There is often a contradiction in human nature, that is, the desire to connect with the world, to enjoy the satisfaction of having and being owned, but also to yearn for quiet and distant solitude. In this complex world, many people, although they love the hustle and bustle, find themselves gradually falling in love with the calmness and tranquility of solitude.
It is often said that "liking to have" is an instinct, which is reflected in the accumulation of material wealth, dependence on emotional relationships, and the pursuit of social identity. This kind of possession makes us feel safe and belonging, and gives life rich colors and layers. However, when we indulge in the joy of having, we can also fall into a whirlpool of hustle and bustle, and our minds drift away in the hustle and bustle.
And solitude is like a clear spring, cleansing away the impetuousness of the world and allowing people to return to the depths of their hearts. When we are alone, we can leave behind the constraints of the outside world, listen quietly to our inner voice, let our thoughts flow freely, and examine our true selves. This solitude in love is actually a kind of deep self-talk and introspection, and a deeper exploration of the meaning of life.
When we are alone, we can indulge in a good book and immerse ourselves in the ocean of knowledge; You can quietly listen to the breath of nature and perceive the harmonious coexistence of all things; You can splash ink and let artistic inspiration bloom in silence; Or you can just sit in a corner, sip a cup of tea, empty your mind and enjoy the pure moment with yourself.
Behind the seemingly contradictory choices, it actually reflects people's pursuit of a higher level of the spiritual world. I like to have it because of the warmth and reality of fireworks in the world; I fell in love with solitude because of the richness and independence of the inner world. The two are not opposites, but complement each other, and together they form a complete life experience. We learn to be alone while we have it, and we know how to cherish what we have in solitude, so that we can truly appreciate the breadth and profundity of life, so that the soul can find a balance between possession and solitude, and achieve a fuller and more comfortable state of life.