The mother-in-law helped Zhang Qian take care of the child for 2 years, thinking that she had worked hard and wanted to ask her son for credit.
Zhang Qian said: "Mom, I beg you, don't help me take care of the children anymore, you can leave quickly." ”
After Zhang Qian's daughter was born, she never thought of asking her mother-in-law to help, because her own mother would help her.
Zhang Qian is the only daughter in the family, and her material life is okay, but marrying her husband Tang Jun can be said to be "upside down".
After the child was born, Zhang Qian's in-laws symbolically came to see for a few days, and then left in a hurry on the grounds of the autumn harvest at home.
Grandma has retired at home, and she is ready to take her grandson for a long time, she is still afraid that her mother-in-law will come to rob her, and it is a good thing for her in-laws to take the initiative to leave.
With the intimate care of her mother and the aunt at home, Zhang Qianchu's life as a mother did not have the imaginary chickens and dogs jumping, and she was in a panic, but the years were quiet, she ate well and slept well.
Half a year later, Zhang Qian's leisurely days passed, and bad news came from her hometown, and her father-in-law died of a sudden cerebral infarction.
Since then, Tang Jun and his mother have had more **, and they can't wait to fight three times a day.
Finally, when he heard that his mother was not eating well and that there was no one to take care of her when she was sick, Tang Jun couldn't bear it anymore and hurriedly took her over.
Zhang Qian resisted, who wants to live with her mother-in-law?
Zhang Qian's mother persuaded and explained: "Losing my mother-in-law to live alone is really not like words, let Tang Jun's face as a son go where to go." ”
The mother-in-law also flattered Zhang Qian, saying that she could help her take care of the child, and the child was small, and it was the time when she needed someone.
Zhang Qian's mother left with interest, and she felt that her grandmother would definitely take care of the child with all her heart.
The day after the mother-in-law arrived, she sent the aunt away, saying that she could do anything, she didn't need to waste that money, and she wanted to save money for her son.
Zhang Qian still wanted to theorize, but was stopped by Tang Jun, he also felt that it was a luxury to invite an aunt at home, although Zhang Qian repeatedly said that the money for inviting an aunt was from her grandfather.
Then, after Zhang Qian saw her daughter's appearance, she almost turned her back on it.
The original cute porcelain doll was dressed up by her mother-in-law as a small village girl in the countryside.
The mother-in-law also said with satisfaction: "Look, these clothes given by relatives are so beautiful, how can children grow up fast, how can they buy new clothes every day?" The children in the family are all wearing other people's old clothes, which saves money and resists manufacturing. ”
Forget about wearing ugly clothes, the food that her mother-in-law gave her granddaughter was heavy oil and salt, and Zhang Qian was so angry that she wanted to lift the table every day.
Every time Zhang Qian got angry, Tang Jun stood on his mother's side, for the sake of harmony between husband and wife, Zhang Qian could only keep her mouth shut.
After two years of stumbling like this, Zhang Qian's temper became more and more irritable.
She no longer cares about how her husband is, as long as she sees that her mother-in-law is doing something wrong, she immediately yells.
Her mother-in-law is not a vegetarian either, and every time Zhang Qian accuses her, she uses the ultimate trick: crying.
As long as she cries, whether she fed her granddaughter ice cream before, or her granddaughter playing with her mobile phone, Tang Jun forgives her mother, and then confronts his wife.
Seeing her unprincipled husband, Zhang Qian was no longer used to it, and she blamed him again.
The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law eventually turned into a husband and wife war.
Between husband and wife, if there are too many accusations, the relationship will be weak, and Zhang Qian and Tang Jun have not lived as husband and wife for half a year.
If this continues, there will definitely be problems in the relationship between husband and wife, and Zhang Qian decided to have a good talk with her husband.
When she found her husband, her husband and her mother took their daughter to play outside, and her daughter was sweating profusely and reached out to ask her grandmother for water.
After the daughter drank the water, the mother-in-law reached out and took the water cup, and then naturally put it to her mouth and took a big sip.
After the mother-in-law finished drinking, she pouted and said to her son beside her, "Look at how well I have brought your daughter." Without me, your family would have to be scattered. ”
Zhang Qian was stunned to watch her mother-in-law's actions just now, the reason she had just brewed disappeared in an instant, and she said loudly to her mother-in-law: "Mom, if you stay any longer, this family will really break up, and Tang Jun and I will really divorce!" ”
@柳闻溪
Mother-in-law is in this family, and she is Tang Jun's tool.
Tang Jun said what he didn't dare to say or do through his mother's mouth, and did it through his mother's hands.
The way the mother-in-law takes the child is indeed unreasonable, Tang Jun is not unaware, but he still allows his mother to do this.
Because, he wants to rebel against Zhang Qian and take revenge on Zhang Qian in this way.
After the child was born, the mother-in-law contributed money and efforts, which was an insult to Tang Jun, insulting him for having no money and no ability.
The mother-in-law and aunt are at home, which is equivalent to reminding Tang Jun all the time, you have no money, this family is not your decision, and you have no ability.
Many boys from poor family conditions are extremely sensitive, inferior, and extremely machismo.
According to Tang Jun's behavior in the story, it can be seen that he is also this kind of person.
Why, the day after the mother-in-law arrived, she had to change her granddaughter into old clothes given by relatives and drive away the aunt at home?
In Tang Jun's eyes, this is a declaration of sovereignty, he wants to erase all traces of the woman's home, and then change them into his own clothes to determine the rules of his own family.
He is the male owner of this family, and he has the final say in this family!
Even if the clothes were tattered, it didn't matter, because he earned it for the child by his own ability, not the charity of the woman's family.
Therefore, the mother-in-law is not the culprit of family discord, the man hiding behind his own mother is.
Speaking of this, who should be kicked out of this family, Zhang Qian should be clear!