Gnaw the oldThe term is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and generally refers to those adults who clearly have the ability to take care of themselves, but still reach out to their parents to ask for money. The new type of gnawing old mentioned today has similarities and differences with the old gnawing we mentioned earlier.Under the popularization of higher education, the number of college graduates continues to increase, and the pressure of employment competition for contemporary students increases.
There are also many students who choose to give up their jobs directly, stay at home all day, reach out to their parents for money or stretch out their hands for food to open their mouths, which also leads to the new phenomenon of gnawing at the old more and more frequently.
At the suggestion of parents, many students will choose to take the postgraduate examination, public examination or career preparation examination, bury themselves in the room all day long, and bury their heads in the eyes of parents to see their children's hard work, so no matter what the final results are, whether they can successfully go ashore, parents will not complain that their children will think that this is a manifestation of their children's promising, but in the case that parents do not know, it is those students who seem to be learning, addicted to the Internet all day long, unable to extricate themselves, and waste their time.
Whether it is to participate in the public business preparation examination or the graduate examination, you need to have the support of strong financial strength, and the longer the time, the more expenses you need to spend, and those students who choose to give up their jobs to prepare for the exam, most of them have lost their financial skills, and then they will reach out to their parents to ask for money.
No matter which kind of examination is in the system, in recent years, with the continuous increase in the number of applicants, the difficulty of candidates landing and the pressure of competition have increased, and it is not easy to successfully stand out among many people and get a stable job, and most candidates will face the embarrassing dilemma of failing the exam.
Students who prepare for the exam at home end up failing, and when they step into the society again, they will find that they have missed out on many employment opportunities, and most of the employment positions will only recruit fresh graduates, so they have missed the best employment period of the company. Failure in exams and the pressure given to them by society will gradually wear down the fighting spirit of young people, plus these students, most of whom have higher academic qualifications and have studied for a few more years, will make their minds very arrogant, do not want to engage in those harder jobs, and do not want to work in factories, under these conditions will make them begin to escape from reality.
On the surface, these children are working hard to study, prepare for the public examination, and work hard for their future, but in the places where parents can't see, they are addicted to mobile phones all day long, and the days when they are used to playing games will make them lose the meaning of hard workThe main reason for the frequent occurrence of new gnawing on the elderly has a lot to do with the excessive spoiling of parents.
Today's parents love their children very much, belonging to the kind of fear of falling in their hands, holding in their mouths for fear of melting, if parents do not let their children suffer a little bit inappropriately, when their children graduate from college, they will really enter the social link, and when they are faced with the beating of society, they will also be unacceptable for a while.
Parents' deep-rooted doting thoughts are the main inducements that lead to children not working hard, hoping that children can properly let children accept a little setbacks and failures, just The so-called failure is the mother of success, only after a few more failures can you get the joy of success, and you can also find the true meaning of life.