(Lao Zhu said pension-24-86).Widows and divorced elderly people are more willing to remarry, and there is a need to create a more relaxed social atmosphere. Because of widowhood or divorce, many elderly people lose their spouses sooner or later and become "single" people. A considerable number of them have the will and conditions to remarry. The marriage of widows and divorced elderly people is a very real problem that should not be avoided in pension services.
More than half of the sample in this survey were divorced and widowed. In the questionnaire, we designed three questions to understand the willingness of divorced and widowed elderly people to remarry, the attitudes of their children, and the reasons why they do not plan to remarry. From the perspective of the willingness to remarry, 30 of them are "planning to find".6%, and 56 "don't plan to find".7% and 12 percent "haven't thought about it yet".7%。According to the answer to "If you find another wife, will your children support it?", 8 people think that their children will "support".3%, and 42 believe that their children will "not support".7%, and 32 said that "they do not support or oppose their children".5%, and 16 "unclear" children's attitudes6%。
(Lao Zhu said pension-24-86).Judging from the answer to "If you don't plan to find another wife, what is the main reason?", 606% of the respondents believe that "a person is doing well, there is no need to look for it", which is the highest reason; Other reasons are more scattered, and the proportion is not high, among them, "if you can't find a suitable one, you don't plan to find it" accounted for 119%, and 9 are worried about the bad relationship between the two families2%, "I still have my wife in my heart, and no one can replace him (her)" accounted for 83%, and 7 are "worried about being deceived".3%, and 6 percent were "worried that their children would object".4%, and 5 percent were "worried about gossip".5% and "other reasons" accounted for 73%。
Judging from the above survey results, more than 30% of the elderly clearly expressed their willingness to remarry, but more than 40% of the elderly believed that their children would not support their remarriage. It can be seen that the biggest obstacle to remarriage of widows and divorced elderly people is the attitude of their children.
(Lao Zhu said pension-24-86).In addition, it is also very important for all sectors of society to understand and respect the willingness of the elderly to remarry, such as cheating marriage, gossip, etc., which will seriously affect the willingness and behavior of widows and divorced elderly people to remarry. Respecting the remarriage wishes of the widowed and divorced elderly and solving the marriage problem of the widowed and divorced elderly is an important aspect of humanistic care in elderly care services. Children should respect the wishes of widowed and divorced elderly people to remarry, and support them in resolving their marital problems.
All aspects of society, including relevant departments, community organizations, women's federation organizations, and associations for the elderly, should not only create a good social environment for the elderly to remarry, but also create good conditions for solving the marriage problems of the widowed and divorced elderly.