Marriage is not only a symbol of two people who love each other coming together, but also a great examination of friendship, family affection and interpersonal relationships.
At this particular moment, we sometimes find that:A friend with an average relationship arrived, but a friend with a good relationship didn't arriveNot to share our joy.
This can't help but make us think: should we continue to associate with those friends who can't get married?
On this question, I would like to answer"Yes", everyone still needs to continue to socialize. There are three reasons for this:
First, first of all, we need to understand that everyone has their own way of life and values. Marriage has different meanings and importances for everyone.
Some people may not be able to attend our wedding due to various reasons, such as work, family, or other force majeure factors. Not as you wish, everyone can overcome all difficulties, and they don't care about big things, just come to your wedding.
For friends in such a situation, not coming does not mean that they do not value our feelings or are hostile to our marriage. Therefore, we should be understanding and tolerant, and not easily dismiss years of friendship because of one absence.
Second, we also need to recognize that the absence of some friends may indeed reflect their attitudes towards our relationship. At critical moments in life, true friends will be willing to let go of what they are doing to accompany and support us.
If some friend is indifferent to our wedding and doesn't even say a word of blessing, then it is clear that you are not important in his life at all.
When you are not rude or festive to your friend in all aspects, the friend's indifference is a signal to break off the relationship. Everyone is very busy, so there is no need to rush in the future.
Thirdly, it is necessary to recall whether before getting married, when you send invitations to friends, you seem too casual and not sincere enough, so that the other party feels that you do not value him very much, and you call him to make up the numbers, so you can't get angry.
Indeed, there are some friends who are sensitive in their hearts, and they will also judge the importance of him in your heart at such a moment.
If you don't usually associate with each other, and the other party likes you very much, then your wedding will be the beginning of a close friendship.
We can't generalize that all absent friends are not worth socializing. After all, every stage of life has different experiences and encounters, and marriage is only a starting point in life, not an end.
Regardless of whether all our friends are present at our wedding, we should cherish the happiness and beauty in front of us and spend the years to come together.
And those friends who are truly worth making will also continue to appear and grow in our lives.
Friends who can't get married can readjust the weight of these people in your life according to their own circumstances. Testimony of friendship