Hello, I'm Sugar.
Chai Jing writes in "Seeing": "Love is the attitude of one soul to another, not the attraction of one organ to another. ”
That's true. Truly long-lasting intimacy does not create love, but soul. In love, the more distinctive the personality of a woman, the more she can attract a man.
Women who can attract men often have these three distinctive characteristics.
01 Be an independent and capable woman.
In the TV series "You Are My City Camp", the male protagonist Xing Kelei learned that the female protagonist Mi Yan had not returned to the camp, so he went out to look for it. Xing Kelei found Mi Ya in the woods, and by this time Mi Ya had already injured her knee due to a fall.
Xing Kelei checked Mi Yan's injuries and offered to take her to the hospital. Mi Yan said that she was a doctor, and this little injury could be dealt with by herself.
Mi Ya endured the pain to disinfect himself, and his independent image of bandaging left a deep impression on Xing Kelei, which became one of the reasons for Xing Kelei to pursue Mi Ya.
Socrates once said, "The bird standing on a branch does not worry about the branch breaking, because it never believes in the branch, but in its own wings." ”
An independent, capable woman who will not rely on men for everything, such a woman can be eye-catching and sparkling.
02 Be a smart and wise woman.
Chen Shuting is one of the few female characters in the once popular TV series "Hurricane", but she is beautiful and sassy by Gao Ye, which can be called the coexistence of wisdom and charm.
When Gao Qiqiang was still a fishmonger, Chen Shuting not only did not dislike it, but also fell in love with him and gave him warmth.
When Gao Qiqiang wanted to take a step closer in his career, Chen Shuting took the initiative to help him introduce Uncle Tai and successfully helped Gao Qiqiang reach the peak of his life.
Along the way, Chen Shuting has done everything that his wife should do, she cares, guides, and fulfills Gao Qiqiang, and she is the woman who has been silently paying behind Gao Qiqiang's success.
Chen Shuting's intelligence and wisdom made her a "nobleman" in Gao Qiqiang's life, making Gao Qiqiang love her so much that he couldn't extricate himself.
A smart woman can understand everything at a moment's notice, and she doesn't need to be repeated by men. What a man wants is nothing more than a virtuous helper, so a woman must be smart and wise, and men will be deeply attracted.
03 Be an intellectual and attractive woman.
Chen Shu, a female star in the entertainment industry, is nearly fifty years old, but she is still elegant and her temperament is quite outstanding. At an award-winning scene, a certain male star stared at Chen Shu regardless of the actress next to him.
Chen Shu once said in an interview: "A woman's greatest charm comes from the heart, it must not be physical, the beauty of the flesh must give everyone the feeling that the time must be very short, and the sustainability makes everyone willing to get along with this person, it must be that she exudes something in it." ”
I think so. The beginning of a woman's radiance is intellectuality, and an intellectually attractive woman can make people feel like a spring breeze, which is what makes a man intoxicated.
As I once saw, this sentence said: "A woman should be elegant and wild, compassionate and domineering, rigid and soft, and be a woman with full temperament." ”
04 Conclusion.
Zhang Jiajia wrote in the book: "Flowers blooming is a sentence, and the night is overflowing." Dusk begins to write, and dawn is a myriad of title pages. The whole world is put together into a poem. I love you as the last line. ”
Love is the most romantic thing in the world, but it is easy to know each other, but it is difficult to fall in love.
Most women will choose to let go after finding out that the man they love does not love them, but smart women have a different view.
True love is not begged, but attracted to you and comes to you when you shine.
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