There is a saying that there is nowhere to find when stepping on iron shoes, and it takes no effort to get it.
When good luck comes, everything can be done easily; If you work a little harder, you can go straight to the top.
However, a person's good luck to go ** finding? Is it really "effortless"?
The ancients said, "Plant melons and get melons, and plant beans and get beans." ”The so-called time to run is actually created by one's own hands, and it is the result of accumulation.
Generally speaking, when a person is lucky, there will be the following signs.
First, meet reliable friends and work together for a win-win situation.
It is recorded in the Spring and Autumn Period of the Lu Dynasty that in the last years of the Xia Dynasty, the king implemented **, and many people expected that the Ji could be pushed off the stage, but there was nothing to be done.
Shang Tang wants to serve the people, but he is not strong enough. Therefore, I found the minister and friend Yi Yin and discussed important matters together. Yi Yin said that he went to Xia Guo to see it in person.
In order to gain Ji's trust, Shang Tang released cruel words and wanted to shoot an arrow at Yi Yin himself. In this way, Yi Yin pretended to be driven away by Shang Tang and lurked by Ji's side.
There is a way to know yourself and your opponent, and you will win all battles.Because he figured out everything about Ji, Shang Tang defeated Ji without much effort.
The ancients said: "Pearls and jades are not as good as good friends, and wealth is better than benevolent friends." ”
No matter how good a person's luck is, it is also a person's luck. Only if the luck of a few friends is focused on you, you can achieve great things. From ancient times to the present day, anyone who sits in a high position has a group of amazing friends.
Liu Bei during the Three Kingdoms period, because of his two friends, Zhang Fei and Guan Yu, took the first step in his life. is a most obvious example.
Friends come, good luck comes; Send charcoal in the snow, winter to spring.
Second, have a good character and be virtuous.
The ancients said, "Water can carry a boat, but it can also overturn a boat." ”
The reason why a person's luck can continue to be amplified is mostly because of his excellent character and has been recognized by everyone.
King Wu of Zhou, the founding monarch of the Western Zhou Dynasty, after he defeated Yin Shang, the first time he did not enjoy the glory and wealth in the palace, but arranged for wise people to manage every inch of land.
He found the minister who was old at the time of Yin Shang, asked about the specific situation, opened the door, and invited the common people to come and talk. Open the storehouse, give to the poor, put the war horses in Huashan, and seal up the weapons and armor.
He often opened the doors of the palace to show all the people the "simple life".
There is such a hexagram in the Book of Changes"The tail of the tiger is the end of the auspicious." ”
If a person is cautious in doing things, considers the feelings of others everywhere, and takes care of everyone's life, he will always be auspicious.
Therefore, a person who is lucky is not selfish, or he has restrained his selfishness and magnified his public heart.
How can a person who sincerely helps others and spends his time and energy at work be unlucky?Even if bad luck comes, it will disappear quickly, because there are many good people around him, and everyone is supporting and supporting him.Your sycamore can attract phoenixes, and you will have a wonderful life with icing on the cake.
Third, we should be able to hear the criticism of others and accumulate wisdom.
There is an African proverb: "A punch from a friend is better than a kiss from an enemy." ”
Only friends will be angry with you and will persuade you bitterly. The enemy will only deceive you and keep you in the dark. Otherwise, there would not be so many people who fell on the "beauty trick".
In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a man named Baili Xi who fled from Yu to Yu, and was sold to Qin and became a cowherd.
Gongsun Zhi, the minister of the Qin State, talked to Baili Xi many times and discovered his talent. So, Gongsun Zhi recommended Baili Xi to Qin Mugong. But it was rejected by Qin Mugong.
Gongsun Zhi said: "If you are really virtuous, how can you look down on a subordinate?"How can you be afraid of being ridiculed?”
Therefore, in Mencius's article, there is a sentence"Baili Xi is in the city. ”
Rather than that, Baili Xi has changed from a "commodity man" who is bought and sold by others to a minister, which is his luck and Qin Mugong's luck. The source of this luck is-Criticism can be heard.
All the spurs are spurring you forward, don't know it's too late. When you get used to being touted, your good luck will be "blown away".
If those harsh words make you angry, you have to calm down, reflect on yourself, and then you can know the good intentions of others. Any social interaction is about authenticity.
Fourth, when encountering an opponent who "lacks morality", contrast yourself.
I like this quote very much"If you are not afraid of a god-like opponent, you are afraid of a pig-like teammate." ”
We are all worried that the opponent is too strong and the teammates are too stupid. But have you ever thought that if you meet an opponent like a pig, won't you be able to succeed quickly?
Of course, it takes wisdom to turn an opponent into a weak person. Smart people can always use their opponents to achieve a better version of themselves.
It is recorded in the Zhuangzi that the great king's father lived in the land, and because the Di people attacked, he took the initiative to give up the land he owned, and then said to his father and fellow villagers: "No matter who rules this land, everyone can live a good life." ”
After saying that, he migrated to Qishan. The people of the land followed him and lived in Qishan. Thus, a new town, formed naturally.
One is to be forcibly possessed, and the other is to be politely three points. Obviously, the compassionate person suffers, but he truly confirms the ancient adage that "suffering is a blessing".
Repaying grievances with straightforwardness and repaying grievances with virtue will make people who lack virtue ashamed of themselves, and will also make their luck better and better. After all, a person of high moral standing will not have too bad luck.
There is a saying that without contrast, there is no harm. When you lose, it's yourself who hurts; If you win, you're hurting someone else.
If you can always outperform others wisely and morally, you will be able to continue to ascend and life will never end.
If a person is lucky, it is not that he has a particularly good opportunity, but that he can "turn a drop of water into a sea".
Make a little progress every day, and you can surpass others in a year; If you make progress all your life, your humanity will shine.
Luck is God's reward for you, but you need to prepare for the winnings.
Relying on friends, life will not be lonely.
Relying on character, life has hole cards.
Relying on criticism, there is no misdirection in life.
Relying on opponents, life can be high.
As long as you are smart enough, everything can be your luck, and the trough is also the starting point of luck.