These 25 tips are mainly about improving personal emotional intelligence, enhancing strategic and intelligent interpersonal communication, so as to make individuals appear more mature and thoughtful in complex social environments. The specific analysis is as follows:
1.Praise others more and avoid belittling them, so that you can maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships.
2.Minimize unnecessary advice output so as not to cause unnecessary strife or expose your weaknesses.
3.Pay attention to your words in communication to avoid being caught by others.
4.You have the right not to answer questions that involve privacy or may cause trouble.
5.Be vigilant, scrutinize any action that may have legal effects, and preserve evidence in case you need it.
6.Even if you have an opinion about a colleague, you should maintain a semblance of friendliness to avoid escalating conflicts in the workplace.
7.When you are unsure whether the information is suitable for disclosure, it is wise to choose silence.
8.Don't easily expose your full strength and hole cards, learn to be low-key and forbearing.
9.No matter how deep your relationship is, you should be reserved to protect yourself from potential harm.
10.When the situation is uncertain, do not blindly intervene and keep a clear attitude of bystanders.
11.Add subjective expressions when expressing opinions to reduce the resistance of others.
12.Be clear about the purpose of the other person's question and think about how to respond to it in your own benefit.
13.For those you don't like, you don't have to clash directly, you can keep your distance appropriately.
14.Learn to use subtle expressions to make interpersonal communication more artistic.
15.Learning to disguise at the right time and adapt to different occasions is an essential skill for survival and development.
16.Learn from people who are better than yourself and constantly improve yourself.
17.Able to listen to gossip but not overly involved, and maintain a certain social distance.
18.Know how to keep your mouth shut at the right time to avoid getting into trouble due to impulsive words.
19.Controlling emotions and maintaining a calm appearance at all times is conducive to maintaining interpersonal relationships.
20.Analyzing the true intentions behind the words and deeds of others from the perspective of interests helps to see through the essence of things.
21.Strengthening self-emotion management ability and controlling temper is a manifestation of personal cultivation.
22.Avoid being hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, consistent with words and deeds, and establish an image of integrity.
23.Leave room for doing things, preset a retreat path for yourself, and prevent problems before they happen.
24.Maintain a cautious attitude towards other people's remarks, and make judgments after distinguishing between truth and falsehood.
25.Enhance self-worth, understand that the essence of interpersonal communication lies in value exchange, and only when you have value can you attract more beneficial interpersonal relationships.
Taken together, these recommendations aim to develop a person's ability to be more thoughtful and take on a variety of social situations, which is commonly referred to as the "city". Through such cultivation, individuals are better able to adapt to social rules, achieve self-protection, and gain advantages in interpersonal relationships and career development.