Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The greatest sorrow of a woman is that she has never figured out that this world is your own for the rest of her life." It's a deep statement, but it's also straightforward. is like a lonely boat in the sea, no matter how strong the wind and waves, you can only be at the helm.
A child is like a short-lived companion who will eventually sail alone; Love is like a lighthouse on the sea, although it can guide the way, it cannot accompany it forever. And the companion is just a partner who walks side by side on this voyage.
The essence of life is a lonely voyage. We can't expect too much from others, because they have their own routes and destinations. Pinning your hopes on others is like tying an anchor chain to duckweed, which is ultimately unreliable.
When we are young, we may dream of finding the partner we can spend the storm with, thinking that with him, we can have smooth sailing. As the years go by, we will understand that the happiness of our marriage depends more on our own abilities.
Marriage is like a big ship, two people are at the helm together. But no matter how the scenery changes on the ship, we are always at the helm. We can't expect our partner to solve all the problems for us, because the ultimate course is up to us.
So, learn to take the helm yourself. Only in this way can we move forward steadily in the voyage of life, no matter what storms we encounter, and finally reach the other side of happiness.