A deep performance of a person's city
1.Seemingly lively and straightforward: Cheerful and direct when personal interests are not involved, but become cautious when personal interests are involved.
2.Good at clichés: Obtain information from others through conversation, so that the other party unconsciously reveals more.
3.Good at winning people's hearts: taking self-interest as the core, establishing and maintaining a personal social circle.
4.Good at creating a persona: carefully maintain personal image, and be able to skillfully deal with problems when encountered, so that people are difficult to blame.
5.knows how to pretend and know how to act: on the surface, it seems to be simple and harmless, but in fact, he is very clear about his goals and plans.
6.Seeing through others and taking advantage of them at the right time: In order not to arouse jealousy or hostility, sometimes deliberately give in or praise others.
7.Be social: Deepen relationships by helping and thanking each other.
8.Rationality: control emotions, do not let emotions affect decision-making, and be able to cooperate and judge the situation reasonably.
9.Concealment: Think long-term, do not destroy the overall situation on impulse, and hide emotions even if there is hostility.
10.Ruthless: can act decisively when necessary, at the expense of face to achieve the goal.
11.Know how to behave in the world: occupy the moral high ground, make it difficult for the other party to refute or feel wrong.
12.Sensual and careful: Able to perceive the meaning and micro-expressions of others, so as to understand the real thoughts of the other person.
13.Know how to keep your mouth shut: Don't easily communicate with others, protect your privacy and weaknesses.
14.Don't make enemies: As long as others don't threaten your core interests, you will be friendly.
15.Don't make judgments casually: listen more and talk less, and be logical and emotionally persuasive when expressing opinions.
16.Do not actively make enemies.
You can see the relationship of interests clearly, as long as the other party does not damage its own core.
17.Warm on the outside.
The surface is pleasant, the smile is always there, and the politeness is good, but the heart is unmoved and ready to take charge.
18.Endure the pain.
Mentally mature, encountering difficulties, able to manage emotions well, and adjust their state in time.
19.The surface is silent.
The brain thinks about the crisis and the surface is light, the brain is running at high speed, keep calm, analyze the situation, and deal with problems.
20.Work on it secretly.
When the opportunity came, others were just ready to work hard, but she was already ready to enter at any time.
From a metaphysical point of view, as long as you can calm down, it will be easier to get what you want. There is a predestination in fate that you can't imagine, that is, whether a thing can be successful or not depends largely on the strength of your beliefs, that is, the more you believe in yourself, the closer you are to success. But most people are in a situation where they are doubting while doing it, essentially questioning themselves and confronting themselves.
When the qi is quiet, the heart is calm, and the mind is quiet in order to perceive the truth. You see that those masters like to play Tai Chi, and the low hands are always too anxious. What you have to understand is that if the general trend is good, you may not be good, and if the general trend is bad, you may not be good. Don't look at the outside world, the first thing is to keep your heart first.
People's hearts should be like bamboo forests, rustling in the face of trouble, and calm as usual in an instant. Solving problems with tantrums is called being young and frivolous, and those who can handle things calmly are called big things.