Yu Hua once said: "Spiritual internal friction is like an endless drama in the heart, the unspoken words have been performed thousands of times, the body has not moved, and the heart has flown over thousands of rivers and mountains." This kind of self-torture does nothing but bring exhaustion. "Each of us walks alone in the world, setbacks and difficulties are inevitable, but it is these hardships that make our lives grow.
Life is full of suffering, and we must accept that fact. Since it is unavoidable, why not learn to reduce the inner turmoil and let the mind be at peace? There are too many dramas in my heart, which will only make me more tired. If we don't hurt ourselves, how can others hurt us?
True wisdom lies not in how clearly you live, but in knowing how to reconcile with yourself and with life. After experiencing the helplessness of life, we may think that we have seen through everything, but in fact, the real wisdom lies in knowing how to be confused, not demanding, and not obsessive.
Understand others from your own point of view, and comfort yourself from the perspective of others. In the journey of life, allow others to be yourself, and also allow yourself to be your true self. In this way, we can be well with each other and not hurt each other.
And the best way to protect yourself is not to underestimate your own status in the hearts of others, not to crave the understanding of others, and not to be self-righteous. Because, no matter what we go through, in the world of others, our pain is as light as a feather and not worth mentioning.
In the face of all kinds of life, we must learn to let go and learn to be strong. Don't let inner turmoil and uneasiness cloud our judgment and decision-making. Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "Don't compare ** if you buy it, don't regret it if you eat it, don't suspect it if you love it, and don't slander it if you scatter it." These are the wisdom of life that teaches us how to face life's choices and regrets.
Time will ** our pain, but also let us understand many truths. The things that once bothered us with them will become irrelevant over time. Because, life choices are always full of regrets, but we must learn to accept these regrets and not let ourselves live in the shadows of the past all the time.
Maugham also said, "Don't believe that stress can be converted into motivation, and your stress will only be transformed into medical records." "Therefore, we need to learn to release stress and not let it become a stumbling block for us to move forward. The real motivation of life lies in our pursuit of pleasure and interest.
Finally, we need to learn to live with loneliness and loneliness. Because, after all, the journey of life is a one's journey, and we must learn to bear it by ourselves and let go of it by ourselves. Loneliness may make us confused, but it will also make us grow. In loneliness, we learn to be independent, learn to be strong, and learn to face the challenges of life. This kind of life is truly free and powerful.