Nowadays, more and more students are unable to find a stable job after graduation, facing the embarrassing dilemma of being unemployed after graduation, rather than being unable to find a stable job after graduation, it is better to put the direction of employment on the iron rice bowl post, with the continuous increase in the number of people who sign up for the civil service and career preparation examinations, it also makes it difficult for students to go ashore and increase the pressure of competition.Parents in order to let their children surpass others, win at the starting line, when the children are very young, they will enroll in various cram schools and tutorial classes, parents are very willing to spend money on their children's education, it is because of the excessive doting of parents, so that more and more students have a tired of learning, many students have forgotten the meaning of efforts since they were young, and began to fish in troubled waters.
In the current era of fierce competition for employment, many students can not find a stable job after graduation, in order to escape from reality, they will aim at the civil service and career preparation examination, and many students will choose to take the postgraduate examination, in the eyes of parents think that this is the child's performance, in fact, the child is secretly behind the back of the parents excessive greedy to play mobile phones, addicted to online games, all kinds of phenomena also make the new gnawing of the old become more and more serious, parents do not know.
"A new type of gnawing the old".Quietly coming, parentsYetI don't know it, and I show off my children everywhere
The new type of gnawing old is a contemporary young person, because of work reasons do not bring their own baby, but let the old people at home help to bring, will from time to time give the old people a part of the funds to raise children, under the banner of all kinds of good for the elderly, in fact, they are secretly taking advantage of the elderly, belonging to the cheap and good.
Parents are old, parents should be allowed to have their own old age and do what they like, not only young people with children will gnaw at the old, even many college graduates do not look for jobs after graduation, and begin to escape from reality, living all day long with clothes to reach out for food to open their mouths.
Affected by the level of education, it is becoming more and more difficult for contemporary college students to find employment, and many students are unable to find their favorite and stable jobs after graduation.
Nowadays, most parents have a low level of education, if their children want to take the postgraduate examination, public education and career preparation examination, in the impression of parents, this is the child's performance, can glorify the ancestors, in fact, the child has already begun to escape from reality in this way, to escape the status quo.
The main reason for the frequent occurrence of the phenomenon of gnawing the old is because of the excessive doting of parents, in the process of children's growth, we must properly let children suffer a little, if the children are held and loved all day long, it will only allow them to develop a psychological state of escape, and when facing difficulties and setbacks in the future, they always try their best to escape and show an uncomfortable attitude.
It is very good for parents, the phenomenon will be harmful, and they will also waste the careful cultivation of their parents, as parents must actively guide and help their children find a way to solve the problem as soon as possible, and for children not to avoid labor, they will never get good development if they live in the arms of their parents all day long.
In the process of children's growth, they need both family education and social education, and parents account for an important part of it. Chain constantly improve self-ability, only the comprehensive strength of students is strong enough, in order to stand out among many people, do not produce self-abandonment psychology, do not think that they have read a few more years of books are very good, higher than your education, stronger than your ability, abound, as a new era of young people, must have the courage to challenge themselves, break through themselves.