What does it mean that the opposite sex likes you, but doesn t take the initiative to find you? Do y

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-02

Hello everyone, today I would like to talk about a topic related to emotions. The story I want to tell you is about a girl named Xiaoli. She is 25 years old and lives an ordinary but hard-working life in a medium-sized city. She was born in an ordinary family, her parents were honest and hardworking, and of course she had a lovely younger brother. Everyone may have the impression that Xiaoli is a shy, introverted, and not good at expressing her inner self. However, she longs for a pure and happy relationship, but she doesn't know how to fight for it.

Because of Xiaoli's excellent performance, her boss spoke highly of her and promoted her to department head. However, love is always a blank slate. There are a lot of boys chasing her, but she always feels that they don't have a real heart and just want to have fun. This feeling made her tired.

But one day, Xiaoli met him. Oh, he's not a normal person. He comes from a wealthy metropolis, has a stable career, and his down-to-earth behavior deeply attracts Xiaoli. This man has been acting strangely since he fell in love with Xiaoli. Flowers, gifts, love letters, we express our love on WeChat every day. Xiaoli falls in love unprepared, and the two fall in love. At first, he was very enthusiastic and took the initiative to ask Xiaoli out on a date. Every time we were together, he surprised and impressed Xiaoli. Xiaoli thought that this person was the person she pursued all her life, and she offered her true feelings to him without restraint.

It's a pity that as time went on, he became indifferent to Xiaoli. His voice disappeared from WeChat, and the invitation was never mentioned again. Xiao *** took the initiative to contact me, but he always didn't talk to me on the pretext that he was busy with work or something, which made me very sad.

Xiaoli couldn't help but think back to this relationship and didn't know that something was wrong. She didn't think she had done anything wrong, she just couldn't understand why he had suddenly turned cold. At this time, Ms. Xiaoli became more frustrated and confused than she had ever been, and began to question whether she was worthy of that true love.

Then she finally understood why. In fact, he didn't mean anything to her, he just wanted to fall in love with her temporarily. His feelings for her were hollow and empty, and he had no deep love at all. This news was like a bolt from the blue for Xiaoli.

Despite this, Xiaoli has not been depressed all the time. She understands that even if the road is full of thorns, life has to go on. So she regained her composure and mustered up the courage to pursue true love.

By telling Xiaoli's story this time, I want to tell all my friends that when a guy likes you but doesn't take the initiative to find you, you can be sure of one thing. In other words, he doesn't have deep feelings for you. He may just have a slight crush on you, or he may just be looking for someone who can fall in love with you. Don't feel inferior if you feel like you're not the ideal type of person he is, or that he's behaving completely differently than he used to be. You have to openly look for true love and find someone who is truly willing to give for you. At the same time, you need self-control, and being emotional is not the solution to the problem. I hope you can all find a beautiful love in the end!

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