Author: Zimo.
In life, no one can live carefree, there will always be all kinds of troubles, and most of the troubles in life are also disturbed by mediocrity.
The reason why people are troubled is that they have too many desires, the attitude they want, the inability to love, or the ability to match their ambitions.
Maybe it's because of the imbalance in the heart, when you give and there is no return for the time being, you will cry and make trouble, or if you pay, you don't get the return you expect, so you are disappointed, disappointed and dissatisfied.
Master Hongyi once said, "The stupidest behavior of a person is to be anxious for results, and if he can't get it, he will be anxious and troublesome." As everyone knows, what God arranged is better and more thoughtful than what you choose yourself. There is a providence in the dark, and everything is the best arrangement. ”In fact, the troubles are one's own discontentment, which comes from the inner thoughts and attitude towards life, and if the mind is peaceful, all the troubles will disappear.
You have to believe that there is providence in the dark, life is not as good as you think, and it is not as bad as you think, you can't have everything, and you can't have nothing, no matter who you are, you have to taste and experience the ups and downs, joys and sorrows.
There are too many troubles in life, in fact, it is that we are entangled with ourselves, when we calm down and think carefully, many troubles in life are just the urgent needs and demands of the time, not the necessity of life, but their own illusory pursuit and unrealistic demand.
Everything in the world has its own time rules and trajectories, no one can change it, there are too many desires in the heart, and nothing can be changed after all, it is yours after all, not you will lose it if you go around and around.
Only if we recognize the reality, do our best in everything, do our best, don't be demanding beyond our ability, don't demand perfection, our hearts are calm, and life will be calm and calm.
When you let yourself quiet down and relax, you will feel that life is leisurely, and you know that any troubles are because you want too much, rather than being trapped by troubles, it is better to let go and travel lightly.
Don't get along with yourself in everything, only by letting go of yourself and reconciling with yourself can you calm the helplessness in your heart, calm your mind, and your troubles will be slowly stripped out.
Life is not about having as much as possible, but knowing how to cut down the complicated and simplifying, the simpler the happier, the simpler the happier, the purity of the heart, the simplicity of life, in order to enjoy life and pursue the beauty of life.
In this world, there are too many things that we can't control, anything we want to control, in turn, controls us, only inner peace, grasp the present, life is impermanent, let your heart be safe, live in the present, not afraid of the past regrets, not worried about the future.
Abandon the distractions in your heart, let yourself go, don't get along with yourself, in order to let yourself be liberated, calmly go through the four seasons of life, live the life you like, and do what you like.
Learn to forgive yourself, learn to be tolerant of others, reduce negative emotions, love yourself, and live seriously, in this way, you will have a lot less troubles.
Life is your own, life is your own, in it, don't be affected by troubles and negative emotions in your mood, look away and look down, everything will be light.
In the face of troubles, do not worry or fear, dare to face them, in order to overcome the anxiety and greed in the heart, let yourself be calm and rational, and have a clear heart, life will be beautiful and poetic.
In life, the reason why there are constant troubles is that I don't know how to overcome joys and sorrows, and I always rely on others and expect others. Life is like drinking water, knowing oneself about one's warmth and coldness, living a life that suits oneself, doing what one should do, don't embarrass oneself, and don't force others.
Life is never perfect, only what suits you is the best. If you have money, you can live a good life; I don't have any money, so I'm in a good mood. Everyone lives with a state of mind, peace of mind, a stable life, a good mood, and beautiful scenery on the road of life.
Take care of your mood in life, when you are happy, your troubles will disappear, take care of your emotions, do not compare, do not envy, and find beauty in your life.
For the rest of your life, live calmly, speak well, live well, don't be impatient, don't be in a hurry, don't be in a hurry, don't want things that don't belong to you, it's something you can do, just choose to let go, and don't let your inner desires affect your happiness.
Every time you encounter a major event, you need to calm down, and when you encounter something, calm down, see the cause and effect, and then make a choice.
In this way, on the road of life, treat everything with their own joy and love, inner peace is the source of happiness, as long as the heart is beautiful, live up to life, and look at the world with an appreciative eye, the road of life will be beautiful and always accompanied.
The older you get, the more you will find that having a normal heart is more important than anything else. In the ever-changing world, contentment, peace and health are the greatest abundance in life, and living an ordinary life with a happy heart, worry-free heart, no illness and no disaster, is a winner in life.