Modern interpretation of filial piety Long-term care for the elderly can not be blindly followed!
After graduation, students must enter the society to study and work independently, in order to find a stable job and reduce the overall financial burden of their parents and families.
But today, in the case of a surplus of talents in all walks of life, the number of college students is increasing, which makes it more difficult to graduate, coupled with the serious problem of population aging, the situation of college students has become more embarrassing, and it is difficult to find an ideal job.
In order to effectively alleviate the problem of population aging, the relevant departments have introduced a lot of policies, such as the three-child policy, calling on the new generation of young people after 90 to rush to have three children, due to the cost of education and the economic pressure of the post-90s, parents did not listen to the policy regulations, most young people dare not blindly raise children, afraid that they have spent money but are not able to raise children.
Last advice: When children return to filial piety, they should not serve the elderly alone for too long, the truth is still very realistic.
After graduating from college students, not only do they have to support themselves, but also shoulder the burden of supporting their families after a few years, basically they are old and young, as early as the 90s of the last century, they already know how to take care of the two old people on both sides, which is a huge financial burden.
In China,"Filial piety"It has always been the most important principle, no matter when, the most important thing is to take care of your parents, accompany your parents when they are old, and use your filial piety to assist your parents College students due to their higher education level, know how to be a person and filial piety, parents reach the age of students, and will silently take on the responsibility and burden of taking care of the economy in the future, but there are also many people who have heard that their children have filial piety, and it is not recommended to do so for a long time, but many students are worried that even if their children have filial piety, It is also not advisable to live with or serve the elderly for a long time.
Case study: Zhenzhen also has an older brother at home, and his mother originally planned to let his brother care for the elderly at home, but he didn't expect his mother to cry and call Zhenzhen, saying that his brother abused him, which made Zhenzhen very angry, but he didn't expect his brother to abuse his biological parents so much.
Whenever we come home on vacation or Jenny comes home, we will feel the joy of mother's love and filial piety. At first, we thought that our mother could enjoy more intimate care in her later years, but after a while, we realized that not everything was as simple as we thought.
After her mother and Zhenzhen cried, Zhenzhen was taken to live in her own house by her mother, after a period of serving the elderly, she gradually figured out her daughter's temperament, every day she would ask her daughter to make some nutritious meals, and even every night she needed a massage to **, and at night she had to enjoy her daughter's special care services alone.
But every time his daughter's service slows down, the old man will start counting him down and not letting him and his children live with her husband, and then Jane realizes that her mother is always bullied by her younger brother and older brother at home, and they will beat ** to cry.
Seeing this scene, he really realized that he was wrong to blame his brother, and the old man wanted his children to take care of him, so he couldn't help but scold each other in front of his children, and as a result, he pushed his children farther and farther away.
Many young people, seeing such a case, also fell into contemplation, it seems that they are also facing such a situation, in the learning process of students, parents predicted that the future of students will be filial to their parents, since childhood to know the gratitude of students, then in adulthood is obliged to be filial to their parents, parents will also give them enough security and love environment since childhood, in such an environment to grow up, students are duty-bound! More filial piety, more satisfaction of trying to repay your parents.
However, students with strong independence have independent thinking ability and economic acumen during their school years, and do not need to worry about their parents, they are very self-disciplined in life and study, and they will become accessories of their parents when they grow up.
Parents want to let primary school students better filial piety to their parents in the process of growing up, they need to set a good example for them, if parents are not filial, how can they play a guiding role in primary school students, parents and students are complementary to each other.