what can she do without money and connections? Just when Yang Lijuan was confused and confused, an absurd dream gave her the direction of her life, but it also brought about the breakdown of her family.
So, what exactly is this dream? Later, according to Yang Lijuan herself, the dream was actually very simple, just a painting, on which was a fashionable and handsome man, and a sentence was written on both sides of the painting, You walked into me, and I met you with true love.
Yang Lijuan woke up from her dream, as if driven by some mysterious force, repeating these two sentences repeatedly, and every time she said it, her eyes became more determined. She excitedly told Yang Qinji about her dream, Yang Qinji looked at the brilliance on her face that she hadn't seen for a long time, and agreed: "It seems that this is not fiction, I have also had similar dreams." ”
Hearing her father's affirmation, Yang Lijuan was overjoyed, she knew what her goal was, that is, to find the person in her dreams and marry him. However, who is this person?
Should she go to ** to find it?
When Yang Lijuan was puzzled, she saw Andy Lau's poster on TV, and after repeated comparisons, she felt more and more that he was similar to the person in her dream. She looked at the poster and firmly vowed that she must meet Andy Lau and confide in him the story of her dreams, because they are destined to be destined.
Yang Lijuan's enthusiasm was ignited by Andy Lau, and she began to buy Andy Lau's peripherals like crazy, and even wanted to meet him in person. Her father, Yang Qinji, did not hesitate to support her dream of chasing stars, and took care of her with all his might so that his daughter could give up his job.
When Yang Lijuan decided to go to Hong Kong to see Andy Lau, Yang Qinji took out all her savings, a total of 9,900 yuan, and gave it to her, so that she could chase stars without worries.
Yang Lijuan, who was full of hope, came all the way to Hong Kong in order to see Andy Lau's demeanor, but she spent all the money but failed to do so. This made Yang Lijuan feel very lost, but her obsession with seeing Andy Lau became deeper and deeper.
Seeing her sister in such pain, Yang Qinji decided to sell her house to fund her dream of chasing stars. However, after selling the house, Yang Lijuan's family could only squeeze into a small rental house, and the pressure on their lives doubled.
Yang Lijuan didn't care about this, **she would go to Andy Lau's itinerary**, completely ignoring the feelings of her family. And her elderly parents are also getting old in the process of her crazy star-chasing.
In 2004, Yang Lijuan heard that Andy Lau was going to come to Gansu to shoot "No Thieves in the World", so she decided to meet Andy Lau this time no matter what.
looked at the crew on the roof every day, just to find Andy Lau's figure, but he never met him. Despair enveloped her, and her emotions began to become moody, and she kept telling Yang Qinji about her desire to see Andy Lau.
Seeing his daughter like this, Yang Qinji resented Andy Lau. He found out that Andy Lau would hold a concert in Beijing, and despite the fact that his family was surrounded by walls, he still raised 1,000 yuan to let Yang Lijuan go to Beijing to fulfill her wish.
Yang Lijuan finally realized her dream, standing beside Andy Lau, looking at his side face, her heart was surging. However, before she could speak, she was squeezed away by the fans in line.
She couldn't get close to him, even though he was just a stone's throw away, which made her feel very frustrated. In 2005, in order to go to Hong Kong to meet Andy Lau again, Yang Qinji chose to borrow loan sharks, but the result disappointed them.
In the second year, Yang Qinji was even ready to sell his kidney to support his daughter's star-chasing journey, but was stopped by Yang Lijuan in time.
In the face of Yang Lijuan's crying, Yang Qinji's heart was full of determination, and he decided to give everything for his daughter's dream. He secretly looked for an opportunity and finally chose to sell his kidney.
In an interview, Yang Qinji said frankly: "Although I lost a kidney, I still live well. I did this in the hope of raising enough money so that my daughter could fulfill her wish to meet Andy Lau. ”
However, it is precisely because of Yang Qinji's endless doting that Yang Lijuan's star-chasing behavior is becoming more and more crazy every time, which can't help but make people sigh at the power of the causal cycle.
In 2007, with the help of some ** forces, Yang Lijuan finally had the opportunity to meet Andy Lau, but she was still dissatisfied and eager to have one-on-one communication with Andy Lau.
However, this request was firmly rejected by the staff.
Yang Lijuan's wish was disappointed, and she complained constantly after coming back, which made Yang Qinji, who regarded her daughter as her life, unbearable. Yang Qinji knew that his family was in debt, and he couldn't do anything for his daughter, only his own life still had some weight.
He decided to use this way to get Andy Lau's attention, and after leaving a suicide note, he committed suicide by jumping into the river. In the suicide note, Yang Qinji accused Andy Lau, hoping that he could give his daughter a chance to meet alone, revealing Yang Lijuan's running and hardships for more than ten years, as well as the bleak status quo of the family.
He hoped that Andy Lau could fulfill his wish, however, Yang Qinji would never know that Andy Lau did not show up and did not come to visit Yang Lijuan.
After reading her father's suicide note, Yang Lijuan's mind about seeing Andy Lau changed. She firmly believes that this is her father's last wish and is determined to fulfill it to give him peace of mind. At the same time, due to excessive pressure from the outside world, all Andy Lau's activities were suspended, and all kinds of accusations came one after another, some said that he was cold-blooded and ruthless, some said that he lacked a sense of responsibility, and some even questioned whether he was worthy of the title of star.
These remarks pounced on Andy Lau like a tiger, and he even almost suffered from depression because of it, and had to seek help from a psychiatrist frequently. For such consequences, Andy Lau was deeply confused and puzzled.
After many struggles and reflections, Yang Lijuan finally recognized the reality. She understands that no one will support her unconditionally like her father, and she decides to leave the center of this ** storm with her mother and let time dilute it all.
She believes that over time, people will gradually forget about it and forget that she exists.
After Lu Yu's interview, we learned about Yang Lijuan's latest situation. She now works in a lifestyle supermarket, and as an adult, she left her father's shelter and began to earn money independently.
This job, which pays about 2,000 yuan a month, barely supports her and her mother, they live in a rented house, and their lives are peaceful and serene without the cost of chasing stars.
In the grinding of life, she gradually gave up her inner attachment, because the person who unconditionally pampered her and tolerated her tantrums was no longer there, so she no longer cried hysterically, but became more gentle.
Facing the camera, Yang Lijuan showed deep remorse. She regretted her past behavior very much, and even burned the Andy Lau posters, CDs and records she had collected, and everything disappeared without a trace, dust returned to dust, and dust returned to earth, but her father never came back.
In Yang Lijuan's current life, she often visits her father Yang Qinji and shares her life with him to reassure him. Yang Qinji dedicated the rest of his life to his daughter, he is a great father.
Yang Lijuan has always lived in her father's affectionate care, but this kind of care is too overflowing, and there is a lack of appropriate rules and constraints, which has led Yang Lijuan to form a self-centered wrong outlook on life, and spoiling children without restraint is an irresponsible behavior.
The family environment is very important to a person's growth, some people can't wake up because of their obsession, Yang Lijuan woke up too late, and the price she paid was too great.
Therefore, we must be restrained in everything we do, and love cannot be too overflowing, and star chasing is no exception. We can keep a part of our love for ourselves, find the shining point of our idols, and work hard for our own future, and in the same way, you can also become an idol for others.