Long Yingtai said that a person's taste, morality, and intelligence together determine the person's cultural accumulation, which in turn affects how he treats himself, others, and the natural environment in which he lives.
Therefore, with the accumulation of life experience, it is easy for a person to have the illusion that "I am mature". Actually, it's notThe best maturity should be naivety
Last night, I dreamed that I and my friends were still in high school, and that beautiful feeling made me reluctant to fall asleep after waking up at 3 a.m.
It's nice to be young, but now I can only go back in my dreams.
So, what exactly do we have to go through to become adults?
To be trapped by the ordinary, to apologize for accidents, to get used to the repetition of the stars and the moon, to know the vulnerability, to be able to resist the ...... of the future changes
I have always felt that rural children, the eldest in the family, are already very sensible as early as fifteen or sixteen years old; I mistakenly thought it was maturity at the time, but now I realize that when I reach the age of thirty, I am not necessarily very mature; It's just that in a trance, he has become the adult he once longed for.
However, it was not easy for people to grow up, and I learned about ...... later
I like a poem by the Russian poet Balmont:"I came into this world for the sake of the sun. ”That's why I want to live like the sun and shine on the world with passion and purity.
The famous psychologist Carl Jung once said: ". .You don't even have the idea of changing someone. To learn to be like the sun, just emit light and heat, everyone reacts differently when receiving sunlight, some people feel harsh, some people feel warm, and some people even avoid the sun. There is no sign of the seed before it breaks the ground and germinates, because it is not at that point in time. Only you are your own savior.
Everyone is a traveler walking on the road of their own life, and will choose the pace and direction of life according to what they want, think, and feel.
Mencius once said that if you are poor, you will be good to yourself, and if you are good, you will help the world. It means that no matter in adversity or good, people should first cultivate their self-cultivation in order to do good deeds with their own hearts.
A person's maturity or not should not only be judged from the things he has achieved, but should be judged by what path he has chosen and what baggage he has let go. Only oneself is one's own savior, and when the seed breaks through the ground alone, it does not seek the approval of others, but only cares about its own growth, not for others, only for itself.
Everything in the world has its own way of growth, everything has its meaning and value of existence, "flowers are not red, grass is not green, you don't see, people's hearts are light and light", we don't need to force change, nor do we need to dodge, just like the sun, emit light and heat, so that every person who is warm in the sun can feel it.
Innocence is not the simplicity of not knowing the world, nor is it the opposite of being sophisticated and sleek. It is the cycle of life, and in the old man who has insight into the red dust, there can also be an innocent soul like a child.
Innocence is a choice after ups and downs, and there have been confusions, angers, and unwillingness in life, but they have chosen to reconcile with unpleasant things and return to the original heart of human beings.
In this life, the most difficult thing to reach is innocence.
And we, "all we can do is to return to the truth after a long journey." ”