The more stable the kernel, the stronger the attraction
1.The kernel is stable and is a source of self-confidence:
The core actually refers to the fact that the core ideas and willpower of one's own psychology are very firm, and they will not be easily influenced by others or self-doubt, and they will not change themselves because of the negation of others, and they will not be depressed because of failure. It is precisely because the heart has enough strength and self-confidence that a sufficiently calm and stable heart is born.
No matter how the outside world changes, the core of the white self will never change.
2.The stable kernel adheres to the "long-termism°
The flowing water does not compete for the first, but the competition is endless.
In fact, endurance is more precious than explosiveness in the marathon, often focusing on explosive work, it is easy to consume enthusiasm, we must understand that all greatness is ordinary day by day, to optimize in execution, trial and error within the ability and growth, plus day after day perseverance rather than torture efforts.
3.Stabilize the kernel and reject internal friction:
The most typical state of internal friction is to spend a lot of time and energy thinking about things that have not happened at all or have passed, so you are tired every day, but you don't do anything every day.
4.People with a stable core are more emotionally stable:
People with a stable core will never be infected or provoked by the bad emotions of the outside world, they rarely have disputes with others, and they will never even vent their bad emotions in front of others, because they know that their bad emotions are not helpful to solve the problem, and when something happens, find a way to solve it.
People who overthink will only make themselves overly anxious, and sometimes thinking too much will only make themselves confused.
How did the strong come over?
1: The most powerful thing for you is always that time when life is worse than death, that is when you watch yourself being torn apart, and then reorganize yourself with your own hands, never get close to demons, and never become an angel.
2: From the moment you no longer rely on feelings, no longer believe in morality, and no longer recognize equality, the heart will be truly strong.
3: The mouth is getting tighter and tighter, the gift-giving is getting more and more ruthless, the execution is getting stronger and stronger, but the speech is getting slower and slower.
4: Don't be more serious, there are really no answers to many things, they are all confused accounts, and being more honest has no effect except to make you tired.
5: I see, if the body is not bitter, the blessing is not thick. If the heart is not bitter, wisdom will not be opened.
6: In essence, people and trees are similar, and the more they yearn for the sunlight in the heights, the more their roots reach out to the dark underground.
7: Looking directly at human nature, collapsing the three views, losing faith, walking on thin ice, struggling, accepting calmly, not being sad or happy is the whole process of growing up.
8: Understand the importance of qian, in the final analysis, there is only one kind of disease, and that is the disease of poverty. The best medicine in the world, one is red envelopes, the other is banknotes, as long as the money is in place, everything is right.
9: Patience, you are anxious and anxious to get the result, far less thoughtful than God's arrangement, everything comes and goes.
10: Refuse to assimilate, stay away from those around you who release negative emotions, they don't have the ability to do it themselves, and they feel that others are also spicy chickens. No matter what, you must leave the circle that thinks you are poor, afraid that you are rich, hates you for being strong, laughs at you for being weak, bites each other, and has bad intentions.
1i: Learn to shut up, don't debunk what you know, it doesn't matter if he's a dog or not, the important thing is that we have to be human.
12: People often only see the phoenix reborn, but turn a blind eye to its struggles in the fiery purgatory, and the result means everything. The process is difficult, and you can only know yourself.
13: But all those who are rich and noble must go through twists and turns, and those who have a smooth life must be those who do nothing.
No one knows how dark the road you have traveled is, and they will just say that you have changed a lot.