If life is compared to a long marathon, then the ultimate fight is actually endurance and resilience, so you can't imagine what kind of anti-heaven existence people who are strong enough to "be more and more courageous" in their hearts.
The most difficult thing for people to defeat is often their own demons, so there is a saying of "attacking the heart first", which is like the most tried and tested in the 36 strategies is often the "beauty plan" and "anti-between". As a person, no matter how good your personal ability is, as long as your heart is not strong enough, then you will have weaknesses and weaknesses as a person. I don't know if the friends who often watch news broadcasts have noticed that those national leaders who appear on the TV, their facial expressions are almost the same serious, and they are always a calm and breezy poker face, if there is no such cultivation, how can they become the top of the Blue Star food chain?
Those who are afraid of being stunned, those who are stunned are afraid of dying, and the one who takes the lead and is more serious will often become the loser side of the game, and if we understand this, we should know the importance of cultivating the mind.
Frustration education, especially when children are young, let them experience setbacks, give them the opportunity to make mistakes and correct their mistakes, rather than blindly encouraging them to be good children who obey the words of teachers and parents, this should be the greatest spiritual wealth that our parents can give their children.
I remember that when I was a child, I often made mistakes, all kinds of naughty and mischievous and thick-skinned, often made mistakes and was left behind, punished but still able to talk and laugh, so at that time my mother had to go to school several times a week to be trained. But what still surprises me is that my irritable mother is not as brainless as she usually does at home, but more often than not, she is amused by my naughty behavior, which makes the teacher and the parents of the complaining classmates cry and laugh. When I came out, my mother said that it is the nature of children to be naughty and mischievous, and I don't like that kind of young and old obedient child.
I don't know if you have ever thought about it, do parents like the kind of good children who are excellent in character and learning, and they are worry-free and have face. But have they ever thought that behind this long-term mature and sensible behavior that surpasses their peers, it is often a sensitive and frustrating heart. Just as those young genius prodigies often grow up to achieve nothing, and even suffer from mental illness, the seedlings that are promoted by childhood are often left behind by the child's life, and the high achievement satisfaction point formed by the super high starting point of childhood is like drug addiction, which often confuses the child's immature heart.